I saw a girl whom i loved very much and told her this i then asked for a serious relationship with her.She later called me on phone that she also loves me.She is the churchy type(Most times she TELLS me she is going to church)The problem is whenever I fix an appointment for saturday with her.she is always unavailable(The 2nd saturday in a row),all her phones switched off.Please what do I do.I work every day of the week except sat and sun.Whenever i close from work ,i always try to see her at about 8pm thereabout and she tells me she missed me and all that stuff.when i am at work she also calls me and tells me the same stuff.But she never honors my appointment on saturday or sunday.please what do I do?

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the greatest mistake u'll make is believing she loves u. just let her be

she's prolly scared. u can keep callin her and takin her calls but maybe u need to let her be for a while as per the appointments.

she's a church gurl remember!

Well, she said she did Love you.
First of all, i admire your courage of letting her know your true feeling to which she responded positively.
I don't think you should see her failure to honour your invitation as a sign of lack of love on her part, itz a bit too early to say she doesn't love you.
I think i would also advice you to do what Busta said.

I personally think yo should stop asking her for appointments. The poor girl might think you are trying to get her to a place where you can have sex with her. She's a church girl you know.

Just see her like u normally do arround 8:00. Talk to her n get to know her n stuff. Stop asking for appointments.

hot-angel:

I personally think yo should stop asking her for appointments. The poor girl might think you are trying to get her to a place where you can have sex with her. She's a church girl you know.

Just see her like u normally do arround 8:00. Talk to her n get to know her n stuff. Stop asking for appointments.

u've said it all

from your post, the two of you bearly know each other, yet you are both coffessing love for each other.

where do you work and what does she do. the both of you sound very immature to me, get to know yourselves deciding weather you are both ready to love your selves.

dang pple . . .this topic has been posted since 2006.

stop recycling such old topics abeg.