Good evening NL.
I'm a young lady studying a beautiful course in one of Nigeria's prestigious federal university.

It took me three trials before i could get the course i wanted,so i made a promise to myself that i'd study hard to become one of the best graduates from my Course.

It all started when this guy walked up to me when i was at the cafeteria to get some snacks.
He said i looked familar and after some enquiries i discovered he was an old secondary school mate of mine. We clicked,started talking and went home together (we both live off campus).

The next day,we both went to the library to read and i was uncomfortable when i found out he was looking at me the whole time.
I asked why he wasn't reading and he suggested we chill out somewhere else.
Later that day,he ended up telling me he liked me.

Fast forward to today,and he was avoiding me throughout the class.
I decided to find out why and he said it's because i had been in his thoughts all night and he was trying to get me out.


We ended up walking together, and even fighting (i still don't know why).
He told me he likes me and wants to date me.
To be sincere, i kinda feel the same way, but i don't want to rush things and end up in a mess so i just kept on arguing with him about some trivial things.

We boarded a shuttle bus,and he was angry at me (for not obliging him). I went to where he was seated and asked what the problem was.
When he wasn't answering,i placed his hand on my shoulder.
He drew me closer and tried to kiss me but i resisted because i think everything's happening too fast.

But i think i hurt him because of what i did.
Dear NLanders,please i need genuine answers. Is what i did wrong? Am i just in lust or love? How can i effectively manage this feelings if its true love?

Thanks.

All these freshers sef



Well she'll soon learn like the others

Sweetie, I'm not sure if you are in love but it seems like you really really like him.

The only problem is, 'does he really really like you too'?
Normally from a man's attitude, I can tell if he's interested in sex or me.

An easy way tell if he's interested in you is if he cares about you. Does he ask about your life and interests, does he listen to you?. You should be able to tell. Study him well.

After studying him, and you are sure he doesn't want just sex, you can start dating him and let everything else come natural.

If you are not sure that he genuinely loves/really really likes you, then don't move forward with the relationship.

You don't want to have a broken heart in the university. It will affect your studies tremendously.

Iamoriekaose:
Good evening NL.
I'm a young lady studying a beautiful course in one of Nigeria's prestigious federal university.

It took me three trials before i could get the course i wanted,so i made a promise to myself that i'd study hard to become one of the best graduates from my Course.

It all started when this guy walked up to me when i was at the cafeteria to get some snacks.
He said i looked familar and after some enquiries i discovered he was an old secondary school mate of mine. We clicked,started talking and went home together (we both live off campus).

The next day,we both went to the library to read and i was uncomfortable when i found out he was looking at me the whole time.
I asked why he wasn't reading and he suggested we chill out somewhere else.
Later that day,he ended up telling me he liked me.

Fast forward to today,and he was avoiding me throughout the class.
I decided to find out why and he said it's because i had been in his thoughts all night and he was trying to get me out.


We ended up walking together, and even fighting (i still don't know why).
He told me he likes me and wants to date me.
To be sincere, i kinda feel the same way, but i don't want to rush things and end up in a mess so i just kept on arguing with him about some trivial things.

We boarded a shuttle bus,and he was angry at me (for not obliging him). I went to where he was seated and asked what the problem was.
When he wasn't answering,i placed his hand on my shoulder.
He drew me closer and tried to kiss me but i resisted because i think everything's happening too fast.

But i think i hurt him because of what i did.
Dear NLanders,please i need genuine answers. Is what i did wrong? Am i just in lust or love? How can i effectively manage this feelings if its true love?

Thanks.

MY SISTER, FOCUS CREATES BLINDNESS, IF YOU REALLY WANNA SUCCEED IN BOOKWORK THAT GUY IS AN AGENT OF SATAN TO DETER YOU FROM SUCCESS O.... DONT LET A FOOL KISS YOU AND DO NOT LET A KISS FOOL YOU. THIS IS THE BITTER TRUTH OF LIFE... THE TIMES WHERE REAL SUCCESSFUL GUYS GO FOR BUSTY AND UNEDUCATED LADIES IS LONG GONE O.... BUT A LADY WITH GREAT INTELLIGENCE AND WITTY ACUMEN WILL NOT BE SINGLE FOR LONG BECAUSE SHE HAS SOMETHING TO OFFER.... WORK ON YOUR CAREER AND REJECT A BOYFRIEND MATERIAL SO THAT YOU CAN GET A HUSBAND MATERIAL. SEE HAVE SEX OR DATING WHEN YOU BOTH ARE SUCCESSFUL IS MORE BLISSFUL THAN WHEN YOU BOTH ARE BROKE..... IF YOU NEED MORE COUNSEL PLS PM ME. ELSE IN ONE WORD... RUN FROM DATING GUYS TOO EARLY... ITS A DISTRACTION TO DESTINY

hmmm.

My brother the thing is every where

tripplephi:


MY SISTER, FOCUS CREATES BLINDNESS, IF YOU REALLY WANNA SUCCEED IN BOOKWORK THAT GUY IS AN AGENT OF SATAN TO DETER YOU FROM SUCCESS O.... DONT LET A FOOL KISS YOU AND DO NOT LET A KISS FOOL YOU. THIS IS THE BITTER TRUTH OF LIFE... THE TIMES WHERE REAL SUCCESSFUL GUYS GO FOR BUSTY AND UNEDUCATED LADIES IS LONG GONE O.... BUT A LADY WITH GREAT INTELLIGENCE AND WITTY ACUMEN WILL NOT BE SINGLE FOR LONG BECAUSE SHE HAS SOMETHING TO OFFER.... WORK ON YOUR CAREER AND REJECT A BOYFRIEND MATERIAL SO THAT YOU CAN GET A HUSBAND MATERIAL. SEE HAVE SEX OR DATING WHEN YOU BOTH ARE SUCCESSFUL IS MORE BLISSFUL THAN WHEN YOU BOTH ARE BROKE..... IF YOU NEED MORE COUNSEL PLS PM ME. ELSE IN ONE WORD... RUN FROM DATING GUYS TOO EARLY... ITS A DISTRACTION TO DESTINY

op...dis is a word.

raayah:
Sweetie, I'm not sure if you are in love but it seems like you really really like him.

The only problem is, 'does he really really like you too'?
Normally from a man's attitude, I can tell if he's interested in sex or me.

An easy way tell if he's interested in you is if he cares about you. Does he ask about your life and interests, does he listen to you?. You should be able to tell. Study him well.

After studying him, and you are sure he doesn't want just sex, you can start dating him and let everything else come natural.

If you are not sure that he genuinely loves/really really likes you, then don't move forward with the relationship.

You don't want to have a broken heart in the university. It will affect your studies tremendously.

Thanks.

tripplephi:


MY SISTER, FOCUS CREATES BLINDNESS, IF YOU REALLY WANNA SUCCEED IN BOOKWORK THAT GUY IS AN AGENT OF SATAN TO DETER YOU FROM SUCCESS O.... DONT LET A FOOL KISS YOU AND DO NOT LET A KISS FOOL YOU. THIS IS THE BITTER TRUTH OF LIFE... THE TIMES WHERE REAL SUCCESSFUL GUYS GO FOR BUSTY AND UNEDUCATED LADIES IS LONG GONE O.... BUT A LADY WITH GREAT INTELLIGENCE AND WITTY ACUMEN WILL NOT BE SINGLE FOR LONG BECAUSE SHE HAS SOMETHING TO OFFER.... WORK ON YOUR CAREER AND REJECT A BOYFRIEND MATERIAL SO THAT YOU CAN GET A HUSBAND MATERIAL. SEE HAVE SEX OR DATING WHEN YOU BOTH ARE SUCCESSFUL IS MORE BLISSFUL THAN WHEN YOU BOTH ARE BROKE..... IF YOU NEED MORE COUNSEL PLS PM ME. ELSE IN ONE WORD... RUN FROM DATING GUYS TOO EARLY... ITS A DISTRACTION TO DESTINY

Thanks.

So you want advice whether to fu,ck him or what?

All of the female book witches that l know weren't in a relationship not to talk of intimacy. You cant eat your cake and have it OP.

He dumped me.... Criess! .... What should i do?



Only den will u realise thay guys can do anythn or go to any lenght to pop ur cherry

iceberylin:
All these freshers sef


Well she'll soon learn like the others

wu z d freshers

merizy:
wu z d freshers

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