she always complain, that dis person say, that person say, my friends are bad, some of dem have children,and they have plenty girlfriends,so maybe i will become like  dem one day, (but their is nothing like dat with friends)WHAT WILL DO.

i will tell her my mind and if nothing changed, i will leave her to go and date the people she blvs

@poster
this woman wants you to choose between your friends etc and her.
the ball is in your court. but remember that if you choose her then you have to give up all your friends and, maybe soon, anyone who doesnt fit her criteria.
its called CONTROL!!!!!!!!!!!!

the solution to your problem is VERY simple, tell your gf that:
she should accept you for who you are and not who you hang with or who says what and if she doesnt like it then she should take a hike and look for that perfect guy (unless you are desperate and therefore you should bow down to her demands)

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
this woman wants you to choose between your friends etc and her.
the ball is in your court. but remember that if you choose her then you have to give up all your friends and, maybe soon, anyone who doesnt fit her criteria.
its called CONTROL!!!!!!!!!!!!

the solution to your problem is VERY simple, tell your gf that:
she should accept you for who you are and not who you hang with or who says what and if she doesnt like it then she should take a hike and look for that perfect guy (unless you are desperate and therefore you should bow down to her demands)

Well said . . . .second the motion

remeber the phrase "show me your friends and i'll show you who you are" or "birds of a feather flock together"? people tend most offen to have friends who they are similar to

agathamari:

remeber the phrase "show me your friends and i'll show you who you are" or "birds of a feather flock together"? people tend most offen to have friends who they are similar to

yes thats is absolutely right but in no way should people make a habit of judging YOU by what your friends are doing in their private lives.
my friendship to them is not based on their love/marital life so how can a person be judged for that?

also, i have some friends who cheat on their gf/spouse, although i might not agree with what they are doing, it doesnt make them any less my friends.
everyone has the right to do what they please and, as long as it is not something criminal or impairing on our friendship, i will not put my mouth there. i will give them my views on the issue and basta!

whats next!? this guy got a ticket for DUI so he shouldnt be my friend? this girl once cheated on her bf so you shouldnt associate with her?
and what about if the ¨bad¨ person is your father/mother? should you drop them too?!

i will tell her my mind, if she wants to stay, she should, if she wants to go, good luck

echo- bee:

i will tell her my mind, if she wants to stay, she should, if she wants to go, good luck

U sure u wont cry?

why will i cry, am a lady, i will listen to my man.because he takes care of me,why will i listen to people, if i even listen, i will handle it in a matured way. madam are u ok now