If anyone claims to understand women totally, then that person must be mistaken. It is very difficult to understand a woman and like some people say, if there is ever going to be a brochure to explain everything about a woman then it will be over a million pages.

What I am here to talk about are the basic things women need to keep them happy. The needs or should I say wants of women are so diverse that it even differs in each of them. What this woman wants is different from what the other wants thus making the frustration and anger of the men folk very understandable. A man might have a sour relationship with a woman for a certain reason and when he tries to correct it in his next relationship, things go sour again because the new one wants what the old one didn’t want and this brings about the saying that women are so complicated and do not know what they want.

The truth is that human beings are insatiable not just the women. So pleasing them in every way is very impossible. But the good news is there are certain things EVERY woman craves for which when found, can make them very happy.

The first thing is comfort. No woman wants to be uncomfortable in her relationship. For a man to make his woman comfortable, he must have something doing and dreams of getting bigger. This doesn’t mean she is materialistic. There are just some things that cannot be changed and one of them is the fact that a woman needs to take care of herself and look good every time for her man. The men should be happy about that and not complain about it. Or don’t they want something good for themselves?

Another thing a woman needs is attention. Once she gets divided attention, the first thing that comes to her mind is that there is another woman, which might not be the case. It might be work, family issues or something else that has been bothering and taking their time. What the men need to do is talk to them about it. Instead of trying to settle it on your own, why not share it with her and work things out together. That way, you’re giving her the attention she needs and attending to other things at the same time. Every woman likes feeling special. Take her out every once in a while, spend time with her, make her know your friends, offer listening ears and most of all, TRY to be there whenever she needs you.

Thirdly, a woman needs a man that understands her. Someone that knows when she is angry and how to calm her nerves, someone that knows what makes her upset and what makes her happy. Not someone that can’t detect when something is wrong. They need their man to understand their feelings and respect it. Of course as a man, you deserve some respect but she deserves some respect too. One secret about women is that they reciprocate on impulse. Once she is loved, she gives love back. Now, this is not magic so it doesn’t work when you’re with a woman that doesn’t love you.

Most importantly, every woman wants to be trusted. The men should realize that women know what they want and that nobody wants something bad for himself/herself. Give your woman some space. She needs freedom too. Don’t suspect her every move. Give her a benefit of doubt. Trust her judgements. Yes, it’s true that you can’t be right all the time and everyone needs correction at one point or the other. Correct them but be nice about it. Don’t make her feel stupid about it because if you do, she’ll want to prove a point.

I know some of you reading this (especially the men) will say “how come the men get to do all this, what then will the woman do?” The truth is you tend to enjoy a woman who’s happy. Once she’s happy, everyone around her will be happy, especially YOU. It might seem difficult to do all that I mentioned above but just give it a trial. Happiness is worth sacrificing for. And never forget that nobody is perfect. We are all in a quest for perfection. A happy woman makes a happy home. Let us practice this and see where it gets us. Have a happy relationship. The woman is not as difficult as you think.

CIAO!!!


SOURCE: http://www.juicygossips.com.ng/2016/01/juicy-special-what-women-really-want.html

Waste of valuable time. If Albert Einstein had happily, but stupidly devoted his time to understanding the nature of the women folk, then I think he wouldn't have invented the Theory of Relativity.

Women are just confused in nature, dis discussion ensued between a father and his son who intend to get married

Drefan:
Waste of valuable time. If Albert Einstein had happily, but stupidly devoted his time to understanding the nature of the women folk, then I think he wouldn't have invented the Theory of Relativity.

lol...you cant understand us if you dont try.

Try to understand a woman and see ursef running mad gradually

veeluv2015:

lol...you cant understand us if you dont try.

Hmm. I'm tempted. So, which book would you recommend?

Drefan:

Hmm. I'm tempted. So, which book would you recommend?

NONE!!! Cos i havent read any book on understanding women. Use the live practice. Start with ur gf or sis. observe....ask questions....make mental notes....LEARN!!!
P.S: have at least 2 specimen for this experiment. Lol

veeluv2015:


NONE!!! Cos i havent read any book on understanding women. Use the live practice. Start with ur gf or sis. observe....ask questions....make mental notes....LEARN!!!
P.S: have at least 2 specimen for this experiment. Lol

That's the most hilarious thing I have seen/heard today. I presume you mean if I don't have nothing doing. Women are by far too complicated to be fully understood. A lifetime of effort utilised in studying and evaluating ladies would not be enough. Instead I would act on my instincts.

Chai.......see recommendations like say na work i dey find for shell petroleum company abeg make dem park well!!!!!!!!!!!!

vkeydon:
Chai.......see recommendations like say na work i dey find for shell petroleum company abeg make dem park well!!!!!!!!!!!!

Women should please work on their complications. Let's focus on what our Economy really want

A woman doesn't want a man to lie to her about important matters. She wants to be an important part of his life – the most important part, in fact, She wants to know the things that are going on his life and she wants him to have trust in her. As far as she is concerned, they are one – his life is her life.

women want nothing from you.
except your life,body & soul

Women are easy to understand if you know how.

Different blokes for different folks.

GIRL: i have sinned; i called my boyfriend a bastard.
PASTOR: So wat did he do to deserve dat?
GIRL: He kissed me.
PASTOR: You mean like this? The pastor kissed the girl.
GIRL: Yes!
PASTOR: Well, dats no reason to call him a bastard.
GIRL: But he touched my breast.
PASTOR: U mean like this? The pastor touched her breast.
GIRL: Yes!
PASTOR: Thats no reason to call him a bastard.
GIRL: But, he took off my clothes and had sex with me!
PASTOR: You mean like this? The pastor took off her clothes and had sex with the girl.
GIRL: Yes
PASTOR: Well, thats also no reason to call him a bastard.
GIRL: Then he told me he has AIDS.
PASTOR: U are a BASTAAAARD!!!

lalasticlala please come and explain this to them ooo....we're tired of being misunderstood

what do u expect?

How can you understand someone controlled by hormones.. Even our fathers dey try, i carry hand 4 them Cos notin go mk anytin please that person wey hormone dey control

digitite:
Women are easy to understand if you know how.

Different blokes for different folks.

Different blokes 4 diff folks, my bid head concur

Easy to understand?..i disagree wit u on this one sir
They cant even tell u or even know how to please themselves and u ar tokin abt knw how?

skywalker240:




Different blokes 4 diff folks, my bid head concur

Easy to understand?..i disagree wit u on this one sir
They cant even tell u or even know how to please themselves and u ar tokin abt knw how?

We can decipher Man.. They are much easier than basic maths.

babe,we don't know what we want,we just know we want it.

Unknown

digitite:

We can decipher Man.. They are much easier than basic maths.

True ,but not every translation becomes the outcome of her altitude. I hope u knw that sir?

Very unstable Gender!

The old and new gods know I wouldn't read that epistle.

OP, you try!

OK. Noted!

Veeluv2016

THE ONLY THING MOST WOMEN WANT AND CRAVE FOR IS MONEY. IF YOU DONT SPEAK MONEY MOST WOMEN WONT UNDERSTAND YOU BECAUSE THE ONLY LANGUAGE THEY UNDERSTAND IS MONEY. MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS YOU SEE MONEY IS GOOD, YOU CAN GET 8 OUTA 10 NIGERIAN GIRLS/WOMEN IF YOU HAVE THE MONEY .

Silly post. Especially coming from a woman

women are simple to understand if only u are patient.

engrjosefz:
Veeluv2016

lol....2017 nko?