How should i start my story, but let me put it in a short way, i have this girl that i really love she is beautiful no man that will see her will not fel for her cos her beauty is very tempting. but to me not about beauty out but the beauty inside is the most important thing she was loving, caring and anything you can dream about a future wife .But later things turn upside down . She is the reason why the relationship die down. i did all what i could do to make sure that the relationship never failed, but to me it seems she was fed up of this relationship. [/color][b][/i]

But i later decided to build courage and 4get her side, it really take me time b4 i can 4get little about her cos the trust i invented in her was so strong b4 she betary it. i'm a man with my own destiny we do talk on phone at time but the words of feeling is out of it. but after eight month of departure she is willing to come back. but i still have feelings 4 her [/b][color=#770077]


I now have another girl now, she was caring, loving and she has a bright future. but i was confused now cos we just started dating not up to 2month now, she was just 22yrs and in her final yr studies in the university. i don't know if she is pretending 4 now, cos i don't want to loose my self so easyly to her. and 4 my former girl what should i do?[b][i][color=#006600][/color]

seaman104:

How should i start my story, but let me put it in a short way, i have this girl that i really love she is beautiful no man that will see her will not fel for her cos her beauty is very tempting. but to me not about beauty out but the beauty inside is the most important thing she was loving, caring and anything you can dream about a future wife .But later things turn upside down . She is the reason why the relationship die down. i did all what i could do to make sure that the relationship never failed, but to me it seems she was fed up of this relationship. [/color][b][/i]

But i later decided to build courage and 4get her side, it really take me time b4 i can 4get little about her cos the trust i invented in her was so strong b4 she betary it. i'm a man with my own destiny we do talk on phone at time but the words of feeling is out of it. but after eight month of departure she is willing to come back. but i still have feelings 4 her [/b][color=#770077]


I now have another girl now, she was caring, loving and she has a bright future. but i was confused now cos we just started dating not up to 2month now, she was just 22yrs and in her final yr studies in the university. i don't know if she is pretending 4 now, cos i don't want to loose my self so easyly to her. and 4 my former girl what should i do?[b][i][color=#006600][/color]

whar exactly is your point?

What do you think i should do? should i keep going with this new relationship or go back to my ex-girl that is willing to come back 4 real? there is a proverb that said the devil that you have knew b4 is better than the one you just want to meet. or should i keep two relationship at ago?

seaman104:

What do you think i should do? should i keep going with this new relationship or go back to my ex-girl that is willing to come back 4 real? there is a proverb that said the devil that you have knew b4 is better than the one you just want to meet. or should i keep two relationship at ago?

it's up to you - no point dating a new girl when you till love another - either take your ex back and hope she has changed for the better - or keep away an give yourself time to heal before you move into the next r/ship

I still don't get the poster o. . .are we to choose 4 him?

thanx luxiour, maybe i should give my slf break. cos i'i not really sure if she has change 4 better. that is the reason i need help from the nairas

na wa ooooo

i'm sorry poster but your post is very expired in the sense that we have had this kind of scenario.
i mean you should decide for your self what you want
i don't mean 2 disrespect you oohh!! but this thread is worthless if that makes sense

Ben  not the way you are thinking ok. i'm confused that is all. but i think i will take my time and look what is on ground has luxior said earlier

Origina9ja well to you it might be a worthless thread, but to me i know what ow things is. To choose is not the problem but not to be a victim again. but it i think i will have to take my time 4 a while.

seaman104:

Ben not the way you are thinking ok. i'm confused that is all. but i think i will take my time and look what is on ground has luxior said earlier

seaman104:

thanx luxiour, maybe i should give my slf break. cos i'i not really sure if she has change 4 better. that is the reason i need help from the nairas

you're welcome - dont ruish into anything your love and your time is yours to give - give it to the right person and don't rish - if she has changed and truly wants you bak - she will undertsand that your need time to come around and she will be patient - just dont be playin around with someone else and possibly hurt them in the process

good luck!!

seaman104:

Origina9ja well to you it might be a worthless thread, but to me i know what ow things is. To choose is not the problem but not to be a victim again. but it i think i will have to take my time 4 a while.

Na wa o! Soothsayers in the house please help,he does not want to be a victim again![tt][/tt]

@Poster,

seaman104:

How should i start my story, but let me put it in a short way, i have this girl that i really love she is beautiful no man that will see her will not fel for her cos her beauty is very tempting. but to me not about beauty out but the beauty inside is the most important thing she was loving, caring and anything you can dream about a future wife .But later things turn upside down . She is the reason why the relationship die down. i did all what i could do to make sure that the relationship never failed, but to me it seems she was fed up of this relationship. [/color][b][/i]

But i later decided to build courage and 4get her side, it really take me time b4 i can 4get little about her cos the trust i invented in her was so strong b4 she betary it. i'm a man with my own destiny we do talk on phone at time but the words of feeling is out of it. but after eight month of departure she is willing to come back. but i still have feelings 4 her [/b][color=#770077]


I now have another girl now, she was caring, loving and she has a bright future. but i was confused now cos we just started dating not up to 2month now, she was just 22yrs and in her final yr studies in the university. i don't know if she is pretending 4 now, cos i don't want to loose my self so easyly to her. and 4 my former girl what should i do?[b][i][color=#006600][/color]

What you need do is to deal with your apparent confusion as characterised by your inability to make decisions fo yourself.
If you know what you want, You won't be here making a fool of yourself.

cant u all see d poster is confused!

cant u all understand that this guy is making a point, that he can choose for himself.

but he only need backup advice  on hes way forward

Sorry, I could not resist that!  My advice is to follow your heart and do whatever makes you happy.  Remember that nothing ventured nothing gained! Love is a risk we all take, no one can assure it.  We can only try.  Your heart will be broken and battered; then Cupid smiles at you and sends someone to mend it and all is well again!   Good luck

gentle lady thanx, i'm now a soothsayer thnx 4 ur compliment i can only pick somethings out of luxior advice which is most i need, i think i'm with dat. ifeleke this is for you thank you all. i now know what to do.

Thanx edogram, you really understand what i mean, all i need is back up. Gentlelady thanx to u aswell and sorry 4d hope u will accept my appology?. i really appreciate everybody advice.

pele o. . . endogram has always supported posters of threads like this, so dat they don't feel bad after downpours of insults.

so don't be carried away, dear.

:p

ben you better sip up :-Xif u have nothing to say. if you think anybody is insulting does dat glue on my body? no so what did i need to worry about. anybody is free to say whatever they like that doesn't make me feel

I think i like this guy.Its so good to hear that no matter what they tell you here on NL u wont get angry.Now thats the best an cutest word i've heard so far in a long time

latioxr well sorry 4 d late reply. i compose those msg my self, is not copy and paste ooo. i'm a good write, i have written lot of poem and love msg as well. if you come my house you will be so SUP!!! cos you will think i manufacture it in my house. one of my favorite is. WEARING THE MASK OF AFFECTION[b][/b][color=#000099][/color] you will really love it if i give you one.

let the old hag go. she was fed up once before. who's to say if she comes back now she won't get fed up again?

see how it goes with the newbie

Tinyata, yeah i will not be angry, cos some people has no job just to    and let you feel      befor posting this topic i have prepare my self for such things not to bothered me. thanx to u 2

Thanx c2h, you have made a real point. i think thats is what i'm going to do. i need to see what the future brings. thanx alot

seaman104:

How should i start my story, but let me put it in a short way, i have this girl that i really love she is beautiful no man that will see her will not fel for her cos her beauty is very tempting. but to me not about beauty out but the beauty inside is the most important thing she was loving, caring and anything you can dream about a future wife .But later things turn upside down . She is the reason why the relationship die down. i did all what i could do to make sure that the relationship never failed, but to me it seems she was fed up of this relationship. [/color][b][/i]

But i later decided to build courage and 4get her side, it really take me time b4 i can 4get little about her cos the trust i invented in her was so strong b4 she betary it. i'm a man with my own destiny we do talk on phone at time but the words of feeling is out of it. but after eight month of departure she is willing to come back. but i still have feelings 4 her [/b][color=#770077]


I now have another girl now, she was caring, loving and she has a bright future. but i was confused now cos we just started dating not up to 2month now, she was just 22yrs and in her final yr studies in the university. i don't know if she is pretending 4 now, cos i don't want to loose my self so easyly to her. and 4 my former girl what should i do?[b][i][color=#006600][/color]

My advice is this: Let the Ex continue to be EXed. She left U on herself but not U that sent her away. She shud be left to continue on her journey. If the new girl pleases U and U 've found what U want of a wife in her, pls stick to her but if not, then you may consider the Ex but I dont support it and I will prefer looking for a complete new one. Let the Ex know that U are not as cheap as she has taken you. She has gone on a sabatical and let her continue. How are U sure that she will not DIVORCE U in future. YORUBA pple says "The eyes that will last till old age would not be having optical problems as an infant".

Omo Naija, Edbrgh

seaman104:

What do you think i should do? should i keep going with this new relationship or go back to my ex-girl that is willing to come back 4 real? there is a proverb that said the devil that you have knew b4 is better than the one you just want to meet. or should i keep two relationship at ago?

luxoire:

it's up to you - no point dating a new girl when you till love another - either take your ex back and hope she has changed for the better - or keep away an give yourself time to heal before you move into the next r/ship

luxoire:

it's up to you - no point dating a new girl when you till love another - either take your ex back and hope she has changed for the better - or keep away an give yourself time to heal before you move into the next r/ship

luxoire:

it's up to you - no point dating a new girl when you till love another - either take your ex back and hope she has changed for the better - or keep away an give yourself time to heal before you move into the next r/ship

go with this lady advice. anything from her is almost always right.
you self u just dey jump from one relationship to another like say na pure water. why not settle down and discover yourself before you get messed up big time. have a relationship with yourself and plan your future you may begin to like you. it is hard work but well worth it.

seaman104:

ben you better sip up :-Xif u have nothing to say. if you think anybody is insulting does dat glue on my body? no so what did i need to worry about. anybody is free to say whatever they like that doesn't make me feel

many thanks to endogram sha

OMONAIJAUK, thanks alot 4 your advice, and JJU i never told you i'm jumpimg from one relationship to d other. all i said is dat i just met her, so our relationship is still fresh. but thanx for your advice as well. i really appreciate you guys helping out.

@Ben20001
I still don't get the poster o. . .are we to choose 4 him?

, go for both my friend, at least then you don't lose i.e. if you don't get caught, go on player, play it well and smooth, just for a while to decide which one to finally choose

ABZ thanx jare my padi. i believe God will show me the way.