Do you expect them to still take calls, be friends, call, chat and exchange gifts with the other person the cheated on you with?.
The bane of our modern society is "the view that things are normal, until they are not". We tag ourselves civilised, forgetting the humanity aspect of our lives. My girlfriend once told me that it was normal chatting a particular guy all day and even in the midnight, sending pictures to another guy on regular basis, sending 100 friend request on Facebook to mostly guys, accepting request from mostly guys, being called my love, being told; I miss u and wish u were here with me.
I know separating with someone shouldn't make u guys enemies, but the level of Ur friendship with them should be defined. You can't probably want your spouse to go about life making enemies, he or she could use a little help sometimes. On the other hand, your spouse should realize that you deserve to be happy.
Even if you trust your spouse, can you trust them with an Ex?, do you trust their Ex's intentions?.
If a woman becomes a competition, I walk away. I can't imagine giving myself that kindda life.

You move on

No matter how you want to join an already severed rope, the length will never get to the original state.

Forgive but never try to live with what you can't forget else you live a life a regrets all through.

Lol.

You are still there to witness another 'cheating'

If she cheated with him and you forgive her, there must be no communication of any form between them.

If there is or she is giving u reasons why there must , take a walk.

lordizak:
Do you expect them to still take calls, be friends, call, chat and exchange gifts with the other person the cheated on you with?.
The bane of our modern society is "the view that things are normal, until they are not". We tag ourselves civilised, forgetting the humanity aspect of our lives. My girlfriend once told me that it was normal chatting a particular guy all day and even in the midnight, sending pictures to another guy on regular basis, sending 100 friend request on Facebook to mostly guys, accepting request from mostly guys, being called my love, being told; I miss u and wish u were here with me.
I know separating with someone shouldn't make u guys enemies, but the level of Ur friendship with them should be defined. You can't probably want your spouse to go about life making enemies, he or she could use a little help sometimes. On the other hand, your spouse should realize that you deserve to be happy.
Even if you trust your spouse, can you trust them with an Ex?, do you trust their Ex's intentions?.
If a woman becomes a competition, I walk away. I can't imagine giving myself that kindda life.

that your last statement tho...that's my slogan, i cnt compete for any girl, she doesn't worth it...immediately she starts welcoming other guys in her life in the sole aim of making me to compete with them to win her, i back out

What's forgiveness in all of these u typed ? ... Well ... Well ... Once u clock 35 u will know woman is secondary , not neccesary .

iamSi:
What's forgiveness in all of these u typed ? ... Well ... Well ... Once u clock 35 u will know woman is secondary , not neccesary .

Is sense affiliated to being 35?. There's still beauty in loving a woman.

You run away cos he'll cheat again


A cheating man needs Prayers..
Forgive him and still Love him as you always do, God will definitely answer your prayers

I can't imagine myself competing with any guy to win my woman.. I'll just walk out.. And if she cheats on me, I might forgive her, but I'll never accept her back again.. Cheating is a choice and not a mistake..

U don't get it do u? Woman is not Just Woman or lemme please put it in a way u'll better understand sir. A 7 year old pick up a knife to stab his playmates like 4 of them , to me that's not a Kid no more.
Are you saying there is still beauty in loving a woman living a promiscuous life? Better thank the Lord u r fortunate .

The type of woman I mentioned in my earlier comment are not ur type of woman. So my brother, do do thanksgiving next sunday for the kind God has given u

lordizak:

Is sense affiliated to being 35?. There's still beauty in loving a woman.

I still need the popular opinion.

Mods please push to front page, this will make a fine weekend topic.

No contact ever again. If they cheat on u they don't love you. Just cut them out of yr life.

foolinlove:
No contact ever again. If they cheat on u they don't love you. Just cut them out of yr life.

Have u ever cheated? just asking....

lordizak:


Have u ever cheated? just asking....

Never once in my life have I cheated. Never.

foolinlove:

Never once in my life have I cheated. Never.

Username shows so.

lordizak:

Username shows so.

You think I'm foolish for not cheating?

foolinlove:


You think I'm foolish for not cheating?

nope, I am just like you in that regard. I haven't called or wished to be with another person after my break up, 8mths and counting... I just can't trust no one. She calls once a while bla bla bla... to many details already. Keep it up. I recommend you should look for Easter Perez on YouTube, listen to her talk.