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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by buchilino(m): 7:05am On Jun 08, 2017
ReneeNuttall:
I will prefer a semi_alrdy made man and a semi_struggler,so we can hustle together and be MADE.

AM HERE TO LEARN, DEFINE SEMI ALREADY MADE MAN.
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Justeenaleo(f): 7:06am On Jun 08, 2017
Already made man because I will be made too. Both of us are gonna live the made life together.
inshallah
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by zephyblaze(m): 7:07am On Jun 08, 2017
I can't marry a lady who is got everything because believing in herself there is nothing u would do that will please her, and as well will I not marry a lady that become a doll, sit down and look, no room for her at least she should have something doing to help the man.
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by adajoe555: 7:09am On Jun 08, 2017
emperormossad:
Sister, you get sense!
thanks
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by kayc0(f): 7:09am On Jun 08, 2017
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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by hollywater: 7:11am On Jun 08, 2017
ReneeNuttall:
I will prefer a semi_alrdy made man and a semi_struggler,so we can hustle together and be MADE.
This is why you always fail exam. The topic say, struggling man or already made and not semi. Take note.

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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Lanceslot(m): 7:12am On Jun 08, 2017
nikkypearl:
a struggling ready made guy is better!
Confusion everywhere... "Struggling ready made"? What does that mean?

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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Nobody: 7:15am On Jun 08, 2017
whitebeard:
I won't reveal my wealth to any woman I wanna marry until after the marriage
Word never let her see those tictacs and black and white TV you got grin
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by emperormossad(m): 7:15am On Jun 08, 2017
adajoe555:


thanks

You're welcome. Have a good time today.
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by favoured78(f): 7:18am On Jun 08, 2017
uyiekpenn:
you're very correct. Most guys want to be rich just to impress cheap girls. I want to be rich to be able take care of my lovely mom who has suffered a lot for me and my siblings, my dad who invested in me and also to put a smile on the faces of those who don't have. That's my aim of wanting to be rich.
This is impressive. But I hope it won't make you a selfish person to your own wife and kids. There are men who are Philanthropist to people outside, but their home suffers....they make rules such as I the man will pay fees but you the woman will provide for clothing and partly feeding, they forget she is a help meet.........this is no excuse for women though ,as I love women to be financially independent , it earns them some respect.
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by adajoe555: 7:18am On Jun 08, 2017
emperormossad:

You're welcome. Have a good time today.

OK I will
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by VcStunner(m): 7:20am On Jun 08, 2017
uyiekpenn:
you're very correct. Most guys want to be rich just to impress cheap girls. I want to be rich to be able take care of my lovely mom who has suffered a lot for me and my siblings, my dad who invested in me and also to put a smile on the faces of those who don't have. That's my aim of wanting to be rich.
you're already rich fam... you just not there yet... keep grinding

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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by loswhite(m): 7:22am On Jun 08, 2017
nikkypearl:
a struggling ready made guy is better!
lol...what is struggling already made?
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by kaboninc(m): 7:26am On Jun 08, 2017
nahzyla:
The problem with marrying a struggling guy is that they will start chasing women up and down if they eventually get rich, forgetting the wife that suffered with them in the past.
Men these days are not serious at all. You want a woman to contribute almost the same thing you bring financially but you won't contribute in her house work like cooking for the family once in a while or bathing kids, taking them to and from school.
You want a woman that will contribute and taking care of your lazy behinds while at the same time she is 1000% submissive and humble and always does whatever you say.

That's not possible.

The premise of women being submissive is built on the fact that men provide for them and for the entire family. If you are no longer providers then on what grounds can you beat your chest to call yourself the leader of the house? Get this into your heads, all you lazy men, the minute your wife joins you on providing for the family then you have relinquished and given up some aspects of your leadership and superiority to her.

I hear.. ..
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by kaboninc(m): 7:27am On Jun 08, 2017
favoured78:

This is impressive. But I hope it won't make you a selfish person to your own wife and kids. There are men who are Philanthropist to people outside, but their home suffers....they make rules such as I the man will pay fees but you the woman will provide for clothing and partly feeding, they forget she is a help meet.........this is no excuse for women though ,as I love women to be financially independent , it earns them some respect.

Hian
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by kaboninc(m): 7:29am On Jun 08, 2017
Justeenaleo:
Already made man because I will be made too. Both of us are gonna live the made life together.
inshallah

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Slay Queen!
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by kaboninc(m): 7:31am On Jun 08, 2017
mhizoma:
what's the need of already made or not. once he match well with the way my heart feels for him. then no problem

What if he's poor nko?
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Uzobest4christ(m): 7:31am On Jun 08, 2017
I think a woman should marry someone she loves. Even all the made made riches sometimes doesnt bring happiness in a marriage but love does.
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by borntoR35(m): 7:34am On Jun 08, 2017
pedrilo:
u will end up with a woman u dnt like bro. Trust me.
the values u hold make u said so
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Ochukomike2: 7:37am On Jun 08, 2017
uyiekpenn:
you're very correct. Most guys want to be rich just to impress cheap girls. I want to be rich to be able take care of my lovely mom who has suffered a lot for me and my siblings, my dad who invested in me and also to put a smile on the faces of those who don't have. That's my aim of wanting to be rich.
my nigga com out of it bro,,,, it does'nt matterif you are Rich bcus of hoes or families, what really matters is that you are Rich...
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by loswhite(m): 7:39am On Jun 08, 2017
nahzyla:
The problem with marrying a struggling guy is that they will start chasing women up and down if they eventually get rich, forgetting the wife that suffered with them in the past.
Men these days are not serious at all. You want a woman to contribute almost the same thing you bring financially but you won't contribute in her house work like cooking for the family once in a while or bathing kids, taking them to and froill contribute and taking care of your lazy behinds while at the same time she is 1000% submissive and humble and always does whatever you say.

That's not possible.

The premise of women being submissive is built on the fact that men provide for them and for the entire family. If you are no longer providers then on what grounds can you beat your chest to call yourself the leader of the house? Get this into your heads, all you lazy men, the minute your wife joins you on providing for the family then you have relinquished and given up some aspects of your leadership and superiority to her.
all this English and u got it all wrong...The bible did not say summit because he is providing for you....This is purely your lame imagination
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by sekem: 7:40am On Jun 08, 2017
nobleblood:
When I was in secondary school, few girls wanted to date, they all said their guy was in uni.

In uni, no girl wanted to date, they all said their guy was a " working class" and they cannot date students. Now am some still say they cannot date guy within similar pay grade"

I think its part if their psychic make to behave this way. It promt us more to push as well. Otherwise we might be lazy and contented with little. Even in the villages, women their want to date the best hunter or famer. It has always been so across time and space. Ours is to not to judge it solely in the negative sense, rather see it as what it is and keep working hard and focus.

For women though I will advise that. You try and open your eyes to happening realities. Times are shrinking. Find a man with potentials. For every ready made guy your looking at, your not the only one seeing him. Hundred of women are staring in similar direction. Break away from the park and find yours. If I were you pretty girls, I will stick to the nerdy book reading guys. They are usually the ones who employs the swaggy dudes infuture.

Will you stop saying that for god's sake please!? angry

What exactly do you mean by a man with potential?

Can potential be measured?

Why not advise the girls to achieve their own potentials rather than advising them to hunt for men with the so called potentials!? angry

In fact, if the truth must be said, you guys are the reason why so many women are misbehaving.

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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by borntoR35(m): 7:42am On Jun 08, 2017
to be honest, it is very important for us to know that u urself are on the path of being made. So stop saying u are looking for already made guy, do u know what will happen to him tomorrow. I feel like what is paramount is that for u to know the person u are moving is on the right track of life dreams if that one is in place u are damn lucky guy or gal. Always remember all these rich people today start from somewhere, so ur guy must also starts somewhere even it may be from the scratch

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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Nobody: 7:43am On Jun 08, 2017
undecided
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by loswhite(m): 7:44am On Jun 08, 2017
Aisien11:
man when nor get money nor good oo. girls be wise
Yes o... Good advice but remember say when u no get money pass the advise to your wife so she can do the needful...

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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by nobleblood: 7:50am On Jun 08, 2017
sekem:


Will you stop saying that for god's sake please!? angry

What do you mean by a man with potential?

Can potential be measured?

Why not advise the girls to achieve their own potentials rather than advising them to hunt for men with the so called potentials!? angry

In fact, if the truth must be said, you guys are the reason why so many women are misbehaving.


Most things come in pairs in this world. Don't get carried away with the whole ideal of women liberation. Men/ women alike are in one big whole relationship. Its difficult to archieve the right kind of successes. Without the right person by your side.
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by borntoR35(m): 7:51am On Jun 08, 2017
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sekem:


Will you stop saying that for god's sake please!? angry

What do you mean by a man with potential?

Can potential be measured?

Why not advise the girls to achieve their own potentials rather than advising them to hunt for men with the so called potentials!? angry

In fact, if the truth must be said, you guys are the reason why so many women are misbehaving.

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sekem:


Will you stop saying that for god's sake please!? angry

What do you mean by a man with potential?

Can potential be measured?

Why not advise the girls to achieve their own potentials rather than advising them to hunt for men with the so called potentials!? angry

In fact, if the truth must be said, you guys are the reason why so many women are misbehaving.

sekem:


Will you stop saying that for god's sake please!? angry
What do u mean by man with potentials?

Can potential be measured?

Why not advise the girls to achieve their own potentials rather than advising them to hunt for men with the so called potentials!? angry

In fact, if the truth must be said, you guys are the reason why so many women are misbehaving.

friend u got him wrong, he didn't say that u shouldn't achieve ur own dreams or potential but rather look for some one that can complement u Or would marry a guy who doesn't have any good vision of the future for himself and his wifeee. Likewise even if he does have dream, he must be working towards achieving them
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by FaroukM(m): 7:51am On Jun 08, 2017
nikkypearl:
a struggling ready made guy is better!
Scam alert..!!!
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by onyekachee(f): 7:52am On Jun 08, 2017
I sincerely don't want a struggling guy,some tend to change too as time goes on,let the man go be already made,why I separately make my money as well,so I won't be labelled a gold digger,make sweet cash whiLe I make mine..
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by EFX001: 7:59am On Jun 08, 2017
My mother told me a story about how she met my father. She knew he had something but he was sleeping on the floor with four of his brothers. while my mother was the secretary to Bolingo hotels back then when he was alive and living in Lagos, before he built the Abuja hotel. Anyways, they got married, my dad built an empire worth millions. My mum says, God has a way of hiding the answers and opening things up when the heart is right. God is not a fool. Even the wisest man on earth is foolish to God. When a man makes his money before a lady comes, he'll kick her out if she annoys him. He's mother will protect him form that gold digging wife. Enough said

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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Skmoda360(m): 8:01am On Jun 08, 2017
uyiekpenn:
I can't date or even marry a woman who's not financially stable herself. If I'm earning 1m naira per month, my wife must be earning nothing less than 500-800k per month. No girl wants a struggling man but they forget that even the already made man was once a struggling man too.
well said bro and you read my mind.....

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