OlufemiOAP:
Hey Guys
Pls there is This girl I have been crushing on for a very
Long time .Due to my shyness I kept crushing on for about a year .But as time went by ,I summoned Courage to Ask her outTo my amazement, She told me she already has her guy .
I still kept on persuading her .But to cut the story short. She later said Yes to me .But ever since then she has been acting really funny .Anytime I cal,l her all she will say on phone is just "ok" "nothing" To Proof to you check our chat below

Homguy:
lmao

First off, How old are you Op?

Second: sorry to break it to you this way, you are in a relationship with yourself.

Thirdl: you must be extremely wasteful, or a dependant. You sent such an ingrate money, she didn't thank you for it, acted like she did you a favour receiving your money, yet you are planning to spend more to her. I won't you any harsh words to night, but you areare

Like I earlier said, you are in no relationship, hence its time you move to find a decent girl for yourself. if you are old enough that is. Rather, if you are moture enough, cause those screen shots tell tales of an immature mind searching desperately for love, regardless of your age.

OlufemiOAP:
You see D thin is Am 19 u get (old snuff)
But its not even up to 2 weeks since we started dating
Y shud she say yes when she knew shd isn't interested?

Homguy:
you probably pestered her seriously or she said yes after feeling guilty about the money you sent her.
Years ago in the University, I had this church girl I was head over hills with. She was my fellowship member, so I started pestering her, sending texts, despite her telling me sh wants no commitment as she had a boy friend tho they weren't on good terms. I took her out every Sunday after fellowship and bought her gifts from my meagre pocket money. On the long run she agreed, but that was my worst relationship ever.

1. She never ever got jealous seeing me with other ladies(bad sign)
2. We couldn't hold hands in public, she would complain and take hers away.
3. We only kissed once.
4. I often begged her to send me love text messages throughout the 6months charade.
5. There wasn't WhatsApp or bbm then, so we never really chatted.
6. I had to beg her severely anytime I wanted to see her. More, I foolishly sent her credit every two days.

From that relationship, I learnt, its always a bad idea to start spending too much early on in a relationship. She has to prove self worth and commitment before you let your pockets open.(you can still take her out tho, but to low cost outings). Be sure she loves you, not your money, or the fact you are pestering.
Bro, give her time. Ignore her like she doesn't exist. Do not break off the relationship, however, disconnect all communication. In a few weeks she might still check on you, you should ignore that as well. Do not bother sending any cash again even credit. Don't try to buy her love,man. She would just eat you for fun.

Addendum: Need I mention that my ex of yester years came to stay over last weekend?, though engaged, she didn't lemme know until she was about leaving. Fact is, free her she might still come running back to you or not, doesn't matter. Just focus on life and get other ladies. Don't over spend too early bro. Toodles.

Sorry for the Epistle.

misspicy:
IamLEGEND1,Na ijaboiy Please come and help this young man,because even I pities him

Kai I dey vex jare!

All these guys just dey fall hands. At the end he will discover it's just a stupid crush he's having on the girl.

Mtcheew!

misspicy:
IàmLEGEND,Naijabóiy Please come and help this young man,because even I pities him