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Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Flintstone06(m): 11:24pm On Sep 14, 2017
Hi guys,


Am 27 years old, meet bae who claimed to be 19 years so we good and hit it off but just found out she is actually 17 years old and it's kinda somehow considering that is a whooping 10 years.

Guys do you think the age gap is too big? Would you go for same? Asides the age thing, we are good.

Cc Seun, Mynd44, lalasticlala...
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Sleyanya1(m): 11:25pm On Sep 14, 2017
angry
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by babyfaceafrica: 11:29pm On Sep 14, 2017
Age is just a number
.fire on
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by tosyne2much(m): 11:30pm On Sep 14, 2017
A 17 year old girl will most likely mess you up due to lack of commitment and short of expectations. Looking for a serious relationship from a 17 year old girl is like putting a fire on your roof.

Even the ones above 20 gan sef, their heads never correct not to talk of a lady at the prime of paparazzi

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Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Rashforrd(m): 11:34pm On Sep 14, 2017
Age is not criteria a to measure one's maturity.If she can acts matured then you people are good to go.
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by phintohlar(f): 12:47am On Sep 15, 2017
My dad is 21 years older dan my mum(not even sure if i calculate well) cos his 1st born is even older dan malle

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Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Nobody: 3:36am On Sep 15, 2017
It's not if there is maturity.
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by luminouz(m): 6:53am On Sep 15, 2017
phintohlar:
My dad is 21 years older dan my mum(not even sure if i calculate well) cos his 1st born is even older dan malle
Waoooooo
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by blacq2009(m): 7:20am On Sep 15, 2017
Op, abi you didn't read about the 75 year old man who charms ladies to bed. The ladies definitely wouldn't be 75 of age too. I guess there'd be 30 or so age gap between him and some of his "clients". Keep balling. After all, her thing go dey tight.

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Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by donpata(m): 7:38am On Sep 15, 2017
It depends. The 10yr old gap ain't the issue but ur current ages. Imagine a guy of 33 dating a girl of 23. There won't be much issue cos the lady will most likely be matured in mind and character. But urs is shifted backward. A 17yr old girl will have some childish attitude no matter how mature she acts. That said, I think u have to weigh her maturity level. If she acts maturely, I think u are good to go; you will however teach/coach her a in some areas. U must also be patient since u know her level. And finally, what is ur motive of going in2 a relationship with her? Cos at 17, she shld be a jambite. If u got nothing really serious; I mean like marriage in d next 3 to 5 yrs, free her joor.

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Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Countrygirl(f): 7:47am On Sep 15, 2017
Not bad if she is mature and knows what she wants.
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by phintohlar(f): 8:30am On Sep 15, 2017
luminouz:

Waoooooo
na real waoooooo... Thank God for his small stature,now his 81 buh luks 61
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by luminouz(m): 8:47am On Sep 15, 2017
phintohlar:
na real waoooooo... Thank God for his small stature,now his 81 buh luks 61
Lmaoooo
Its good sha!!!
U be real OMO AGBA!!!
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by phintohlar(f): 8:55am On Sep 15, 2017
luminouz:
Lmaoooo Its good sha!!! U be real OMO AGBA!!!
smile... Yes ke
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by luminouz(m): 8:57am On Sep 15, 2017
phintohlar:
smile... Yes ke
grin grin
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Alariwo2: 9:14am On Sep 15, 2017
So far the guy is older not the girl, I don't think it's an issue.

Girls marry men over 20 years older sef so it's nothing.. But at that age, I don't think she is mature enof for serious relationship. I might be wrong tho. but most times they'll want to explore.

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Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by makydebbie(f): 9:16am On Sep 15, 2017
tosyne2much:
A 17 year old girl will most likely mess you up due to lack of commitment. Looking for a serious relationship from a 17 year old girl is like putting a fire on your roof
Op best advice so far.

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Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Nobody: 9:21am On Sep 15, 2017
The age is not the issue but level of maturity
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by tosyne2much(m): 9:39am On Sep 15, 2017
makydebbie:
Op best advice so far.
Your head dey dia Debby cheesy
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Pierced(f): 10:04am On Sep 15, 2017
peadophile..........that's wat u are.

if u are still dating her.......then it's child abuse.

pls........leave the young girl alone, 2 face her education, or u could wait for her till she's 18.

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Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Rukkydelta(f): 10:49am On Sep 15, 2017
Pierced:
peadophile..........that's wat u are.

if u are still dating her.......then it's child abuse.

pls........leave the young girl alone, 2 face her education, or u could wait for her till she's 18.
You just said my mind
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Nobody: 1:38pm On Sep 15, 2017
phintohlar:
My dad is 21 years older dan my mum(not even sure if i calculate well) cos his 1st born is even older dan malle
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked. wow.
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Flintstone06(m): 4:58pm On Sep 15, 2017
donpata:
It depends. The 10yr old gap ain't the issue but ur current ages. Imagine a guy of 33 dating a girl of 23. There won't be much issue cos the lady will most likely be matured in mind and character. But urs is shifted backward. A 17yr old girl will have some childish attitude no matter how mature she acts. That said, I think u have to weigh her maturity level. If she acts maturely, I think u are good to go; you will however teach/coach her a in some areas. U must also be patient since u know her level. And finally, what is ur motive of going in2 a relationship with her? Cos at 17, she shld be a jambite. If u got nothing really serious; I mean like marriage in d next 3 to 5 yrs, free her joor.


Motive is to marry her. We discussed the coaching thing and she is fine with taking instructions. Some childish acts right? Could be crazy at times grin
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Flintstone06(m): 5:02pm On Sep 15, 2017
Pierced:
peadophile..........that's wat u are.

if u are still dating her.......then it's child abuse.

pls........leave the young girl alone, 2 face her education, or u could wait for her till she's 18.

Looool, did u read where I said she hid it from me.. Her international passport carries 19years self so I believed but her actual based on waec is 17 years and to add, she wants the relationship so don't misuse that word next time undecided undecided undecided
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by mediocre(m): 5:04pm On Sep 15, 2017
You a pedophile bruh..
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by phintohlar(f): 5:59pm On Sep 15, 2017
raylord:
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked. wow.
yes ke
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Lalas247(f): 6:05pm On Sep 15, 2017
Op that's way too young
What happened to ladies in your age group
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Lalas247(f): 6:07pm On Sep 15, 2017
phintohlar:
My dad is 21 years older dan my mum(not even sure if i calculate well) cos his 1st born is even older dan malle
Mine is 15 lol
But they she was in her 20's not 17 the girl still has some more maturing to do
He can wait till she is 21 at least
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by makydebbie(f): 6:07pm On Sep 15, 2017
tosyne2much:
Your head dey dia Debby cheesy
Lol 17 years never ready. cheesy
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by phintohlar(f): 6:32pm On Sep 15, 2017
Lalas247:

Mine is 15 lol
But they she was in her 20's not 17 the girl still has some more maturing to do
He can wait till she is 21 at least
iffa hear
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by Lalas247(f): 6:48pm On Sep 15, 2017
phintohlar:
iffa hear
Kikiki grin
Re: Is This Age Gap Too Much? by tosyne2much(m): 6:53pm On Sep 15, 2017
Lalas247:

Mine is 15 lol
But they she was in her 20's not 17 the girl still has some more maturing to do
He can wait till she is 21 at least
Your head dey dia jawe.

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