Have you ever completely lost respect for a friend because of something they said or did? What happened?

I remember I last month I kicked a friend out of my life because he said he intended to remain ‘childish’ all his life.
This fellow, in his thirties, goes around different social media forums cussing out people’s parents. When I advised him to quit his antics, especially as his mates had pre-teen kids, the aforementioned is the response I got.

Another friend told me men were not designed to be faithful to women, so he could never be faithful.

So guys, tell us something that friend or partner did that made you completely lose respect for them.

source:
http://grovbase.com/2016/11/22/have-you-ever-completely-lost-respect-for-a-friend-because-of-something-they-said-or-did-what-happened/

I don't keep many friends, I have not had any reason to do away with the very few I have

Hell yeah, and I usually hold on to friendships especially woman friends. I have two very female friends that have been with me through loss, grief, jobs, and sickness; and I for them. Barbara was a former tenant who I formed a close friendship—along with her family (husband and two boys). Barbara and I did many activities together, clubbing, hanging out at each others apartments. I lost contact when she and her family moved out. She popped back into my life after an absence of 20+ years. We because close friends again; she would help me with errands; drive me places, we hung out again. I don’t speak to her now; and it has been 4 years. Her whole family were running a con on me, and I did not like their lifestyle (utilities were often turned off and she struggled to pay a mortgage and car note). Plus, Barbara was a psycho—I knew it then, but it had gotten worse (lol). I changed my residence with letting them know. It is better to cut one's losses than to stay in a toxic relationship. Once I finally cut the ties, I don't look back.

What i did was too shameful...guess i lost my respect and friendship with her...it beats my imagination how pepple you hold in high esteem will just lose confidence in you because of just one mistake you make.

yes. mine was a big brother who is a graduate of FUTO. i used to hold him with high esteem as a potential millionaire. my disappointment came when i was done with project, travelled home but was met with the news that he had sold a big Iroko tree which belonged to the community. i was really disappointed.





the community is now holding him ransom

lol.. the guy above me though.. what a funny story.. well mine I didn't kick out my friend I was just disappointed..I'm very close with him and his family.. imagine seeing one of the brothers overseas on facebook.. I was like wth, then I asked my friend why he didn't tell me his bro was traveling out and he was like, "guy you no know who be who". I was f*cking dumbfounded!

I don't think I have any stories to share. Most of the people I eventually cut off never meant much to me. When I hold you dear I always give you several chances, it's my weakness and also because I'd expect you to do same because I'm far from perfect.

Dramadiddy:
lol.. the guy above me though.. what a funny story.. well mine I didn't kick out my friend I was just disappointed..I'm very close with him and his family.. imagine seeing one of the brothers overseas on facebook.. I was like wth, then I asked my friend why he didn't tell me his bro was traveling out and he was like, "guy you no know who be who". I was f*cking dumbfounded!

your friend though..

ButterFrost212:
your friend though..

you unfollowed me and ran from our conversation

ButterFrost212:
your friend though..

I was pretty pained Tho.. to think I told him when I was processing my visa.. Nigerians shaaaaa

I cut people off all the time, especially if they lie. Im used to it

judeefcc:
you unfollowed me and ran from our conversation

because you were drawing me to unnecessary threads. What conversation btw, I asked a question and you directed me to a thread with the answer, what else

ButterFrost212:

because you were drawing me to unnecessary threads. What conversation btw, I asked a question and you directed me to a thread with the answer, what else

cause its only me that you are following i dont checking followings , no wahala i shall return the gesture

Dramadiddy:
I was pretty pained Tho.. to think I told him when I was processing my visa.. Nigerians shaaaaa

I can just imagine.

Yes, I just ended a friendship...she is one self centered lady, wants you to dismiss your problems to accommodate hers. Smh, glad she is out.

Growing up we were a tight group in church and got to be like blood brothers after going on a two week camp in a remote area. Fast forward... we went our separate ways... most relocated... had various careers but the bond was always there. One owned a car dealership.... another became head of an international organisation and sourced a new car for the organisation from the dealer. The dealer took down payment for the car and delivery fees.... never delivered the car nor refunded the deposit. Within a year... we learned the dealership was closed and he was on the run.... on the run from those who he had done the same and were looking for refund in cash or blood. He is on his own.