I have this issue eating me up and don’t have a clue as to how to go about it.
There is this friend of mine. We have been together for over a year now. I know he is interested in me, but has said nothing. When I also began to feel something for him, I sent him a text message informing him of my feelings for him. He called me back to inform me of the need for both of us to sit and discuss.

My fear is that I don’t know if what I did is right, because I am scared of any damage to my reputation.

Worried Lady.

What do u want to tell him again after u had sent him a text to express what u felt for him?Hope ds wont back fire anyway cos to me it is a wrong move.
Just be prepared to hear what he's got to say.All the best

so its wrong cos she made the first move??
biggups, poster, if we had more girls like u, maybe we guys might actually be more faithful

@kpoli, ur comment seconded.
@poster, u're 1 helluva girl. Dont mind them nigerian chics wey dey form. When they loose d guy, they'll then try snatchin him from his next girlfriend who might have mustered up d courage to do what u did. Chics like u know what they want, go 4 it, & get it unlike d typical naija babe. D guy wont turn u down, believe me.

Sending text message is a wrong decision, what you should have done is make advances at him, not to go direct, that's a wrong approach.

Well don't be discouraged it depends on the guy, how he takes it, becareful Babygirl he is at advantage know since you made the first move .

i think u expressed ur inner feelings which is quite natural for honest pple. since u deemed it fit to let him know ur feelings about him, u better count on his maturity to handle this like an adult (mature person). but i dont feel u made a mistake. its natural and plain. play ur cards well so u wont have to deal with any hearth break or disappointment.

Next time don't text when you are Hot. Good luck.

You sure are a confident one, which is what most matured men appreciate and respect.

Pls do not use text messages for things like these next time. You never know where the message can end up.

Expect the best and I hope the guy treats you with the respect that you truly deserve.

Goodluck.

ElRazur:

Next time don't text when you are Hot. Good luck.

Be careful some guys send these messages around to mates. Sadly some guys can do nasty things.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-387180.0.html

are U a boy or girl

The way some guys reacts to issue like a woman making the first move is very bad and irritating.There are better ways a lady can express her feeling towards a guy which will make the guy respond and it wont show that she is the first to make the move.But with this her so called bold move,i wonder the kinda way the guy will treat her later

Is there a rule that says a guy must always make the first move?

Kx:

Is there a rule that says a guy must always make the first move?

No rule!!! but the way average 9ja guy reasons

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-387180.0.html

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-387185.0.htm

Is WOYE77 male, female, both i.e. bisexual or just plain confused about his sexuality? How can you claim both sexes from your above posts.
Dumb attention seeking imbe-cile!

^^^^ ;d :d :d

ochukoccna:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-387180.0.html

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-387185.0.htm

Is WOYE77 male, female, both i.e. bisexual or just plain confused about his sexuality? How can you claim both sexes from your above posts.
Dumb attention seeking imbe-cile!

MrPrsdent:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-387180.0.html

are U a boy or girl

may i point this out for the upteenth time - i am not the person involved in both scenarios - my intention is to find out people's reaction to such happenings - how many times do i have to say that?