Well I'm not a married man. I don't even put on my wedding ring. I only formalised my relationship with my partner by inviting friends and family to a get together... Talk for another day...

Marriage has destroyed many beautiful relationships. Some couples dated for years, but they usually start to have issues after marriage. The norms and rules guiding marriage institutions are so archaic and impracticable. Society, family, tribe, religion, environment etc can't dictate how two humans should relate. Wedding to me is a notification ceremony and a notice me occasions.

Why should you change your mode of dressing because you are now married? Do you need to change your cycle of friends because you are now a Mrs? So marriage is a levels changer?

There's a fun in dating. No rules, no laws, no conditions, just two people in a universe of unspoken harmony. It's a union where you don't need to cook for your man, don't see each other everyday, where you dont have time table for sex, where ordinary phone calls is enough, where there are no in laws, and money is no issue.

And why won't I want to be in dating state forever? I'm dating in marriage, it works for me. I'm not a serious husband, I'm just a loving boyfriend.