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Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by ALocoVivaVoce: 8:56am On Dec 23, 2015
Feminism is a range of movements and ideologies that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve equal political, economic, cultural, personal, and social rights for women.” – Wikipedia

To be submissive is to obey or yield to someone else.

For the purpose of this post, the word submissive is being used to refer to women who are married to a male partner and also happen to be devoted feminists.

As a woman and as an advocate of feminism, how do you reconcile your need to for equal rights with the biblical need to submit yourself to a man; your husband.

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Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by Nobody: 10:01am On Dec 23, 2015
As a feminist i'll say yes u can b a feminist nd still b submissive to ur husband

Let me start like dis feminism is about equal justice
wen i get married *hopefully* i would be submissive to my husband care nd love but marriage is all bou support nd agreement.A guy cant just rise up in d morning nd just pick a girl nd force her to marry him no way.

So a man and woman has to come together to agree
Like wise both families too

even when God created eve there had to b a mutual agreement between God nd adam so eve can b a companion

So wen i marry me nd my husband wud sit to agree on lots of things doesnt mean im nt submissive
We sit nd agree on certain roles each of us needs to take in the marriage

When i don't do my duties after d role i'm to do nd after d agreement den i am nt submissive

But to other men out there i wud b a shasha fierce tongue

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Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by yvesboss(m): 8:09pm On Dec 23, 2015
sickstars:
As a feminist i'll say yes u can b a feminist nd still b submissive to ur husband

Let me start like dis feminism is about equal justice
wen i get married *hopefully* i would be submissive to my husband care nd love but marriage is all bou support nd agreement.A guy cant just rise up in d morning nd just pick a girl nd force her to marry him no way.

So a man and woman has to come together to agree
Like wise both families too

even when God created eve there had to b a mutual agreement between God nd adam so eve can b a companion

So wen i marry me nd my husband wud sit to agree on lots of things doesnt mean im nt submissive
We sit nd agree on certain roles each of us needs to take in the marriage

When i don't do my duties after d role i'm to do nd after d agreement den i am nt submissive

But to other men out there i wud b a shasha fierce tongue

O.Y.O

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Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by Nobody: 8:14pm On Dec 23, 2015
yvesboss:


O.Y.O

cry cry cry cry
Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by yvesboss(m): 12:03pm On Dec 24, 2015


sickstars:


cry cry cry cry

as a matter of fact...those are principles
Feminism if fully practiced explode the brain..yu cant combine
Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by Nobody: 12:17pm On Dec 24, 2015
yvesboss:




as a matter of fact...those are principles
Feminism if fully practiced explode the brain..yu cant combine

And they are mostly married nd knl ow to keep their men wonder why? tongue
Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by yvesboss(m): 6:38pm On Dec 24, 2015
sickstars:


And they are mostly married nd knl ow to keep their men wonder why? tongue


Those men endure...and i wonder what yu meant by 'those'?
Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by Nobody: 6:40pm On Dec 24, 2015
yvesboss:


Those men endure...and i wonder what yu meant by 'those'?
They dont endure they kno their woman are 100% faithful nd really focused

Do u want to end up with an unfaithful wife an heartless wife


Feminists are the most emotional people u can ever find

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Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by yvesboss(m): 6:44pm On Dec 24, 2015
sickstars:

They dont endure they kno their woman are 100% faithful nd really focused

Do u want to end up with an unfaithful wife an heartless wife


Feminists are the most emotional people u can ever find

I beg to disagree...i aint ending up with a feminist...NEVER
Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by Nobody: 6:47pm On Dec 24, 2015
yvesboss:


I beg to disagree...i aint ending up with a feminist...NEVER
We submissive
Ready to assist financially

U mixing up a feminist

to girl power *a girl who wants to dominate*


Av u seen beyonce trying to dominate jay z?
Or chiamanda hubby comin out to scream she dominates him?

Try to tink why their husband is cool with them atleast there is a word called divorce but they didnt

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Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by yvesboss(m): 6:58pm On Dec 24, 2015
sickstars:

We submissive
Ready to assist financially

U mixing up a feminist

to girl power *a girl who wants to dominate*


Av u seen beyonce trying to dominate jay z?
Or chiamanda hubby comin out to scream she dominates him?

Try to tink why their husband is cool with them atleast there is a word called divorce but they didnt

Well, thats intruiging...however their marriage aint like ours (Africans).

But hey..i aint an advocate for 'its a man's only world' and i believe female folks have a voice, but looking around me and not necessarily the tv...Nigerian feminists i know dont have a good marriage...yu like to know why

They chew more than they can swallow...they overdo things...they overpush their limits...tryn to be like the beyonce folks but forget we dont operate in the same environment....Now thats what i mean.

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Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by ALocoVivaVoce: 8:19am On Dec 26, 2015
yvesboss:


Well, thats intruiging...however their marriage aint like ours (Africans).

But hey..i aint an advocate for 'its a man's only world' and i believe female folks have a voice, but looking around me and not necessarily the tv...Nigerian feminists i know dont have a good marriage...yu like to know why

They chew more than they can swallow...they overdo things...they overpush their limits...tryn to be like the beyonce folks but forget we dont operate in the same environment....Now thats what i mean.

I agree with you 100%
Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by SAMBARRY: 8:41am On Dec 26, 2015
Msheww

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Re: Feminism Vs Submissiveness – A Thin Line! by MrsChima(f): 10:37am On Dec 26, 2015
Let's not confuse definitions to suit our arguments or theories.

Feminism is simply, a movement or stance that promotes equa in economic, political, and social statuses for BOTH sexes.

Women's Rights Movement promotes rights primarily women. It does NOT include men.

Submission (biblically) is for a wife to yield to her husband that is Christ's right hand. If you read Ephesian 5 (entirely) it gives conditions on when and why a wife should be submissive. If the husband is instructed by God/Jesus to perform certain acts or gives certain directions, to allow the husband to fulfill what was directed of him, he can't have a wife that is in disagreement with the directions. Spiritually, she should yield (submit) without recoursw.

Our ideas and desires are separate from what society thinks a woman and man should function in a marriage. If the couple have mutually agree to follow certain acts and support each other's difference of ideas then that is their business.

In the case of women who are feminists wanting to have equal access to listed factors have nothing to do with a woman's ability or inability to yield to her husband's directions that is given by God/Jesus.

If you think about it with adding emotions; it is logical for a woman not to give trouble if it is beneficial for the pair of them. Why would she? Exactly.

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