During my days in NYSC camp in Nsit Attai camp in Akwaibom State one of the kits we were given was jungle shoes. My platoon officer was so kind that he gives you the uniform without paying attention to sizes and will not dare change it for you even though your legs can't get into those shoes.
People now started looking for persons who had their sizes to exchange, one thing was sure, I saw many people especially ladies who had my size but the one I had was too big that no one needed it. And so I knew that it takes more than getting someone with your exact shoe size to do the exchange, you just need to have theirs too.

This is the matter in marriage too. I see people go crazy on seeing a very beautiful, homely, well behaved, generous, intelligent and prayerful lady. They say she is the woman of their dreams. They just use all manner of ways to try and convince the lady. They even try to blackmail her when she says no.

So because you saw a man /woman of your dream, you feel the person must be DREAMLESS? How pathetic.
Everyone's taste buds aren't the same and that is why our preferred meals vary.... It as well varies thus in marriage.
Please don't accept a person because you have his shoe size and needs an exchange in a hurry. Look carefully at his own shoes to know if your legs can fit into them.

Check her reasoning shoe size.
Check her beliefs size.
Check her spiritual maturity shoe size.

If you don't.... Your feet won't safety walk into some places in future or you may continually get hurt by marriage broken - bottles when you do.
Don't let anyone sweet mouth you, compatibility is so important in marriage and unfortunately many pay less attention to it.

If you are a farmer you don't need someone that sees only food in every corn, you need someone that sees seed in corns too so you will have something to plant. And if you have a custard making company you don't need a partner that sees seed in every corn, you need some one that sees processed custard in every corn before he or she plants your raw material. One thing I feel, check the both shoes! Yes the both!! Don't be mindful of who has yours only, this is the root cause of nagging partners!!! For even though, yet you irritate them.

FROM: DoNJoESbRY

You can't 'slim-fit' a shoe. Be warned.

Op! Nice one!

What a lovely write-up.

Have a great day OP

bukatyne:
What a lovely write-up.
Have a great day OP

Thanks and u too

Nice one

extwoo:
You can't 'slim-fit' a shoe. Be warned.

U ARE RYT BRO.....

DATS Y ONE NEEDS TO GET THEIR SIZE AND ALSO HV D SIZE DAT FITS THEIR PARTNER

Nice write up..man..very nice..our gals need to knw dt its not all about marrying dt rich ready-made guy....they need to check compatibility..odawise..al ds cheating nd divorce stories..wld never end...
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Like we don't know?

lilmax:
Like we don't know?

are u married?

Nice one.

In the end marriage isn’t about happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come. Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.

Commit to being an EPIC LOVER. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize.

downed:
Nice write up..man..very nice..our gals need to knw dt its not all about marrying dt rich ready-made guy....they need to check compatibility..odawise..al ds cheating nd divorce stories..wld never end...
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Some women have pretty much priced themselves out of the marriage market.

The cost, benefit, and risk analysis rules out marriage.

Ever increasing investment in a depreciating asset isn’t viable.

Tell this to ladies who think because they are 30 years of age, and the society demands a hubby from them, they can simply wear any marriage shoes or accept any Tom, Diick and Harry.

Not like its any of my business though. Every woman to er life

baibijay:
Tell this to ladies who think because they are 30 years of age, and the society demands a hubby from them, they can simply wear any marriage shoes or accept any Tom, Diick and Harry.

Not like its any of my business though. Every woman to er life

lol.....bros u dey vex oo.......any woman annoy u?

Insightful