Do Black American Males and West African Women Make Good Couples

You would think so on the surface. I mean you have the exotic beautiful women from west africa and the handsome black man but what about culturally

and what is to be gain or loss by them hooking up. I see alot online about white men marrying african women but never her distant brother.

I think its an obvious good match that has been overlooked for long time but once one famous person embraces it will spread like wildfire what is your take on the matter

I just personally believe that sometimes african women are made to feel inferior by their african counterparts in the west. It is sometimes better to be with a white man than our "distant brothers" cause they kind of look down on us.

Thats my take on this.

Just an opinion no offence

could you give me some examples this is a new perspective that i was never aware of this and its certaintly not express from the brothers in my experience.

If fact I was told by alot of brothers that if there is a reason to shy away from them its because we are held to higher expectation when having relationships to them because our frame of reference is that these women represents mother earth because they are from the motherland.

Like its weird I have seen brothers call their american counterparts bitches and hoes but shy away from that word when referring to african women

because she keeps the customs of the mother earth. Its like calling her that in a sense disrespects himself. You feel me.

She seems unattainable in his eyes whether because of her extreme beauty orher cultural differences to some mean so maybe they avoid her altogether.


Another reason a brother may avoid an african sister is because she holds you him to higher standard in terms of what she expects of him . But if you meet that standard it safe bet that you'll have the domestic stability that often escapes alot of brothers even when we are successful.

One reason I think african males meaning from africa are able to succeed is because they have a supportive female counterpart that caters to his needs ehy he focuses on making a living.

in america the black women caught in social advances economically sometimes neglects her domestic duites an this as result effects the entire home.

I am very jealous of this and I told brother that alot of their problems result from domestic strife. I have dated african women in the past and aside from a few negative views about men have been woderful partners emotionally and sexually.

They (african women) stress marriage alot for social purposes sometimes without the emotinal foundation needed to secure a good marriage because truthfully everyone you hookup with you are not going to marry but that person can teach you something about person you need to be when you marry.

why marry just procreate

But black american men marriage west african men would do wonders for the kids and future generations of africans and africa in general.

we have so much to learn about each other why not do it making whoopie

oh thou seemingly enlightened one.

You mention quite a lot of important points.

but i think you are one of the few african americans that think that way. And thats good. it solidifies your identity.

I think african american women are forced to stand up because their males just dont respect or stand up for them. someones gotta do the job.

i like what you say about the men in society going out to work, whilst the females focusing on their emotional needs. thats deep man.

anyways later.

Madam.

I meant to say get married as well i definitely for the institution of marriage if the love is authentic between the two parties

WHAT A STUPID,SENSELESS,I.DIOTIC  AND FOOLISH THREAD.  

What makes the thread stupid?

The stereotype of the African American male is one of the reasons you would rarely see a match with an African girl. I'll talk about the stereotype later.

blackmanus:

Do Black American Males and West African Women Make Good Couples

You would think so on the surface. I mean you have the exotic beautiful women from west africa and the handsome black man but what about culturally

and what is to be gain or loss by them hooking up. I see alot online about white men marrying african women but never her distant brother.

I think its an obvious good match that has been overlooked for long time but once one famous person embraces it will spread like wildfire what is your take on the matter

It depends on the maturity of the couple in involved.