iamJ:

viewing thru hmmm

Now u are full of spiders

IamKashyBaby:



Now u are full of spiders

baby i missed you

iamJ:

baby i missed you

Aaaww...i love that morning Kisses my love..So, what did i missed here?

sirdouglas:
Before u crucify me hear me out.
I met her from a friend and she started working for me. After a while she left but she has already won my heart but didn't say anything cos I hate having affairs with my workers. After she left I approached her but she didn't say anything after like months I met her again but she still refuse and told me she was dating a guy I know very well to be a play boy. I tried to convince her that her relationship with him won't lead to anywhere at a point I decided that I have to let her go.
Fast forward to last few week, I noticed she has been liking my post a lot and always try to initiate a conversation. I ignored her still until she started asking why I don't call her again. I told say me don try nah for close to 8 months now. She told me that she will like to come to my office and would like us to talk. I was like is everything alright and she said yes that she just want to see me.

I chatted her up earlier this night for her to start telling me about some of her family problem. Mind the fact that if she is a gold digger she would have said yes long before now. She has still not said yes but she asked if she can come and work for me on weekends which I refused. She said she needed to help her mum and some personal stuff.

I asked her to follow me to a wedding ceremony which she agreed but said she doesn't have Cloth for an occasion. She still a young girl if u ask me.

Not more than 19 or 20

I asked her to come around tomorrow so I can buy some clothes for her for the occasion.

She has not said yes nor any much interest but I don't know how to fix the puzzle

Is she coming around because things is a little rough for her?
Is she having issues with her bf and want to use me to get over him?
Is she for real?
OR she wants to play me since I have refuse to let go??

Mature reply is highly appreciated

SmellingAnus:
She is in need of help and she knows you can help her if you want to....financial help to be precised...

drajjay:
why would you forecast someone's relationship. Are you the author?

sirdouglas:

Thanks for the observation. Now what is the right decision to take considering the fact that I love her and she know?? What will u Don't??

sirdouglas:
l don't get ur point

drajjay:
you told her her relationship wouldn't go well in the long run

profhezekiah:
Please where can I get a girlfriend on naira land DAT doesn't demand for money?

SmellingAnus:
Make her feel comfortable, assist her... Don't try to bring up anything related to asking her out, I mean don't try to make her feel you are taking advantage of the situation, ... After two weeks you can still mention and update me about the latest development then I will tell you what next to do

sirdouglas:

Thanks
Exactly what was in my mind cos I was afraid to assist so she won't feel indebted to me or that I am taking advantage of her. Will do exactly what u said.

OfficialDad:

Bros, go to StingyLand, you will get one

OfficialDad:
Op. If u get money to help her, just help her. Cancel that wedding invitation with her. Just fvcking help her and don't date her, love her or show further interest in her.(If you want to marry her, that's fine, but she's still a teen).

Conclusion, look elsewhere. You would gain her love and friendship. "Maybe".

OfficialDad:
Op. If u get money to help her, just help her. Cancel that wedding invitation with her. Just fvcking help her and don't date her, love her or show further interest in her.(If you want to marry her, that's fine, but she's still a teen).

Conclusion, look elsewhere. You would gain her love and friendship. "Maybe".

profhezekiah:
please give me address

chyy5:
Do u have genuine intentions for her? If yes, then re-mphasis ur intention to her. Is obvious she is having financial problem. Don't capitalize on that to do anything funny to her. Tell her what u want from her and if she can't say yes, then she should not remember you when she's in need. This was how a gal friendzoned me years and using the money I give her to cook for her cultist boyfriend in school. She remembers me each time she's broke and even when d guy fought with someone nd got wounded, d gal came to me pretending that her mother is seriously sick, not knowing is the idiot. Well, she regretted it cos I was long gone when d iidot dumped her sorry asx.

sirdouglas:
thank you but since I have made a mistake of inviting her already which she said yes but don't have anything to wear. I asked her to come tomorrow so that I can take her to my friend for new clothes. What do u suggest that I do

OfficialDad:


Tell her you changed your mind. You need to attend to something else, and you won't be going again. Just cancel that invitation.

Then, you need to realize that, she's 18-19yrs according to you, her brain is still lacking life experiences. Get to find out if her mom is truely having issues, and help with the token u v. I suggest u visit the mom and present the token(5k, 10k , etc) to her, you would gain the moms love, trust and respect. In fact the whole family go dey call you MVP

sirdouglas:


Yea but don't u think that will be breaking trust?? I mean u and I know that women have a way of reasoning. Maybe I should just pay for the clothes and still cancel the invitation but even at that, if she wants to find out if I later went she will find out. And that also is not good

sirdouglas:
Before u crucify me hear me out.
I met her from a friend and she started working for me. After a while she left but she has already won my heart but didn't say anything cos I hate having affairs with my workers. After she left I approached her but she didn't say anything after like months I met her again but she still refuse and told me she was dating a guy I know very well to be a play boy. I tried to convince her that her relationship with him won't lead to anywhere at a point I decided that I have to let her go.
Fast forward to last few week, I noticed she has been liking my post a lot and always try to initiate a conversation. I ignored her still until she started asking why I don't call her again. I told say me don try nah for close to 8 months now. She told me that she will like to come to my office and would like us to talk. I was like is everything alright and she said yes that she just want to see me.

I chatted her up earlier this night for her to start telling me about some of her family problem. Mind the fact that if she is a gold digger she would have said yes long before now. She has still not said yes but she asked if she can come and work for me on weekends which I refused. She said she needed to help her mum and some personal stuff.

I asked her to follow me to a wedding ceremony which she agreed but said she doesn't have Cloth for an occasion. She still a young girl if u ask me.

Not more than 19 or 20

I asked her to come around tomorrow so I can buy some clothes for her for the occasion.

She has not said yes nor any much interest but I don't know how to fix the puzzle

Is she coming around because things is a little rough for her?
Is she having issues with her bf and want to use me to get over him?
Is she for real?
OR she wants to play me since I have refuse to let go??

Mature reply is highly appreciated

Frankeyy:






advice:u have the upper advantage.. hia sir...the ball is in your court....nor allow dat gal see u finish..I repeat no allow DAT gal see u finish....


na guys nid to check ma signature....do DAT ASAP