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Virginity With No Extra Oil by Nobody: 7:39pm On Aug 15, 2016
The journey through life has brought me in contact
with a couple of ladies. The good, the bad and the ugly. A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused to give them sex, some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.
Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not be the
real reason the guys go away. Yes, no doubt, there
are several guys who want sex, and if they don’t get it, they walk away. The problem may not be with the virginity or the sex. The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and foolish were both virgins, the other five were not refused from seeing the bridegroom because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity, but because they were foolish; they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL. Most ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL to sustain any relationship. While many brag about their virginity, that is all they have to offer, they forget that virginity ends the night after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL is what will keep marriage going. If a man ask a lady for sex and she says NO, the man can walk away if what he really wanted was sex and also if that is all he thinks the lady can offer him. A man may not come to a lady for sex, along the line he may be tempted to ask for sex, if the lady turns him down, the man may still stay in the relationship if he sees other things that are valuable to him, but if he doesn’t, he may walk away.
Before, you think guys are walking away because
you are a virgin, look inwardly. Some ladies who brag about virginity are some what timid, some
impolite, uncultured and aggressive. Why would a
guy stay with such a lady? Some ladies do not have
manners, some do not have much upstairs, some
are not social, some are dull, and may be the best
thing they have is their hips, nice back-side, nice breast and nice lips, and so when a guy comes because of all the physical shapes and wants sex, if he is turned down, he walks away because there is nothing else interesting about the lady. Most men now are even scared of marrying such virgins. Their fears prompt them to want to test before they discus marriage because many ladies who got married as virgins have caused their husbands to be looking elsewhere because they are too naïve on bed. However, you don’t need to test to be sure she will be good, you can know a lady who will be good at home and bed by her decent conversation, by the level of knowledge acquired, by her quest/zest/passion for knowledge. I know of many ladies who are still virgins, they have great relationships, they have many friends around them, you may not even know they are still virgins unless they tell you. Do not break your virginity because a guy wants to walk away, unless you don’t have anything else to offer in the
relationship. It is not all about virginity, work to
build up virtue. Virginity is good, but to your virginity, add knowledge, add EXTRA OIL….“And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge; And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness, And to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity.”
Virginity or no virginity...,do you have any Extra oil
to sustain a relationship?

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Re: Virginity With No Extra Oil by Tabelachizza(f): 7:48pm On Aug 15, 2016
Owk......
Re: Virginity With No Extra Oil by Nobody: 8:03pm On Aug 15, 2016
Tabelachizza:
Owk......

Dats all?

I expect u to contribute....
Re: Virginity With No Extra Oil by Nobody: 8:25pm On Aug 15, 2016
What you just post up their is ur own perspective. I will open a thread very soon to counter it. Virginity rocks!
Re: Virginity With No Extra Oil by Nobody: 9:27pm On Aug 15, 2016
dachuchi7:
What you just post up their is ur own perspective. I will open a thread very soon to counter it. Virginity rocks!



Tag me wen the thread is opened.

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