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Confused Please Advice by tboy11(m): 2:22pm On Mar 22, 2016
good day all, please advice me on this. criticism is also welcomed. i have a gf am dating for like two years now and everything seems ok but of late i met another girl whom i have feeling for. i kept the feelings to my self until yesterday when i told her how i feel about her and i also told her that im in a relationship already. all i ever wanted from this girl is just friendship, i would have love to date her but already in a relationship. i told her all this and she felt bad and said she can't be my friend again. that is hurting me so much as i don't want to loose this girl as a friend.
what can i do to make her come back to me as a friend. thanks
Re: Confused Please Advice by Sunexy(m): 2:25pm On Mar 22, 2016
Just sleep with her
Re: Confused Please Advice by ediama(m): 2:31pm On Mar 22, 2016
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Re: Confused Please Advice by cowgirl9090: 2:34pm On Mar 22, 2016
ok
Re: Confused Please Advice by BiafraBushBoy(m): 2:34pm On Mar 22, 2016
You are just a CONFUSED PLAYER !!!


NB:

Players are never confuse!!!
Re: Confused Please Advice by Nobody: 2:34pm On Mar 22, 2016
undecided
Re: Confused Please Advice by Nobody: 2:35pm On Mar 22, 2016
Asin how?
Sunexy:
Just sleep with her
Re: Confused Please Advice by tboy11(m): 2:38pm On Mar 22, 2016
Sunexy:
Just sleep with her

i dont want more than friendship from the second girl. thats all am asking her
Re: Confused Please Advice by tboy11(m): 2:41pm On Mar 22, 2016
ediama:
Let d second girl go...since d one u r with still luv u...that thing u hv seen in d second...look deeply u will find it in ur girl.
.

i wish its that easy. am not trying to replace one with the other. i want this girl's friendship
Re: Confused Please Advice by Cutehector(m): 2:46pm On Mar 22, 2016
Mchew. After nw, guys will be complaining they r being friendzoned!

U just frndzoned dis lady and u are here sayin u want her as a friend.. do u think she doesn't hav frnds already?

She doesn't want to be friends wit u, dnt u just get Dat? Pls allow her to move on biko. Infact gv me her number cheesy

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Re: Confused Please Advice by tboy11(m): 2:49pm On Mar 22, 2016
Cutehector:
Mchew. After nw, guys will be complaining they r being friendzoned!

U just frndzoned dis lady and u are here sayin u want her as a friend.. do u think she doesn't hav frnds already?

She doesn't want to be friends wit u, dnt u just get Dat? Pls allow her to move on biko. Infact gv me her number cheesy

i appreciate your response
Re: Confused Please Advice by MrCork: 2:50pm On Mar 22, 2016
tboy11:
good day all, please advice me on this. criticism is also welcomed. i have a gf am dating for like two years now and everything seems ok but of late i met another girl whom i have feeling for. i kept the feelings to my self until yesterday when i told her how i feel about her and i also told her that im in a relationship already. all i ever wanted from this girl is just friendship, i would have love to date her but already in a relationship. i told her all this and she felt bad and said she can't be my friend again. that is hurting me so much as i don't want to loose this girl as a friend.
what can i do to make her come back to me as a friend. thanks


..black women hate love...they love wig...Buy her Brassssilian wig and trussss me.....SHE YOURS!!!(Real Talk) angry
Re: Confused Please Advice by tboy11(m): 2:54pm On Mar 22, 2016
MrCork:



..black women hate love...they love wig...Buy her Brassssilian wig and trussss me.....SHE YOURS!!!(Real Talk) angry
funny u. she isn't for sale
Re: Confused Please Advice by MrCork: 2:59pm On Mar 22, 2016
tboy11:

funny u. she isn't for sale



.^^^^there u go....so why the F****k l are u chasin women when u dont have moiney to maintain them...and then u complain they ignore u....do u hava Job? YOU HOMEBAS PEOPLE MENNNNN!!!(no ofeinse) undecided
Re: Confused Please Advice by tboy11(m): 3:02pm On Mar 22, 2016
MrCork:




.^^^^there u go....so why the F****k l are u chasin women when u dont have moiney to maintain them...and then u complain they ignore u....do u hava Job? YOU HOMEBAS PEOPLE MENNNNN!!!(no ofeinse) undecided
u dont have to insult me. i have a job and i have more than enough money to take care of people around me
Re: Confused Please Advice by MrCork: 3:05pm On Mar 22, 2016
tboy11:

u dont have to insult me. i have a job and i have more than enough money to take care of people around me


..yess u hava job & yess u can take care of thoise around u.....THe question is yorr moiney is not enough to take care of her & u wll not admmit it (Read yor last post)...Bro its not a crime to be broke but its a crime to lie. ..THis is exactly why women dump u homebase guys coz u lie to much!!(no oofeinse) embarassed
Re: Confused Please Advice by Abbeyunique2(m): 3:16pm On Mar 22, 2016
All i knw is that you can't eat your cake and still have it
Re: Confused Please Advice by AccaPack(m): 3:24pm On Mar 22, 2016
ediama:
Let d second girl go...since d one u r with still luv u...that thing u hv seen in d second...look deeply u will find it in ur girl.
.
The guy won't take this serious cos he already deemed it fit to leave the first girl for her.
Re: Confused Please Advice by mentorken05(m): 3:50pm On Mar 22, 2016
tboy11:
good day all, please advice me on this. criticism is also welcomed. i have a gf am dating for like two years now and everything seems ok but of late i met another girl whom i have feeling for. i kept the feelings to my self until yesterday when i told her how i feel about her and i also told her that im in a relationship already. all i ever wanted from this girl is just friendship, i would have love to date her but already in a relationship. i told her all this and she felt bad and said she can't be my friend again. that is hurting me so much as i don't want to loose this girl as a friend.
what can i do to make her come back to me as a friend. thanks
sometimes I wonder why people love to make the word “complication” there best friend.
You are already in a relationship and its obvious that she wants more than frienship.
My advice is this...SINK THE SHIP to avoid stories that touch. just let go,everybody must not be your friend

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Re: Confused Please Advice by excellencyabia1: 4:33pm On Mar 22, 2016
If really you want her to be your friend, why approach her the way you do? Or do you want to be see as honest? Can you gf be your friend? You started by giving her hope and later take it back. When a girl you wish you love tells you to be just a friend, what will you do? Just let her be.
Re: Confused Please Advice by ettaetta(m): 4:55pm On Mar 22, 2016
Sounds like you l'l finally leave your present girl friend for her. From your write up you are already in love with her. But when you finally date her wont you leave her for another girl too? My advise to you. Tell her you two should remain just friends while you stick to your babe. Is bad to leave someone who has not done anything wrong. https://m.youtube.com/watch?sns=tw&v=0iq_pkXsMv8
Re: Confused Please Advice by Evathyst(f): 5:01pm On Mar 22, 2016
Guy, you dull gan ni. undecided undecided


You're dating one girl whom you claim to love, then you're directly asking another one (whom you also feel something for) to be your friend. undecided undecided


Repeat what you typed above in a bournvita can, then put it in your ear to hear how it all sounds. Only then will you know how confused you really are. We ladies have a simple lifestyle that shouldn't be complicated. For her to be relatively close to you shows she has already accepted you as a friend. To now keep reiterating that you want her to be your friend again is the height of 'complications' like what exactly do you really mean? undecided undecided
Re: Confused Please Advice by Nobody: 5:04pm On Mar 22, 2016
MrCork:



..yess u hava job & yess u can take care of thoise around u.....THe question is yorr moiney is not enough to take care of her & u wll not admmit it (Read yor last post)...Bro its not a crime to be broke but its a crime to lie. ..THis is exactly why women dump u homebase guys coz u lie to much!!(no oofeinse) embarassed

U're one person that seriously puzzles me...
Re: Confused Please Advice by Nobody: 5:08pm On Mar 22, 2016
Evathyst:
Guy, you dull gan ni. undecided undecided


You're dating one girl whom you claim to love, then you're directly asking another one (whom you also feel something for) to be your friend. undecided undecided


Repeat what you typed above in a bournvita can, then put it in your ear to hear how it all sounds. Only then will you know how confused you really are. We ladies have a simple lifestyle that shouldn't be complicated. For her to be relatively close to you shows she has already accepted you as a friend. To now keep reiterating that you want her to be your friend again is the height of 'complications' like what exactly do you really mean? undecided undecided

Lol..
Re: Confused Please Advice by FreemanDave(m): 5:29pm On Mar 22, 2016
Nigerian youths.... Misplaced priorities....

You want love, you want the latest car, you want this, you want that?


What do you have to offer?

Shiorrr

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Re: Confused Please Advice by AyamConfidence(m): 5:37pm On Mar 22, 2016
Hehehehehehehehe this niqqa dey look for who to imprison in the friend zone.

But since you need advice, I'll give you...there are 2 things involved... Its either you leave your girl friend and date this new girl or you leave this girl and face what you have.....either way....you'll still have a girl....now choose for yourself
Re: Confused Please Advice by MrCork: 5:44pm On Mar 22, 2016
Oliviaarims:


U're one person that seriously puzzles me...






how?.? undecided

Re: Confused Please Advice by Bluezy13(m): 5:49pm On Mar 22, 2016
ediama:
Let d second girl go...since d one u r with still luv u...that thing u hv seen in d second...look deeply u will find it in ur girl.
.

I'm not surprised this is coming from a girl.
OP, heard of side chick
Re: Confused Please Advice by Nobody: 5:51pm On Mar 22, 2016
U never marry U don already confuse like this.
Man when U marry the girls who will come onto you
will be finer sexier and very eager to play ball.
If U go with this ur follow follow mentality you will be ruined
One day U will wake up and ask yourself -how did I get myself into this?'
Re: Confused Please Advice by Bluezy13(m): 5:59pm On Mar 22, 2016
Evathyst:
Guy, you dull gan ni. undecided undecided


You're dating one girl whom you claim to love, then you're directly asking another one (whom you also feel something for) to be your friend. undecided undecided


Repeat what you typed above in a bournvita can, then put it in your ear to hear how it all sounds. Only then will you know how confused you really are. We ladies have a simple lifestyle that shouldn't be complicated. For her to be relatively close to you shows she has already accepted you as a friend. To now keep reiterating that you want her to be your friend again is the height of 'complications' like what exactly do you really mean? undecided undecided
Go back and carefully...I mean carefully...read the post.

Summary The girl he wants to be his friend has excommunicated herself from him and he is not pleased.
Re: Confused Please Advice by Nobody: 6:11pm On Mar 22, 2016
MrCork:







how?.? undecided


Can't say.
Re: Confused Please Advice by tboy11(m): 6:25pm On Mar 22, 2016
mentorken05:
sometimes I wonder why people love to make the word “complication” there best friend.
You are already in a relationship and its obvious that she wants more than frienship.
My advice is this...SINK THE SHIP to avoid stories that touch. just let go,everybody must not be your friend

Thanks for your response...it means a lot

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