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Human beings have turned slaves to their beliefs, thereby making them derail from what they actually are or ought to be. 

Our belief is so powerful more than we can envisage, and if we are not careful we will remain in a particular level when others are moving forward. 

Some set of people will say that because in their family then don't go to higher institutions therefore, his/her own possibility of gaining admission into University is so unimaginable. 

Some will also say that in their own family they don't get good jobs, because of that he/she need not border him/herself looking for one. 

Some will say, they are barren in their family, so, they need not get their own man let alone having their dream children. 

Have you forgotten that there is something called "first"?

In everything there is a first, because those you are comparing yourself with didn't get it right doesn't mean you will not also get it right. 

Circumstances and what you put in differs. The level at which they stopped might be the beginning of your own strength. 

Don't let yourself be tied down by wrong beliefs, remember, you are not them and neither were you destined equally. 

You have to act at times as if you are different from some set of people you are comparing yourself with. 

This issue is like someone in the university going out with those that doesn't take their education seriously. They do all sorts when they suppose to be preparing hard for distinction or at least credit, tell me, is such person not preparing to fail? 

Though he might have plan B towards attaining good grades, but the possibility of such person's failure is more than the success rate.

We have seen some other people who still go out with those very brilliant in school, yet, they failed, it happens. You need to ask such people what they did wrong apart from what they do when they have their friends around. 

You need to be positive in your beliefs.

You need to aim high and work harder towards achieving your aim(s)

Don't be positive minded like your predecessors, and don't get tired or discouraged easily which might be where someone else got it all wrong.

Don't hold yourself down with bad belief because you are destined for greatness. 

Conclusively, you must not do anything without acknowledging your creator(God) be it Christian or Islam. He might be the only factor others didn't put into consideration that is causing failure. 

When you have tried every available links and you still didn't get it right, just try your God the author and finisher of faith. 

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