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12 Problems Of Marrying A Working Class Lady Bisi Adewale by Olabode09: 9:21am On Sep 03, 2015
12 PROBLEMS OF MARRYING A WORKING CLASS LADY
Bisi Adewale
While there is nothing wrong in marrying a working class lady, in fact they help in augment the family income, but it has many negative aspect of it that I want all Men to know and prepare for if you plan to marry a working class lady and if you are already married to one of them, don't think she is just been wicked, by behaving in some ways, see the negative effect of marrying a working class lady here:

1) SHE LEAVES HOME EARLY
A working woman that need to get to the office by 7.30 will need to leave home early, in some cases as early as 5am,this will be serious on her family, sorry, you may need to take your Child to Crèche yourself.

2) SHE WILL ARRIVE HOME LATE FROM WORK
In the cities, a lady that closes 6pm may not get home until 9pm daily, this is always terrible for men that married them.

3) WILL HAVE LITTLE TIME FOR YOU AND CHILDREN:
With this go-out-early, come-home-late syndrome, I need not tell you that an average working class wife, do have very little time for her Children.

4) WILL COOK LESS AT HOME
Forget eating your wife meal regularly, you may enjoy that may be on Saturday or Sunday, but eateries may need to help during the week or you have to jump in to the kitchen as a "full time house husband"

5) YOU WILL NEED TO EAT SUPPER BY 11pm If she arrives home 9pm everyday, if you can not cook, then you will need to wait for her to eat your dinner by 11pm.

6) LESS CASUAL AT HOME
They tend to get serious at home, the way they are in the office, they don't have time for "frivolities" ,spending time with you or visiting your family

7) OFFICE PROBLEMS WILL COME HOME WITH HER: When a working class lady has problem in the office, her husband should ready for it at home, and forget s*x for that period, she practically not in the mood. Sorry oo.

cool FORGET EARLY MORNING SEX: Expert says, early in the morning is the best time to enjoy s*x as all sexual hormones are at their best at that time. sorry, you may not enjoy that as your wife is rushing out in the morning, to make it to the office before 8am,so pity you early morning s*x is not for you Monday to Friday. Saturday morning she want to sleep more, Sunday morning she is on her way to Church.

9) REDUCED MID WEEK SEX: Expect many "Not tonight darling" "cant you understand dear" "my head, my back is paining me" from her. She is always tired, spending hours in the traffic to and from the office, working many hours under a boss that has no good word for her simply means, she is drained of every energy in her for sex. Pity you, you need her badly.

10) MAY BE PROUD: Some in the top most position can be proud, since she controls many men like you in the office and may be she makes more money than you, unless she is well brought up, she will struggle for the control of the leadership of the home with you, just the way she plays office politics.

11) YOU ARE NOT MARRIED BETWEEN 7am-5pm MONDAY TO FRIDAY: Of course you know you are "not married" between the hours of 7am - 5pm,somebody else own your wife at that period, she may not even be allowed to pick her calls in some organizations like banks.

12) MORE PRONE TO OFFICE ROMANCE
A working class lady is more prone to office romance. She spends more time with guys who are always well dressed, they work together, share their minds and issues, if she not a discipline type she can easily fall into the hands of office play boys.

http://www.familyparliament.com/1896/12-problems-of-marrying-a-working-class-lady-bisi-Adewale

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Re: 12 Problems Of Marrying A Working Class Lady Bisi Adewale by RemyMartins(m): 9:22am On Sep 03, 2015
hmmmmmn
Re: 12 Problems Of Marrying A Working Class Lady Bisi Adewale by BeeBeeOoh(m): 9:24am On Sep 03, 2015
One thing is for sure, I Will Never Marry A House Wife

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Re: 12 Problems Of Marrying A Working Class Lady Bisi Adewale by Captainswag225(m): 9:37am On Sep 03, 2015
it changes nothing.... There are many housewives who do nothing at home. The house helps are there to help when the working class wife isnt around.


Sex can be at the weekends with the working class wife.

Whats nicer than spending the weekend with ur working class wife and kidz, having some family time together.


Cooking together in the kitchen and having make up sex?


If u truly love ur wife, it wont bother u if she works late.

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Re: 12 Problems Of Marrying A Working Class Lady Bisi Adewale by Nobody: 9:37am On Sep 03, 2015
I like a woman that challenges me career wise in other words I prefer a career wife

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Re: 12 Problems Of Marrying A Working Class Lady Bisi Adewale by Nobody: 9:40am On Sep 03, 2015
Summary of your writeup Op?

That woman shouldn't work? In order words, they shouldn't bother schooling too? undecided.. mtcheeewww

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Re: 12 Problems Of Marrying A Working Class Lady Bisi Adewale by FruityLass: 9:46am On Sep 03, 2015
So pesin shouldn't work again undecided

Op should get himself a village uneducated girl as wife....period!

If ladies no work...u guys would complain that lady are gold-diggers who lean on you guys to survive...

Abegi

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Re: 12 Problems Of Marrying A Working Class Lady Bisi Adewale by Rukkydelta(f): 9:47am On Sep 03, 2015
Anything that has advantage always have a disadvantage
Re: 12 Problems Of Marrying A Working Class Lady Bisi Adewale by Captainswag225(m): 9:49am On Sep 03, 2015
people like the o.p are control freaks in marriages.

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Re: 12 Problems Of Marrying A Working Class Lady Bisi Adewale by DrObum(m): 10:50am On Sep 03, 2015
OP you just signed up to be bashed.






I rather marry a woman that's working offshore sef than have a housewife!




You've not looked at the disadvantages of having a housewife.

1. They can nag eeeh cos they aren't much busy. The working class woman is begging for time to rest and doesn't have much time to nag.

2. They'll suspect your every move cos boredom at home makes them think that every female around is a partner in infidelity. The working class woman knows you still have female colleagues and wouldn't bother you much.

3. The housewife even when busy, does the same routine of domestic chores and there's nothing to make her use her brain constructively, believe me, this manifests in other areas of their lives.

4. I tell people, working doesn't only pay your bills, it makes you exposed in life. You can't ever beat an exposed person when it comes to solving tasks. So the working class almost always wins!



NB: I'm not married and before you disagree with me and tongue-lash me, just know that it's an opinion I got from observing many homes. grin

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Re: 12 Problems Of Marrying A Working Class Lady Bisi Adewale by NifemiOlu(m): 11:11am On Sep 03, 2015
Chilling out on this thread

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