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She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Dandsome: 6:30pm On Mar 18, 2017
I saw something on a site that drew my attention. Why do women actually say No when they are asked out when in the real sense they are interested?

This lady asked a question and got a wonderful reply.
Read below. He's question is in bold while the guy's reply follows.


He asked me out and I told him "no," but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn't he try again?


Really ! You just said “NO” and you want him to try harder. Huh

Let me answer this in a guy’s perspective. Also, sorry in case my answer hurts you, but let me write it honestly, because we just got fed up with this type of thinking from a few girls.

We take NO as NO. Sorry to be harsh, but in our dictionary NO has only one meaning, REJECTION.

Let’s assume (based on the fact you want him to try harder), he tried for a second time , still you said NO, and again and again the same thing repeated . Then he will be in a dilemma, Whether she wants me to try harder ? . Just to avoid all this drama in his life, I believe HE JUST MOVED ON.

To think practically, we don’t try harder just to get a date. It’s just a date , we think if not this girl , move on to next one. People don’t even try harder during tough time in relationships, why would we care about just a casual date .

About you, just ask yourself why you said NO . Do you want to be pleased or requested a lot of times just to show your worth ? Trust me, you ain’t gonna get a good guy if you follow the same approach. Also, what exact number of times did you mean when you mentioned “TRY HARDER”, 5, 7, 8, 10 … Is there any certain number of times in your mind ?

By the way, the one whom you called a“GUY”, I would call him a “MAN” irrespective of age , because he just behaved as a MAN by moving on when you said NO.

I hope you will get THE ONE for you soon.
grin grin

What do you guys think? And ladies why do you say no when eventually you'll say yes?



https://www.quora.com/A-guy-asked-me-out-today-and-I-told-him-no-but-I-wanted-him-to-try-harder-Why-didnt-he-try-again/answer/Vishala-Karthik-Achanta?srid=JakE&share=8ca19a73

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Young03(m): 6:32pm On Mar 18, 2017
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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Cutehector(m): 6:35pm On Mar 18, 2017
Lol any girl that says no to me once is on her own..

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Strahovski1(m): 7:06pm On Mar 18, 2017
Cutehector:
Lol any girl that says no to me once is on her own..

You are the one on your own because she might just find one rich fvck who has more money than you do to wife her while you are still 'toasting' and 'proposing'.

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Cholls(m): 7:13pm On Mar 18, 2017
Strahovski1:


You are the one on your own because she might just find one rich fvck who has more money than you do to wife her while you are still 'toasting' and 'proposing'.
my brothers and sisters what is dis one saying

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by lordbish(m): 7:21pm On Mar 18, 2017
Strahovski1:


You are the one on your own because she might just find one rich fvck who has more money than you do to wife her while you are still 'toasting' and 'proposing'.
And how would that be his business

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by lordbish(m): 7:24pm On Mar 18, 2017
I think the best answer ladies should give is " let's take it one step at a time" instead of blatant NO. I will act like I never ever asked you out if you give me such reply.

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by seunny4lif(m): 7:31pm On Mar 18, 2017
Strahovski1:


You are the one on your own because she might just find one rich fvck who has more money than you do to wife her while you are still 'toasting' and 'proposing'.

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by kingofcasting(m): 8:25pm On Mar 18, 2017
Strahovski1:


You are the one on your own because she might just find one rich fvck who has more money than you do to wife her while you are still 'toasting' and 'proposing'.

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by kilojoDesigns: 8:43pm On Mar 18, 2017
Strahovski1:


You are the one on your own because she might just find one rich fvck who has more money than you do to wife her while you are still 'toasting' and 'proposing'.

bro wtf

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by BlackOnassis(m): 8:50pm On Mar 18, 2017
That is why I like Americans. Aint nobody got time for nonsense.

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by NarnieSnyper(m): 8:55pm On Mar 18, 2017
That's how I asked a silly girl to have a drink with me and she asked me "what do u want to tell me?". I was so fvcking pissed. As in, must there be something to tell? I mean c'mon, its just a fvcking date for triple fvcks sake undecided

Making a mountain outta an ant hill. Thank God for my pride, I won't ask u more than once. if I like u ,like really like u,twice should do it.

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by RichieDaVinci01(m): 9:04pm On Mar 18, 2017
Iffu femme NO Forgerrit

Even if you ask me out later I no go gree oo

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by wins18(m): 9:15pm On Mar 18, 2017
that is how they lose responsible guys all in the name of playing hard to get card, like who wants to chase you around like a cock on heat lol, op E don tey wey there matter tire me

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Nobody: 9:18pm On Mar 18, 2017
confused lady grin

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Dandsome: 9:26pm On Mar 18, 2017
NarnieSnyper:
That's how I asked a silly girl to have a drink with me and she asked me "what do u want to tell me?". I was so fvcking pissed. As in, must there be something to tell? I mean c'mon, its just a fvcking date for triple fvcks sake undecided

Making a mountain outta an ant hill. Thank God for my pride, I won't ask u more than once. if I like u ,like really like u,twice should do it.



Hmmmmm, well I don't think lalasticlala will have to ask farano or rocktation twice before they say YES grin

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by kingsfield(m): 9:36pm On Mar 18, 2017
Strahovski1:


You are the one on your own because she might just find one rich fvck who has more money than you do to wife her while you are still 'toasting' and 'proposing'.

And he will find a lady who has a better connection.

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by agadez007(m): 10:53pm On Mar 18, 2017
Try Again?


as Visa lottery wey she be or What

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by digoster(m): 11:01pm On Mar 18, 2017
Try again.. Na gAme she be ni grin

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by abdulaz: 11:31pm On Mar 18, 2017
Try again say weytin?

Because her dad na Osinbajo ba?

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Nutase: 11:32pm On Mar 18, 2017
cry
Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by babyfaceafrica: 11:40pm On Mar 18, 2017
Some ladies and low IQ !!..let your yes be yes and your no be no!!!..nansense..that is how one yahoo guy will pamper them and later use them for ritual

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Xbursta(m): 2:00am On Mar 19, 2017
Abeg joor no bleeping TIME

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Ikigia: 2:03am On Mar 19, 2017
Women...... one of the most complex creatures

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Jodha(f): 2:08am On Mar 19, 2017
Biko for the record I'm typing my "opinion"

I get her drill... She just wanted to know if he was serious or a fvck boy. That's why she wanted him to try again...

Ladies are fragile.. In the kinda Era we are in one.. A girl gahs protect herself from fvck boys..

She's not wrong in any way!

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by justjify(m): 2:08am On Mar 19, 2017
Girls will never say *peem* on this thread.
Shame no go let them.

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by justjify(m): 2:09am On Mar 19, 2017
Jhoda! Say something... wink
Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Ivanlxi(m): 5:31am On Mar 19, 2017
Jodha:
Biko for the record I'm typing my "opinion"

I get her drill... She just wanted to know if he was serious or a fvck boy. That's why she wanted him to try again...

Ladies are fragile.. In the kinda Era we are in one.. A girl gahs protect herself from fvck boys..

She's not wrong in any way!


A fuvk boy will always be a fuvk boy even if she say no 5x and later agree he go still Bleep and leave her....... See u.... Try again koh

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Nobody: 6:21am On Mar 19, 2017
Cholls:
my brothers and sisters what is dis one saying

I think gibberish grin

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by fr3do(m): 6:23am On Mar 19, 2017
Jodha:
Biko for the record I'm typing my "opinion"

I get her drill... She just wanted to know if he was serious or a fvck boy. That's why she wanted him to try again...

Ladies are fragile.. In the kinda Era we are in one.. A girl gahs protect herself from fvck boys..

She's not wrong in any way!


you don't know whatcha saying!
It is fvckboys and flirts that have that time to be pestering a girl that has said blatant NO, but a date is just a date, it doesn't mean consent to be in a relationship.

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by Einl(m): 6:30am On Mar 19, 2017
Our foolish young women of today.

No dreams.

No ambition.

Waiting for the rich man to come and sweep her off her feet.

No shame.

Meet a girl today and tomorrow she will be asking you to send her credit. Very shameful. No pride or dignity for yourself. After you say men just want sex, but what other option have you given them?

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Re: She Turned Him Down And Queried Why He Didn't Try Again. See Epic Response. by niyihawking(m): 6:30am On Mar 19, 2017
Ikigia:
Women...... one of the most complex creatures
confused not complex

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