Alondra:
What do you talk about?l, How attractive is your manner of communication? Do you know what interests your audience? How do you interest your audience? How much do you know about your audience?. Communication is no gender thing either, I've met some boring guys but I learnt to deal with them.. You should do the same

CreamyMoltenLar:
The simple truth of the matter is that many ladies lack the wit to flow in conversations. How many novels have you read in your life? All most of you do is read religious/inspirational books, so when someone engages you in an intellectually stimulating conversation, all you can come up with is K and lol. You say we should center discussions around your interests, as in I should sit down and start discussing how Gum Jum Pyo is the cutest Korean to walk this earth, or how one Bollywood soap opera or the other changed your life? What fantastic interests do you have that could possibly fuel a lengthy conversation? That's how I made a typo one day and I told the girl I was greeting her in hieroglyphic and the airhead replied with K. The only conversations most ladies can keep up with are the ones that feature have you eaten, what did you eat, when did you eat it, how, with what, ws up, hw fr etc

Abbeylincson:

guy how far

checkpoint:
Sup guys, few months back I was like bored and wanted to make new friends, then I decided to try something new. I hooked up with beautiful whiteys on tango and I must say, I have no regrets. Every chat was a hit back to back. They're so free and flexible , so many things to talk about, not like our girls that will be replying with two letter words and I'd be like who is this one forming for. As in naija babes bore me when it comes to chat. Except for few sha. I really wish I could upload our chat.
Modified* for y'all thinking I was talking about sex-chatting. That's isn't what I meant. I mean chatting like generally

MrCork:




do they ignore you?

checkpoint:
no, I don't just like the way most if them flow

MrCork:




...bro am confuse...so you say in you ask them for phone number an they refuse??....are you sure they Nigerians?

checkpoint:
read the post well na, I don't know what you are talking about

checkpoint:
read the post well na, I don't know what you are talking about

MrCork:




..I did bro....so you say in all Nigerian women are lesssssssbian cozzzzzzz they ignore you durrrrin chat online...correct?..
. Bro you realise you can catch bettttter women from yahoolonelyhearts.com ?..THANK ME LATER.

AnthonioAlsaid:

I SOLID....WHAT'S GOOD...

Abbeylincson:

I sent you a pm.
in your first comment there is something I want to give me.

JoshuaSamuraiX:


Went through this thread I understand what you meant but I must confess MOST naija ladies sucks in chatting.

You mention mood, very true. average naija ladies go through a lot like school problem, parental issue, home chores, mentrual cycle, broken heart from past relationship just to mention a few so they are ALWAYS not in the mood for chatting.

The ones that chat well are the ones that are less busy eg I just finished Uni and I found out that all my lady friend that are always busy during school days all of a sudden started initiating chat and they even chat better than I do.

what changed? they are less busy probably just waiting for nysc, chilling at home, less problem to think about.

You are right, it's not actually ladies fault.

AnthonioAlsaid:


YEAH....THE EMAIL I USED IN OPENING THIS ACCOUNT IS OBSOLETE..AS IN BEYOND RECOVERY

BUT WHAT COULD I POSSIBLY HAVE TO GIVE?

adajoe555:
who cares...moving to the next post

Abbeylincson:

I need foreign forum links as in social media where I can make friends

checkpoint:
if you say mood, what type because me I don't understand. Is it that they are always happy or they are always sad. Because I wonder why you'd ask a girl what did you do today she'll just reply you in two words most time they say nothing like they didn't do anything fun through out the day. But if they want to send BC now it will take the whole of my phone screen. About gender please don't go there you need to see chats with guys I haven't even met.

Minemrys:

forget it. Some gals are dull/boring when it c0mes to chat. U text 'em and they just give m0n0t0ne replies. I kn0w the kind of texts u are talking of gals n0t replying. Texts like 'have u eaten today', 'what did u eat'. Am a decent guy and i do no such tinx bt yet, they are like mannequins when it c0mes to chat. D0n't kn0w what else i'll text to get 'em talking and am n0t the gossip kind.

myke92:


view her dp, and use it to poke fun at her ...she ll most likely respond, u can build up from dere.

myke92:


"what did u do today" is an extremely boring question to ask a lady u are just getting to know., u need to be witty and a bit unconventional with Ur questions and then watch her anticipate Ur chats...

Minemrys:

may have helped if i was going online l0oking for a girlfriend. But, am n0t that kinda guy. Don't believe in relati0nships let al0ne, that which is clouded by an internet firewall.

chrissy3:
MAaaa nigga .Now that's the kind of mindset all guys should have.Girls aint worth all the stress and its because guys in Nigeria give them over the top attention that's why they choose to front all the time.Notice how them white Latino and other country chicks tend to be by far open compared to nigerian chicks because the homies over there don't give as much attention as we nigerian guys do . The eleventh guy theory states "when 10guys give a girl attention and the 11th guy acts like he doesn't have interest,automatically he becomes the interesting guy and ultimate he would slice before any other guy". We just screw things up by giving them value where they aint suppose to have.