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At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by Nobody: 2:41pm On Nov 04, 2009
At what point should a man back out on a chase and when does a man become a nuisance to a lady?
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by ThoniaSlim(f): 2:47pm On Nov 04, 2009
A man backs out  when he realizes that seriously she ain't playing hard to get but she's just not into you! And probably when the man has chased and chased and realizes she's not who he thought she was at first. . .or when a lady is interested in the guy but has carried the playing hard to get damn to far!

And some men just don't know when to stop. . .when a man becomes a nuisance is when the lady is practically not into you but you keep persisting and thinking in your delusional mind that she's playing hard to get. . .some men seriously need to be nigga slapped!

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Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by KennyG6(m): 2:50pm On Nov 04, 2009
@poster
while there is life, then there is hope that he can still have her, so my advice is Never Give Up on your dreams! cheesy
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by IFELEKE(m): 3:05pm On Nov 04, 2009
dappssee:

At what point should a man back out on a chase and when does a man become a nuisance to a lady?
Simply put, a man should back out before he becomes a nuisance. . .A responsible man should know when his advances are not welcomed and he should honourably back off before he dishonourably becomes a nuisance.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by sistajay(f): 3:25pm On Nov 04, 2009
To the point when she invites him over to hers and make him watch her makin love to another man/woman!! Seriously some men don't know when to back off. They cant handle rejection, they persist and persist hopin you'd become the object of their desire. Not easy bein a woman, I tell ya!!
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by Nobody: 3:30pm On Nov 04, 2009
I think a guy will stop chasing as soon as he finds another girl who catches his interest. Sometimes such diversion of interest works and also if the guy is a Chase addict, Works too when the girl is playing hard to get.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by Abbeycity4(f): 3:33pm On Nov 04, 2009
Kenny_G:

@poster
while there is life, then there is hope that he can still have her, so my advice is Never Give Up on your dreams!  cheesy

i agree wit u
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by Nobody: 3:37pm On Nov 04, 2009
I Don't think Dreams apply to Girls.
Thats a different Ball Game.
You make your dreams come true first, then aybe somfin else will happen.
It's like chaing the Kingdom of God first and other things will follow.
Thats what Nija girls are about.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by smooooooth: 3:44pm On Nov 04, 2009
a man stops chasing when they lady is serious in her saying ''NO'' most ladies dnt want a relationship, but they keep encouraging the dude by being accomodating, smiling, beating around the bush, saying things like ''look its not like i cant date u but, '' mess shit, be blunt, direct and unfriendly. the guy aint dunmb, he will get the message. no one likes to be a nuisance, the women encourage them with thier not too direct replies.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by Duduknight(m): 3:52pm On Nov 04, 2009
smooooooth:

a man stops chasing when they lady is serious in her saying ''NO'' most ladies dnt want a relationship, but they keep encouraging the dude by being accomodating, smiling, beating around the bush, saying things like ''look its not like i cant date u but, '' mess shit, be blunt, direct and unfriendly. the guy aint dunmb, he will get the message. no one likes to be a nuisance, the women encourage them with thier not too direct replies.

You are so correct. Women know how to get the message across when they are not interested. But sometimes, for various reasons (dry spell, gifts, attention, showing-ff to friends, making boyfriend jealous) they do not get the message across properly so that the guy can continue the chase. Once the objective is satisfied (sometimes it never is), they get nasty. Most guys don't like to have their ego bruised badly, so they get the message while some dull boys hang around like fools even when the game is over.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by lemmycop: 3:56pm On Nov 04, 2009
ThoniaSlim:

A man backs out  when he realizes that seriously she ain't playing hard to get but she's just not into you! And probably when the man has chased and chased and realizes she's not who he thought she was at first. . .or when a lady is interested in the guy but has carried the playing hard to get damn to far!

And some men just don't know when to stop. . .when a man becomes a nuisance is when the lady is practically not into you but you keep persisting and thinking in your delusional mind that she's playing hard to get. . .some men seriously need to be nigga slapped!
I agree with u 100% smiley
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by 190: 3:58pm On Nov 04, 2009
ThoniaSlim:

A man backs out  when he realizes that seriously she ain't playing hard to get but she's just not into you! And probably when the man has chased and chased and realizes she's not who he thought she was at first. . .or when a lady is interested in the guy but has carried the playing hard to get damn to far!

And some men just don't know when to stop. . .when a man becomes a nuisance is when the lady is practically not into you but you keep persisting and thinking in your delusional mind that she's playing hard to get. . .some men seriously need to be nigga slapped!

I KNOW U ARE INDIRECTLY TALKING 2 ME~
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by ibrokay(m): 3:59pm On Nov 04, 2009
@ Dudu
I agree totally with you.I stop chasing once she says no
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by smooooooth: 4:07pm On Nov 04, 2009
look guys, the truth is no girl is worth the chase, once she says no, then back out, no matter ow much u feeling her. cos u only end up bruising your ego, and women love the chase it swells their head, knowing that u kinda dying for them, but the truth is even knowing that, they still stick to that no. but once u back out first time, they come after u.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by olelle: 4:14pm On Nov 04, 2009
For the first part of the question, when he thinks he's not really getting anywhere after a good while of chasing.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by Macgreat(m): 4:17pm On Nov 04, 2009
smooooooth:

look guys, the truth is no girl is worth the chase, once she says no, then back out, no matter ow much u feeling her. cos u only end up bruising your ego, and women love the chase it swells their head, knowing that u kinda dying for them, but the truth is even knowing that, they still stick to that no. but once u back out first time, they come after u.

true talk bro smiley
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by SisiKill1: 4:17pm On Nov 04, 2009
When she says NO, NEVER, NOT EVEN! NOT IN THIS LIFE TIME OR TEN TO COME
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by smooooooth: 4:29pm On Nov 04, 2009
Sisi_Kill:

When she says NO, NEVER, NOT EVEN! NOT IN THIS LIFE TIME OR TEN TO COME

i once met a girl who said all that, and we still bleeped in this life time, and wasnt up to 10yrs of chasing, cos she kept calling my no. visiting my house and hanging out wiv me, so its not in the saying it, they shld act it.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by iice(f): 4:37pm On Nov 04, 2009
ThoniaSlim:

A man backs out  when he realizes that seriously she ain't playing hard to get but she's just not into you! And probably when the man has chased and chased and realizes she's not who he thought she was at first. . .or when a lady is interested in the guy but has carried the playing hard to get damn to far!

And some men just don't know when to stop. . .when a man becomes a nuisance is when the lady is practically not into you but you keep persisting and thinking in your delusional mind that she's playing hard to get. . .some men seriously need to be nigga slapped!

Gbam. . .especially the last part, so bloody irritating angry
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by chic2pimp(m): 5:07pm On Nov 04, 2009
Well within a week, I can tell if she is interested or not. If she's not i'll back out.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by NuhuRibadu: 4:02pm On Nov 05, 2009
till the lady marries!!! if a man likes a lady, he does not need to back out, but he should never press the lady with his request. just keep it hanging in the air and be friends as long as the lady does not object to ordinary frendship

note that i am talking about serious relationship and not "i want to ph**k" -styled relationship
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by Kevo007: 4:15pm On Nov 05, 2009
iice:

Gbam. . .especially the last part, so bloody irritating angry

Ok i dont think that stands all through.

Let me illustrate with a specfic example.

I know this gurl that i used to hang out with, she used to pratically tell me everything that was going on with her. Then she told me of this guy that was asking her out, you know right in my presence she swore and cursed that she would never go out with him, but then after about two years we lost contact,and then i met up with her friend and then guess what. She is now dating him.

You can never tell in what direction a woman would go.
Tell me about that,
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by r231(m): 4:15pm On Nov 05, 2009
chic2pimp:

Well within a week, I can tell if she is interested or not. If she's not i'll back out.

within a week? you must be calling her or chassing her for like 20 times a day or something lol

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Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by hbrednic: 4:16pm On Nov 05, 2009
only when a girl knocks you down,
kick you on the head,bend down to piss and shit on you  tongue
thats when you know the game is over  cool
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by jdamian: 4:18pm On Nov 05, 2009
not until he marries her,lol, or the ladies in the house what do you think? wink
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by saworoide: 4:25pm On Nov 05, 2009
Actor no dey die for film.

A man must persist until the lady finally says yes or goes to the altar with another man, in which case it is confirmed she's no longer available.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by Nobody: 4:44pm On Nov 05, 2009
A man stop chasing a woman when there are no more teeth in his mouth. He can never be a niusance if there is money to spend.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by Nobody: 4:51pm On Nov 05, 2009
The guy stops chasing when he lands a maybach and has ova 5million bucks in his piggy bank

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Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by seedord247(m): 5:01pm On Nov 05, 2009
WHEN THERE IS MONEY, I THINK THERE IS LOVE, FOR WE NIGERIAN ONLY.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by Nezan(m): 5:09pm On Nov 05, 2009
When he realises there is a God to whom we will account to someday!
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by Nobody: 5:13pm On Nov 05, 2009
Money is equal to Love>>>>>> so true
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing : by kemkem2(f): 5:14pm On Nov 05, 2009
when the girl says NOO, simple. when a girl says no and the guy keeps chasing it becomes v.annoying

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