I don't know what the words LOVE really mean or should i say, I don't know the definition of love, in my own mind, or if I should ask to describe the word LOVE.

Love is a process of feeling toward someone or something, Love can be developed, Love can grow like a like flower in your garden, you plant it, you water it, you protect it from damage, you take all your time to take care of it, when it grown, you look at it all the time, you sniff the flowers and love the alluring smell day after day, than the life of the flowers fade away and your love for the particular flowers fade away with it, Love feeling for someone or something doesn't last forever.

Love is like a feeling you have when watching movies or listening to a song you like, it's so interesting to you whenever you watch it or hear it, it gives you joy, you are happy but as time goes on, the feeling of love you have for that movie or song fade away not because is no longer interesting you because you develop interest to other movies or songs. Love love I don't know how to put what I have in mind about love in writing .......
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Love in marriage is like multivitamin pills, sleeping pills or some drugs that get you addicted. In other for you to stay long in marriage if you married because you love the person, you will need to keep taking the love pills if not you will not survive, either you go crazy when you don't want to continue taking love pills or you go to some rehab or counselling. So in my own opinion and with the experiences I had so far in marriage and relationships, you don't really need the word called LOVE to get married to someone because is not enough, not just enough love to give in us, humans feeling are so complexity that you yourself won't understand your feelings.

Sex in marriage or in courtship with someone is not enough to get married to that person, you can put everything together Love, sex, money...... still not enough in my own opinion, all this will fade away, you will get tired of that good sex or your partner will.

When you are ready to get marry to someone, look beyond those things LOVE, SEX, MONEY AGE...... those things are bonus, good to have them but not necessity, it's doesn't guarantee or assurance of paces or last long in life or marriage.

One thing you need most in marriage, courtship or in relationships with we humans as I will call it, your mind set devotion of companionship. What do i mean by this sense, there is a lot to this words or statement, if I should explain it in my own opinion....... please tell me your own opinion about all I write, am ready to learn or change my mind set if am.....

So true

Well said