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| Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by Nikky23: 9:40am On May 26, 2009 |
I had a misunderstanding with the love of my life and we broke up for over a month now, until recently I sent him an email message, about me missing him and all and some pictures of me which I'm regretting I shouldn't have but it's done. I'm now thinking the pictures I did send compared to how I look in person were not so great or the best. I'm now feeling that these may drive him away further from me maybe when he looks at the pictures or something. The pictures are ok but not the best, we know sometimes we are not so photogenic compared to how we look in person. Is it possible these may drive him away further? I'm just thinking. |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by JJYOU: 9:46am On May 26, 2009 |
Nikky23:and this is your first post on NL. i dont know if the pics will drive him away have you not met him in person? |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by Nobody: 9:50am On May 26, 2009 |
do u mind posting d pix for us to judge |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by Nikky23: 9:54am On May 26, 2009 |
JJYOU: I know the question sounds silly but I dont now why im thinking this way. Oh yes, we were in a relationship for over 2years, Maybe im lacking confidence or low self esteem now since the break up, i would have wanted something so so so great to let him know im doing well and looking much more better but i feel the pics were ok, normal but i look much better in person. |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by patwhizkid(f): 9:55am On May 26, 2009 |
@ camelot i gat ya back! |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by Nikky23: 9:58am On May 26, 2009 |
camelot: I wish I could but I dont think it is necessary on here. The pics are nice but the way I'm feeling, like they are not the best or look just normal compared to me in person, nothing new or spectacular in the pics in my eyes that shows something different. Maybe because I feel low, i think that's he way he would see me in the pictures when i am actually doing better off in person. |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by iice(f): 9:59am On May 26, 2009 |
Nikky23: Nikky23: Are you missing him or not? You said you sent him an email missing him, so your not so 'best' pics should reflect how much you miss him. After 2 years of dating, i would think he knows what you look like  whether 'best'/ 'ok' or 'not best' |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by Nikky23: 10:07am On May 26, 2009 |
iice: Yes i miss him. Honestly even before i wrote on here, i knew my question would sound silly, I really don't know why I'm thinking this way, maybe because it's after the break up and want him to see me looking much more better not just ok in he pics and want to make sure I wont drive him away further by actions from me after the break up. But Thanks to those that have contributed to this and answered me. |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by bblacky(f): 10:17am On May 26, 2009 |
it wont scare him ok, |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by Nikky23: 10:26am On May 26, 2009 |
bblacky: I hope so lol, I dont even know why I should be feeling this way. |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by Nikky23: 10:37am On May 26, 2009 |
camelot: Except u want me to show you sum of the pics personally rather than advertising them on here. |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by biina: 10:42am On May 26, 2009 |
<sees no pics, leaves thread disappointed> |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by oyinda3(f): 1:20am On Jun 10, 2009 |
lol. funny topic if u were together for 2 yrs i don't think he would care . lol what drove him away in the first instance?? |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by OgidiBoy(m): 1:24am On Jun 10, 2009 |
Let's see the pics  |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by oyinda3(f): 1:27am On Jun 10, 2009 |
and y r u so obsessed w/ ppl's pics |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by OgidiBoy(m): 1:29am On Jun 10, 2009 |
My dear are you not just curious to see the pic that is causing all this drama  |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by Sissy3(f): 1:29am On Jun 10, 2009 |
your bf has seen you before physically with or without makeup. so why should you be worrying about him being put off by your supposedly worst pic? I'd think that will be the least of his problems. everyone has their worst picture day just like everyone have their worst hair day, so why the fuss? i think you should be worrying about getting him off your mind, if you are done with him instead of sitting there and thinking about what he might think of your picture. though it seems like you still have feelings for him. |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by Nikky23: 1:33am On Jun 10, 2009 |
This is old news now. Thanks all though. @Oyinda, just regular couple's argument. @Sissy, yes maybe i was just overwhelmed or something but it's fine now. |
| Re: Could These Drive Him Away Further More? by oyinda3(f): 1:34am On Jun 10, 2009 |
so what's the update?  r u now back together |
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