daretodiffer:
I don't think Kemen did anything wrong

She insulted him, looks and the rest. The next day, she asked him to massage her while wearing nothing but a bottom. His next action was to smooch her while she was sleeping. The lady woke up but did not stop him neither did she complain at all (I know all about silence in sexual assaults). The expressions on her face did not read scared or anything. She did not report him the following day. Kemen's action did not just happened out of nowhere. We have to consider the prior actions of both id.iots before we blame Kemen. I believe Kemen shouldn't have been disqualified. People just love to overreact.

Jimi23:


Shift abeg. I nor be Lecturer but I nor dey promote sexual harrassment like u.

Afam4eva:

With the way some of you reason, you can't spend a week abroad without ending up in jail. There's something called mutual consent. It means when you and someone consent to any form of sexual relationship. Even in California, there's a law called "yes means yes" which means that, the fact that a girl crawls up to your bed start naked, opening her legs like moses patted the red sea does not mean you have her consent unless she explicitly tells you to go ahead else you will end up in jail. What Kemen did is wrong on every level. The fact that TBoss appears like a slut does not mean she should be harassed sexually when in a vulnerable position.

picker:
itumo sir?

naijaboiy:

Judging from your statement, women are being raped left, right and center currently in Nigeria.

Why not think with your head before typing? Rapists are everywhere and you know that, but you chose to be pathetically ignorant.

All these sad women looking for the slightest opportunity to pour their frustrations on men.

kalindaminda:
Judging from these comments, most Nigerian men are potential and actual rapists. God help that country.

kulex2k1:


Common u all should know this guy is just playing... Those of u feeling like "na una born English" haba where una sense of humour dey....

Jammiiee:
So the action of one man speaks for the whole country? are u a literate at all What a mental faculty

kalindaminda:


Continue acting blind. The majority of male comments on this thread are claiming that Kemen did nothing wrong. Yet you saw the words "comments" and "majority" and your simple mind understood "one man" and "whole country". Then you had the audacity to speak of literacy. I laugh. Continue.

Simple-minded child.

Jammiiee:
All these u've said still doesn't add up to judging all men from a country based on one man's action from that country. If u supply an answer to this, if that guy was from your country, would you say the same? I didn't say he did wrong or right don't dribble the statement. I only ask right now. If he was frm ur country, would that mean all men from ur country are like that

ncoolsome:



This case is simple as u said is either "she do" or I report her..common we guys are human n have blood in our veins..40-60% of women we see everyday are either have naked showin cleavage,thighs or tommy,yet we manage..undressin in her house is still within her jurisdiction but in my house and sayin NO mtcheew...she go dey talk NO till we go reach 4th round..

kalindaminda:


Hey. Mòron.
I. Said. Judging. From. These. Comments. The. Majority. Of. Nigerian. Men. Are. Potential. Or. Actual. Rapists.

Read. Those. Words. Slowly. And. Try. To. Find. The. Part. Where. I. Fvcking. Mentioned. Kemen. Or. All. The. Men. In. Nigeria.

Maybe you're one of them and your guilty conscience is disturbing you so much it's affecting your reading comprehension.

Afam4eva:

With the way some of you reason, you can't spend a week abroad without ending up in jail. There's something called mutual consent. It means when you and someone consent to any form of sexual relationship. Even in California, there's a law called "yes means yes" which means that, the fact that a girl crawls up to your bed start naked, opening her legs like moses patted the red sea does not mean you have her consent unless she explicitly tells you to go ahead else you will end up in jail. What Kemen did is wrong on every level. The fact that TBoss appears like a slut does not mean she should be harassed sexually when in a vulnerable position.

mctowel01:

Thank you... its just like a witch hunt. They are adults. There is nothing stopping Tboss from telling him off whether on the bed, or amicably during the day. It was totally unnecessary the way bigbrother took it, like the talkative classcaptain. A warning would have been enough if Tboss had even reported, but no, BB just chose to take it far. I feel this was an unwarranted disrespect to Kemen as a person.

BoboYekini:

Apples and oranges.
How is Debbie Rise creeping up on a sleeping Bassey different from Kemen handling(groping is the wrong word) a half-asleep Tboss?

Anyway I think Kemens real crime is being not good looking enough.

MarieSucre:


And who said it was different?

"Whataboutism" does not detract from the main issue on ground.

Your last line is the most ignorant piece of sh*t I have read on nairaland. Its obvious you have never been sexual assaulted or raped. You think at that moment the victim gives a sh*t how handsome or beautiful the assailant is?

zeezeegal:
U Na Harrassment Urself

shamecurls:



Only if Efe and Marvis don't exist

Sleekyshuga:

The most laughable of it all is hearing his family wants to sue the organizers of Big brother for character defamation. I laugh in Swahili

Truly, maturity is not by age. Its glaring from the onset that Tboss doesn't like the young man, yet he keeps acting like a loosed child in search of his coins around her. Ewwwwww!!! You cannot harass a sleeping woman (looking around like a thief) and still, your family have the guts to say they will be suing.. They should waste the little money they own (BTW, na 25 mills carry Kemem go BBN).

He goofed, messed up, and needs to be checked ..

Teespice:


I feel sorry for them if they should sue because they do not have a case. any lawyer who takes up the matter wants to eat their money.

kedu?

MarieSucre:


And who said it was different?

"Whataboutism" does not detract from the main issue on ground.

Your last line is the most ignorant piece of sh*t I have read on nairaland. Its obvious you have never been sexual assaulted or raped. You think at that moment the victim gives a sh*t how handsome or beautiful the assailant is?

BoboYekini:
I was going to come up with 'a robust reply' for this.

MarieSucre:
But...