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Handling Rejection by curious121(m): 5:12pm On May 03, 2009
Just a curious thought, I've heard of many cases of guys on campus, in particular cultist guys who have tried to woo a particular girl who also attends their school but if rejected, result in stalking, raping and even beating the girl until perhaps she succumbs to his proposals or maybe he just did it to 'teach her a lesson'. Is this kind of behaviour often 'helpful' in terms of the guy getting what he wants? Have you heard of any cases similar to this or even been in a situation like this? Plus, what exactly are your thoughts on such ways of handling rejection?
Re: Handling Rejection by smurf1(f): 5:13pm On May 03, 2009
I've never come across a cultist, thank God, so i really can't be of help, sorry, embarassed
Re: Handling Rejection by toxicguy: 5:15pm On May 03, 2009
be a man.
Re: Handling Rejection by curious121(m): 5:17pm On May 03, 2009
@smurf
no problem at all

@toxic
and by that you mean?
Re: Handling Rejection by iice(f): 6:14pm On May 03, 2009
curious121:

Just a curious thought, I've heard of many cases of guys on campus, in particular cultist guys who have tried to woo a particular girl who also attends their school but if rejected, result in stalking, raping and even beating the girl until perhaps she succumbs to his proposals or maybe he just did it to 'teach her a lesson'. Is this kind of behaviour often 'helpful' in terms of the guy getting what he wants? Have you heard of any cases similar to this or even been in a situation like this? Plus, what exactly are your thoughts on such ways of handling rejection?

What do you mean helpful?
Haven't heard such cases though i'm not surprised - people have thin skin and even lesser self-esteem or should i saw overblown thinking of self worth.
As for handling it? - Take it in stride, we all face rejections of some sort in our lives, na today? undecided
Re: Handling Rejection by curious121(m): 1:37am On May 04, 2009
@iice
Helpful as in did it 'do the trick', thanks for the input.
Re: Handling Rejection by Magz(m): 2:02am On May 04, 2009
LMAO

WTF?
Re: Handling Rejection by iice(f): 1:48pm On May 04, 2009
curious121:

@iice
Helpful as in did it 'do the trick', thanks for the input.

Do what trick?
Re: Handling Rejection by luxoire(f): 2:16pm On May 04, 2009
word iice!!

some men esp those with over-sized over pampered wrapped in cotton wool all their lives ego - need to take it as onbe of those things in life - wettin?!! if babe deny you, shebi u sef don reject someone else b4? as for those that use RAPE, THREATS or VIOLENCE then they had beetr re-think cos that makes them even less of a man - the woman will forever look down on you as nothing more than a coward and a bully - go pick on someone your own strength and YOU NEMESIS WILL SURELY CATCH UP WITH YOU

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