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Am I Getting Frigid? by Godmother(f): 6:57pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
Since I broke up with my ex 8 months ago, I noticed that any guy that comes my way either irritates me or bores me to death after I spend like an hour or two with him. I keep intouch with my exes and even they irritate me as well. This terrifies me because I dnt want to end up alone. My last ex really hurt me a lot and I dont know if this is the reason. He called me just last week on my birthday and we talked for a long time on the phone, he even invited me to his niece's wedding. But anytime he tries getting chatty I just feel myself getting irritated and I cut the phone on him.What could be wrong with me o?There are some great guys around me right now and I wish I could just like one. I know how good guys are hard to come by. Am I getting frigid emotionally and if I am what can I do? |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
Sweetie you have retreated into your shell because you were hurt. Time heals all wounds and you will come out the other end. In the mean time keep being friendly with guys They are not all bad . |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by BoredAtWor: 7:03pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
YOU just need to stay on your own and get your self together,. Looks like you are emotionally scared |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Outstrip(f): 7:04pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
I think you are just jaded. Have fun and give yourself time to figure it all out |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by dajoaneke(m): 7:25pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
[color=#000099]Hi Miss, it takes time for the heart to heal from any emotional scar. The heart needs love and when broken , needs tender-loving care to help in healing process . When hrt broken and every other opposite sex irritate u , it's a proof that you really love the person u ache for . Do u want the relationship to continue or you'd like to taste the waters and explore the world of possibilities? , Chris- Abuja[/color] |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Igwe9(m): 7:28pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
Hmm! no wonder, you've always been making peace on here, lol. . so sweetie, get over it, continue your friendship with them without getting too emotional I believed that everybody has the right to be happy, to be continued. . . . .lol |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by dajoaneke(m): 7:31pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
Just saw ur pix in ur profile, i dont want to believe a beautiful girl like u would complain abt relationship. Eh! with ur sweet smile, eyes, white teeth ad gap-tooth! Kai, call me on 08038418611 or 07095083156 |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Godmother(f): 7:45pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
Thanks o, my head is swelling.who no like compliments |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Macgreat(m): 7:51pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
Sorry mama. . . ya heart will heal with time. |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by whitelexi(m): 8:00pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
Definitely frigid u need to free yourself first, stop being stiff |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Macgreat(m): 8:16pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
Okay. . . |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Igwe9(m): 8:23pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
dajoaneke:hehehe, the lady in that picture dey rock life well well lol |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by scottN(m): 8:38pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
Lesson learnt in life i guess . Just move on with your life as if nothing happened except that u be more cautious this time around but keep ur mind and emotions open. U never know; he could be the next ONE or one of them just around you ! |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Macgreat(m): 8:41pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
scottN: Or One of them in here |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by scottN(m): 8:46pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
Macgreat:Hawk, Carry go, nutin do u sha! |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Godmother(f): 9:53am On Nov 06, 2009 |
whitelexi: Stiff? And how do I free myself? Macgreat: Not sure.Nairaland guys are sooooo randy, well some of them. |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by debest1(m): 10:05am On Nov 06, 2009 |
Godmother:haba godmother, how can you do this to me now? I thought we agreed not to discuss our "relationship" and its problems on here? ehn? is this fair? By the way, i'm the cause of that "frigidity", as a typical yoruba man, noone breaks up with me and expects to walk into another man's arms, they gave me a padlock to lock up ur emotions, so u better return to your one and only kia kia, |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by smooooooth: 10:22am On Nov 06, 2009 |
Ebonyeyes: why do ladies always talk about retreating into a shell after they feel hurt, are they snails or tortoise or what. love turns around and knocks u off ur feet. that dosent mean u shld take it out on ur sef or the world. hurt is when u remain where u were dump. u have not business staying there, cos whoever dump u there is gone, so u need to get ur self up and move on too. |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by TheHenrys(m): 10:26am On Nov 06, 2009 |
@Godmother, Like you said you are getting frigid,you have to open your heart,life is a process but you have to help you yourself too,its not going to be easy after heart breaks,it happens to everybody,the earlier you begin to open up more the better,i'm not saying you should start dating immediately,make friends and see how it goes from there,take time out learn about yourself and people before going to a relationship,discover who you are before going into a new relationship,that way you can know the kind of man you want,though he might not be perfect but atleast he will not break your heart when you find him. |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by galatico(m): 10:54am On Nov 06, 2009 |
Baby Girl mistakes are bound to happen, and you ought to learn from the mistake, their is this saying I like saying, "THE DOWNFALL OF A MAN(WOMAN) IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD" it's jus your ability to get up and face your challenges.mistakes and hope not to make the same mistake over and over, don't be too hard on yourself or the other guys that come your way, just open up and becareful one day you'll definatly meet the Special man . |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Godmother(f): 11:06am On Nov 06, 2009 |
debest1: ROFLMAO So you placed emotional "magun" on me she?Lol |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by debest1(m): 11:16am On Nov 06, 2009 |
Godmother:yes now! what did u expect, 2 let u go just like that? @ post, You dont need to be 2 hard on yourself, just take your time and when u meet that special someone you'll find your self relaxing in his company, |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Godmother(f): 11:25am On Nov 06, 2009 |
I'm praying for that |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by debest1(m): 11:27am On Nov 06, 2009 |
Godmother:Maybe we can hold prayer meeting 2gether sef, "Prayer of agreement" |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Godmother(f): 11:38am On Nov 06, 2009 |
Hehehehe Debest you will not kill me.Lol |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by debest1(m): 11:39am On Nov 06, 2009 |
Godmother:lol, |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
@poster--- YES, U Are FRIGID, maybe u shud swing the other way. |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Godmother2: 8:15pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
madambini: No can do, Im not a gay |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
@ poster I believe your frigidness is due to your last relationship which ended up badly. It is normal to develop a sort of hatred for the opposite sex when one of them has really hurt you. I am going through the same thing (not sexually speaking) so I understand you. |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
sorry! hope u get out of ur frigidity soon or else u go just old, |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by whitelexi(m): 8:28pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
^^^ |
Re: Am I Getting Frigid? by Godmother2: 8:30pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
michelin89: Thanks Madambenin |
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