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Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Tenniebae(f): 9:52am On Jun 09, 2017
A lady sent me a pm concerning her relationship.And i decided to share it with you guys...ur advice are needed....
Hi,tennie..i am a girl of 22years bin in a relationship since lastyear may.my bf is a very caring and understanding person.he gives me money and buy me gifts regularly but we avnt gone out on a date before.anytime i go to his place,we just av sex and do other things.he dosnt allow me talk to his friends.and he dosnt allow me go out with him.i just stay indoor truout...is he dt he dosnt want pple to see us together or he's nt proud to show me off has his g.f or he has anoda g.f dt his friends knows about..pls tennie,i'll b waiting for ur reply.

Lyk i said earlier,sensible people only..
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Babamide(m): 9:55am On Jun 09, 2017
U are not in a relationship. U are just sex buddies or friends with benefits

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Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by triplec93(m): 10:00am On Jun 09, 2017
Based on what i could see from your profile pic, you are good looking, so not being on par based on physical attributes is ruled out. There are certain things that should be considered, does he come from a very religious background, is he mature(age wise), do you really know him( his associations,morals etc)it is important you consider these seriously because his attitude ain't normal. You are in the best position to discern that.

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Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by vivypretty(f): 10:01am On Jun 09, 2017
tell us when u start thinking with ur brain n not ur p
let me gv advice that am mot sure ur p will allow u follow
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Noblepreneur: 10:02am On Jun 09, 2017
He isn't proud of her,like showing her to people. He just want you for sex(guess you are good at it).

Check yourself and see if you are defaulting in the following areas:

Are you a dirty babe(like you pick your nose in front of people and do all manner of not so cool things)?

Do you package yourself very well?(Your nails,your perfume,your hair)

Are you the clingy type?

lastly,are you an asset or a liability?
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by sinaj(f): 10:03am On Jun 09, 2017
More like frnds with benefit than a relationship.

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Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by vivypretty(f): 10:08am On Jun 09, 2017
when u start thinking with ur brain n not ur p u tell us

.let me gv free advice that am not sure if ur p will allow u adhere to
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Tenniebae(f): 10:14am On Jun 09, 2017
triplec93:
Based on what i could see from your profile pic, you are good looking, so not being on par based on physical attributes is ruled out. There are certain things that should be considered, does he come from a very religious background, is he mature(age wise), do you really know him( his associations,morals etc)it is important you consider these seriously because his attitude ain't normal. You are in the best position to discern that.

im nt d one...i run a relationship issue site..dts one of my cases..just felt lyk sharing it ere for more advice
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Brinxs(m): 10:16am On Jun 09, 2017
triplec93:
Based on what i could see from your profile pic, you are good looking, so not being on par based on physical attributes is ruled out. There are certain things that should be considered, does he come from a very religious background, is he mature(age wise), do you really know him( his associations,morals etc)it is important you consider these seriously because his attitude ain't normal. You are in the best position to discern that.

She said someone sent her the message!
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Tenniebae(f): 10:17am On Jun 09, 2017
[quote author=Noblepreneur post=57343012]He isn't proud of her,like showing her to people. He just want you for sex(guess you are good at it).

Check yourself and see if you are defaulting in the following areas:

Are you a dirty babe(like you pick your nose in front of people and do all manner of not so cool things)?

Do you package yourself very well?(Your nails,your perfume,your hair)

Are you the clingy type?

lastly,are you an asset or a liability?
[/quotes

thanks
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Tenniebae(f): 10:20am On Jun 09, 2017
vivypretty:
when u start thinking with ur brain n not ur p u tell us


.let me gv free advice that am not sure if ur p will allow u adhere to

i wonder y its so hard for Nigerians to gv der opinion without saying it in an abusive way..thanks all d same

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Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Tenniebae(f): 10:21am On Jun 09, 2017
Brinxs:

She said someone sent her the message!

Brinxs,wuhs ur say on this ?
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Brinxs(m): 10:21am On Jun 09, 2017
Tenniebae:
A lady sent me a pm concerning her relationship.And i decided to share it with you guys...ur advice are needed....
Hi,tennie..i am a girl of 22years bin in a relationship since lastyear may.my bf is a very caring and understanding person.he gives me money and buy me gifts regularly but we avnt gone out on a date before.anytime i go to his place,we just av sex and do other things.he dosnt allow me talk to his friends.and he dosnt allow me go out with him.i just stay indoor truout...is he dt he dosnt want pple to see us together or he's nt proud to show me off has his g.f or he has anoda g.f dt his friends knows about..pls tennie,i'll b waiting for ur reply.

Lyk i said earlier,sensible people only..

You can start by offering to take him out on a date n see his reaction.
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by kushercain: 10:24am On Jun 09, 2017
vivypretty:
when u start thinking with ur brain n not ur p u tell us


.let me gv free advice that am not sure if ur p will allow u adhere to

Its ur b.day dats y I wnt bash u..but wtf! If u don't have any 2 cents.. Kip ur change

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Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Tenniebae(f): 10:26am On Jun 09, 2017
Brinxs:

You can start by offering to take him out on a date n see his reaction.

Dts a gud one..thanks
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Brinxs(m): 10:27am On Jun 09, 2017
Tenniebae:



Brinxs,wuhs ur say on this ?

"Start by asking him on a date n watch his rxn, if he gives a negative answer, patiently listen to his reason n u guys can reschedule or sth. whatever you do, don't complain or seem too bitter bout it.
There's a whole number of reasons why he may not let you associate with his friends n only bout 10 percent of those reasons may have a thing to do with you".
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Brinxs(m): 10:28am On Jun 09, 2017
Tenniebae:



Dts a gud one..thanks
uwc
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by TIDDOLL(m): 10:28am On Jun 09, 2017
Honestly... Some perceived problems.. Are no issues at all.... sad
Now, this is quite straight , He doesn't take her out for dinner ND all, just in door all through, is she a Vampire??
Proly the one with no day light RING, and trust me..
I can't see the RING coming for her from that GUY.

Dude is just about sucking her blood till he is maxed ND she's drained.

Hope you decipher.
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Tenniebae(f): 10:32am On Jun 09, 2017
Brinxs:


"Start by asking him on a date n watch his rxn, if he gives a negative answer, patiently listen to his reason n u guys can reschedule or sth. whatever you do, don't complain or seem too bitter bout it.
There's a whole number of reasons why he may not let you associate with his friends n only bout 10 percent of those reasons may have a thing to do with you".

hmmmm,thanks tho....didn't know pple wit brains still exist on nl

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Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Tenniebae(f): 10:35am On Jun 09, 2017
TIDDOLL:
Honestly... Some perceived problems.. Are no issues at all.... sad
Now, this is quite straight , He doesn't take her out for dinner ND all, just in door all through, is she a Vampire??
Proly the one with no day light RING, and trust me..
I can't see the RING coming for her from that GUY.

Dude is just about sucking her blood till he is maxed ND she's drained.

Hope you decipher.

Lol..ur vampire theory cracks me up..yhh,ah get..thanks
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Tenniebae(f): 10:36am On Jun 09, 2017
kushercain:


Its ur b.day dats y I wnt bash u..but wtf! If u don't have any 2 cents.. Kip ur change

kushercain,wuhs ur take on this?
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Nobody: 10:38am On Jun 09, 2017
Tenniebae:
A lady sent me a pm concerning her relationship.And i decided to share it with you guys...ur advice are needed....
Hi,tennie..i am a girl of 22years bin in a relationship since lastyear may.my bf is a very caring and understanding person.he gives me money and buy me gifts regularly but we avnt gone out on a date before.anytime i go to his place,we just av sex and do other things.he dosnt allow me talk to his friends.and he dosnt allow me go out with him.i just stay indoor truout...is he dt he dosnt want pple to see us together or he's nt proud to show me off has his g.f or he has anoda g.f dt his friends knows about..pls tennie,i'll b waiting for ur reply.

Lyk i said earlier,sensible people only..
why can't she talk to her boyfriend rather than involving a third party??


Anyway, there are two things I think is her boyfriend's problem;

Its either he's preventing her from seeing his other chicks or he is being possessive cos she mentioned that he doesn't allow her talk to his friends "insecurity issue"

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Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by kushercain: 11:02am On Jun 09, 2017
Tenniebae:


kushercain,wuhs ur take on this?

I think sum1 already spoke my mind above..but if I was dating a girl I don't see why the only time we sld see is when I feel lyk shagging. I think she's a side dish.
She sld be blunt and upfront with the guy no use beating round the bush. Especially as he's beating her Bush if you know what I mean

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Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by McBrooklyn(m): 11:08am On Jun 09, 2017

Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Funky123(f): 11:31am On Jun 09, 2017
There is something dude is keeping from dis bae...she should tell d guy what she wants abt d relationship and if dere is no change then she is free to walk away cos dere is reason why u will want to stick to someone dats is nt proud to ve u...concerning d money and gifts,d guy is giving her dat in exchange of d sex dey re having abi wont he pay if he carry olosho ni
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Fourwinds: 11:53am On Jun 09, 2017
vivypretty:
tell us when u start thinking with ur brain n not ur p

let me gv advice that am mot sure ur p will allow u follow
hmmmmm.....P





happy birthday

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Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Tenniebae(f): 12:05pm On Jun 09, 2017
Funky123:
There is something dude is keeping from dis bae...she should tell d guy what she wants abt d relationship and if dere is no change then she is free to walk away cos dere is reason why u will want to stick to someone dats is nt proud to ve u...concerning d money and gifts,d guy is giving her dat in exchange of d sex dey re having abi wont he pay if he carry olosho ni

thanks dear

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Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Tenniebae(f): 12:07pm On Jun 09, 2017
kushercain:


I think sum1 already spoke my mind above..but if I was dating a girl I don't see why the only time we sld see is when I feel lyk shagging. I think she's a side dish.
She sld be blunt and upfront with the guy no use beating round the bush. Especially as he's beating her Bush if you know what I mean

beating her bush!!!...Lolzzz.
Iono wuh dt means oo
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Nobody: 12:13pm On Jun 09, 2017
she is his Bleep mate grin grin.anyway make she jus collect enuf owo frm the guy use am open beer palour grin.dat will be enuf compensation to her punny grin.
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Joe171(m): 12:18pm On Jun 09, 2017
Tenniebae:


im nt d one...i run a relationship issue site..dts one of my cases..just felt lyk sharing it ere for more advice
what's your web address?
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by vivypretty(f): 7:27pm On Jun 09, 2017
kushercain:


Its ur b.day dats y I wnt bash u..but wtf! If u don't have any 2 cents.. Kip ur change
.......my dear if u like bash me if u like dont,i dont care.....most times people know d right thing to do but d gv excuses to y d shouldnt do it
Re: Sensible Dudes Only..ur Opinion Needed!!! by Fernandowski(m): 10:01pm On Jun 11, 2017
just friends with benefits

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