am currently not in talking terms with my girlfriend but deep down i miss her. we had problems cause she went on an escapade and didnt tell me she claims and swore to her close friend that she didnt sleep with anybody but i feel she did but she says she didnt. should i believe her or should i leave her but it will be painful cause i really love her pls advice

You feel she did? meaning your relationship has no trust? you still sit there and tell moi you really love her; grow up, man.

if she said she didn't do any thing and you dont believe her then you shouldn't stay because it would always be on your mind

dogzymallo:

but i feel she did but she says she didnt. should i believe her or should i leave her but it will be painful cause i really love her pls advice

Give her the benefit of doubt. Since you cannot prove beyond reasonable doubts that she did it. You cannot take an important decision like that based on your feelings alone. And did you not just say you love her and you miss her as well? 

i do love her.i called her yesterday after i got some advice she still told me what happenned i believe now she didn't do anything cause she cried and told me what happened and i have forgiven her

she don go enjoy herself finish

mess some boys come cry crocrodile tears give u

and u come fall for the tears

i fit cry for u sef and u go believe me~

shakes head,i pity u ~

Forgive her but watch out.If she did it,she wuld do it again cos everyday is for the thief but one day is for the owner.Give her the benefit of doubt and ur faithfulness and true love will fight for you.

Trust No One in this Age and Time you'd be surprised at what humans can do.

@poster,
You believed her cuz she cried?believe me she's going to use that from now on each time she does something wrong and you will believe her,e be like sey u be new person for this game?good luck.
Am not saying you shouldn't believe her but its cuz she cried then man think again, women are, shhhhh

If u really and still love her, then go back to her, , I can understand from what u said that she confided in her girl friend that she did not do any stupid thing with anybody: going by that I advise that u accept her back.

well not that it was only her cry but when someone does something and is hiding it u will suspect by the persons behaviour well i love her and i stand by her that she didnt do it but i will shine my eye

Dis luv is either blind or in denial.

yes its blind. cause she makes me happy. but am a guy and there's always room for suspicion in a relationship

how about you believe her words for now and watch her movements for a while to see