hey peeps,i need una help to decide this situation. theres this girl i have been dating 4 some 1month now.i keep steady contact of 5days interval or more and send texts too to her and she has not returned a reply.when ever i call her she keeps smiling and an "ok dont worry"kind of person.she is schoolin in abj and she says she has no plans of comin home 4 the holiday.wat do u peeps think i should do,cos i really dont want to let go.

guy, try to let go. she is not serious with u.

Exactly man she is not serious with u. I ve also been 2rugh dat road

Yep let go

Then hold on and stop complainin _{funny people}

omo, she no get feeling for u a bit.
so let go and stop disturbing her with ur kalls,ok.

hahahah see that baby no get feelings at for, if she got that feelings notting will stop her from coming home even though their is any excuse

Mayb she's got smone else wu she's nt sure of. She doesnt wnt 2 tel u off now incase d oda guy disapoint her. Den she'l get serious wit u. Jus stop calin n texin.

Mayb she's got smone else wu she's nt sure of. She doesnt wnt 2 tel u off now incase d oda guy disapoint her. Den she'l get serious wit u. Jus stop calin n texin.

that just the truth

You know, sometimes i get this odd feeling that radiant is a guy, cos she just talks like one

lmao. . . . Whitex, na crase u chop

Radiant:

lmao. . . . Whitex, na crase u chop

Lol, but its true, well, thats the impression i get when i read your posts, u have this very strong approach to delicate matters

U want to give me your number to call you and prove I'm a full grownass woman?

I'm a strong lady may be

whitelexi:

You know, sometimes i get this odd feeling that radiant is a guy, because she just talks like one

Very odd, that. I understand exactly what you mean.

roflmfao. . . .This is getting serious May be because I grew up with guys? Hey! I'm a female

@Cutedoc

Don't let go just yet. It sounds like to me, you really don't know what is going on with you and this girl. [b]A closed mouth will not get fed. [/b]You need to tell this girl you would like to have a talk with her. If she agrees to talk to you, you need to let her know how much you like her and you need to let her know that you have future intentions for her. Then you wait for her to respond. If she still acts casual about everything, then you ask her how she feels about you? Pay close attention to this girl during conversation, she seems hard to figure out. From your description of this girls attitude, she sounds like either she is the type to wait for a man to come after her or she is the type that does not have a clue when someone really likes her. Either way, you won't know unless you ask.

If you don't ask, you will be stuck wondering.

If you do ask, at least you will know the outcome and then you can move on with life.

What could be worse, to never know or to know and then have an idea about what to do next?

Cutedoc, dont deceive yourself she is not serious or that into you. Come on let it go

@poster u kno wat to do so stop askin silly question's

Guy, i honestly think she is not serious about you. Try and move in without her.

shr's already gone!