There is this guy i met almost three months now. We talk often and its obvious we both like eachother but now he has started playing funny games like answering with "ahan" and "uhm hmm" on the phone when we chat or putting me on hold to receive other phone calls. What's his deal? maybe he is nolonger interested? I have a feeling he is just trying to test my level of interest in him but i am getting fed up cos i like my guys simple and real. Advise and opinions please,

may be ur doing dat right thing, buy him gifts and sha, him well

maybe u r not doing d right thing,

I hv tried with him, tried to be as honest and real as i can be but i guess its a personality/mentality clash. Things i wldnt count as a big deal he thinks it is. Well its best we call it quits now if that's what he really wants cos i am not amused and my feelings for him are back to square one (when before it was growing)

dat is d best thing sugar pp, i support u,

This here is my take on the issue, he may really dig you and like you surmise just trying to see how much you care for him through the games he play, on the other hand he may have had a rethink about the whole fiasco and decided he doesn't want you anymore, so, trying to be the gentleman he's sending you signals via his attitude,hoping you'd take the hint and make yourself scarce. But then,you said you aren't feeling him anymore,so I guess it's kaput now, be on your way,me friend, so much freedom and goodness out there, I choose to see the single lady that's a woman in every sense rather than the nine that act the fool, keep that mentality and you'd hit pay dirt, wishing you the best.

This here is my take on the issue, he may really dig you and like you surmise just trying to see how much you care for him through the games he play, on the other hand he may have had a rethink about the whole fiasco and decided he doesn't want you anymore, so, trying to be the gentleman he's sending you signals via his attitude,hoping you'd take the hint and make yourself scarce. But then,you said you aren't feeling him anymore,so I guess it's kaput now, be on your way,me friend, so much freedom and goodness out there, I choose to see the single lady that's a woman in every sense rather than the nine that act the fool, keep that mentality and you'd hit pay dirt, wishing you the best.

Thanks Mitchelin you are right- better to be single than to be a fool i guess. It hurts though cos i liked him but i'm sure i'll be fine by tomorrow.

ill tell you a secret the only time a guy answers the phone with huhu hmm hmm is when he has another girl in front of him. Believe it or not you are being played. Besides its only been a few months and have you had the conversation of being strictly exclusive with each other if not you should because you can't assume that you are the only one


na mean

I'll be straight here,
This guy has 3 things in mind-
make u fall,
F*ck the daylight out of you,
Dump you!
If you doubt give him a chance!

AHHH!!! al of a sudden all of u are clairvoyant and know what is happening based on the few lines she wrote? u ACTUALLY know what the guy is doing and can STAND BY UR ASSERTIONS anywhere? O.M.G.

@ poster well the ball is in your court but hmmnnn,

hamziwhiz:

I'll be straight here,
This guy has 3 things in mind-
make u fall,
F*ck the daylight out of you,
Dump you!
If you doubt give him a chance!

well i guessed that was the case but was hoping it wasn't true but now it is looking more like that. Thank you guys for your sincere advises.

Just follow ur hrt nd do what eva u think is d best 4 u.

dont follow ur heart, use ur head

^^^ Biola, since when did you start posting instead of your usual grin grin?

u should do wat is in ur heart, i dont think u r telling us d full story

bayol2001:

u should do wat is in your heart, i dont think u r telling us d full story

The full story is i started developing feelings for him very recently and i was like o-oh! the more i see him the more i like him and the more i find out about him the more i admire him. However there are three things about him that i hate: his playboy attitude, his stubborness (when i say i don't like something he doesn't make an attempt to change) and his obsession with privacy (not that i'm one that like intrudn on anybody's privacy but there are some things that i can't afford to be in the dark about also i am naturally inquisitive). Plus i feel like he is trying to force me to do things at his own pace anyway too much talk talk let him go i know i'm a great catch so i can't be bothered

@Sugar pp
y not enta into d game urself. Show him u're worth d challenge. Form 4 am sef abi u no b chic u b kpalass.

dats not nice sugarpp u should respect his privacy,

Eshyy:

@Sugar pp
y not enta into d game urself. Show him u're worth d challenge. Form 4 am sef abi u no b chic u b kpalass.

kpalass be what anyway i don't need to enter into the game i have nothing less than 5 guys waiting to pick up where he left off (no exageration) plus i'm a busy woman time is money why waste my time playing his game?

bayol2001:

dats not nice sugarpp u should respect his privacy,

well he can go chop his privacy for breakfast, lunch and dinner!

5 guys! Pls make that six, am in. Neva knew u were a buisness woman

5 guys! Pls make that six, am in. Neva knew u were a buisness woman

what's ur age? what's ur star sign? what hv u got 2 offer? every dissappointment is a blessing n boy u jst might b that blessing,

@Sugar pp
U surely 1 hell of a girl. u're very funny d guy is surely the one to miss out.

i think u r d one dat as d problem sugarpp, u sound like a proud girl, r u sure u r not proud?u av 5 guys waiting, maybe u should date d 5 of them, cheer up sugarpp,

@ bayol2001
don't talk to my----in dat manner, else

who u be sef,

na wa 4 dis bayol2001 dude o since wen has statn fact been a matter of bein proud? pride cums b4 a great fall so there is absolutely no way i can be proud except i want to ja bo nehoo Eshyy answer my questions if its not love you might atleast make a good rebound!

hmmmmm dis topic is reli x-rated

bayol2001:

hmmmmm dis topic is reli x-rated

bayol2001 you are on ur own oooo