The 15 secret signs that matter
Watch out for these 15 subtle signs, and if you do
find your boyfriend’s behavior bordering on any of
these signs, tell him about it and ask him to change.
#1 He puts you down
He puts you down when you do something by
yourself and makes it look like you can’t do anything
without his help. He picks flaws in anything you do,
and helps you do a better job. He disrespects you
and anything you do, and makes it seem like you
need him to become a better person. This will
eventually make you lose your own confidence, and
wait for his reassurance and help each time you try
something new.
#2 He doesn’t like it when you go out with
your friends
Does he say your friends are a bad influence or does
he think one of your guy friends are hitting on you?
He starts to choose your friends and tells you whom
to hang out with. Eventually you’d find yourself
losing touch with most of your friends.
#3 He’s insecure and doubts you
He plays mind games and tries to trap you with
tricky, unnecessary questions. He tries confusing you
into giving him contradictory answers which makes
you feel like you are the bad person in the
relationship.
#4 He wants to know everything about you
He hates secrets. He tells you all his passwords and
secrets, and expects you to do the same, be it your
email, twitter or facebook account. He wants to know
every single detail of your daily life, and when he
finds out that you haven’t told him a few things, he
acts pained and hurt.
#5 He stalks you
He wants you to keep in touch with him very often,
and he wants to be informed about everything you’re
doing even if you’re just stepping out of office for a
coffee break with your friends.
#6 He doesn’t like it when you have fun
without him
This is rather simple and easy to see. If you go out
with your own friends for a night out, he sulks or acts
grumpy for a while and makes up another excuse
about why he’s pissed off. Sometimes, he may even
blame you for his mood and use an excuse like “you
didn’t call me enough” or “you ignored me”.
#7 He cripples you
He looks for any excuse to prove a point. If something
offends or bothers him, he’ll wait for a perfect excuse
to bring that conversation up and prove his point. If
your friend gets into a car crash, he may gloat about
it and make it a point to tell you why he doesn’t like
you travelling with that guy. He loves saying “I told
you so” and makes you feel lost without his guidance
in life.
#8 He’s jealous
This can seem cute at first, but over time, his
jealousy could turn into an obsession that borders on
insanity.
#9 You can’t do anything important without
him
When you achieve something without his help, he
treats it like it’s no big deal. He behaves like your
promotions and personal achievements are not big
milestones in your life. On the other hand, he’ll
consider you leaving your friends for him a bigger
achievement that can help the relationship.
#10 He’s never at fault
But you always are. Even if he meets with an
accident on the way to work, he blames it on
someone else or the big fight both of you had that
morning. But if you make a mistake, he’ll make sure
he constantly reminds you about the incident over
and over again.
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