I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man , I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

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Mind your business. Them no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter. He may or may not be the father of the kids but it's not your call to tell him what to do. BTW, I thought you said he's fairly educated?, why won't he know what paternity test is?.

OP dont get engaged into what will stick your moniker to your head biko...na dem dem sabi wetin dem cook together


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The man already knows the children aren't his..... He must have a reason for keeping them (the wife and children) in his house. I don't believe any sane man will hear those words and do nothing about it. There are things you don't know about .

Bia op mind ur business o.

If d man chooses not to use his brain think n still live dt way e nor konsin u oo..he probably deserves wat he is getting cos no real man wud take dt kind of shit...I for don divorce since 1912

Dts y I like oyinbo ppl....

Don't interfare, husband and wife are always best of friends when a stranger tries to mediate,they will see you as hypocrite.

Benita27:
Mind your business. Them no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter. He may or may not be the father of the kids but it's not your call to tell him what to do. BTW, I thought you said he's fairly educated?, why won't he know what paternity test is?.

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Actually, you are a busy body and you just got my body busy too. If he ever says anything to you about it, since he is your friend, tell him to get medical clarifications. Which kind insults be that? He might as well leave her children alone for her if they aren't his.She should park very well.

Lol! And why are you bringing this here? So that we will join you in aproko? I jump and pass

You are not aproko but you already know the woman's schedule? Can you see your life?

Well lemmi reserve some for other posters to say cos if I begin talk them go say I don start again

elantraceey:
The man already knows the children aren't his..... He must have a reason for keeping them (the wife and children) in his house. I don't believe any sane man will hear those words and do nothing about it. There are things you don't know about .

This is the certain truth. Mind your business, every time the matter does not concern you, op. Don't give advice where your views are not sought, and be very careful even when thy are.

sisisioge:


Actually, you are a busy body and you just got my body busy too. If he ever says anything to you about it, since he is your friend, tell him to get medical clarifications. Which kind insults be that? He might as well leave her children alone for her if they aren't his.She should park very well.

Yes, but the man does not need op to tell him what to do about it. At least he is not deaf and hears the woman repeat that trash again and again. So it is safe to conclude that he knows what he is doing and op should stir clear.

Aproko.... also give him the money to conduct the test

If you marry a lady like lovelygurl that's the result

Okay na

Bros focus on you life

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That's serious!
The man might b aware of that fact.
He might b sterile sef

Mr Chairman sir, you need to have a seat and...
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Lol. Leave the man and his bukata alone. You ll be surprised how he will react.

By the way, I hope you know how much DNA test costs. Multiply it by the number of children. Hope you are willing to pay?

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abeg!!continue to dey waka pass. she no talk am for im back.

Advise him abeg, though DNA test is very expensive

Dnt advice him directly ooo
Just tell him a man dat used to be in his shoes did so so nd so thing
Finish oo

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Wetin concern you my dear OP??

Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

Aproko respect ursef nd mind ya business

lol

Hmmmmm