I have been out of relationship for a time now due to some personal reasons. Few weeks back I met this girl, she serves as a sales girl near my office. Each time I come around I akways play with her so one day I jokingly asked for her number and she gave me I promised to call which I never did( I don't know if its just me but must times I ask ladies for their number just for fun). Few days later she called requesting to know why I never called. As a guy I just gave her one or two excuses and ended the call. I asked her out the next Sunday and she accepted. We met and it was fun. I tried to touch her but she refused ( I was expecting that anyway, I mean we just met!!). We started going out more often and I normally pick her up while going to my house cos she is not living far from my place.

The thing is all this while, she never wanted me to touch her. When I insisted to know why she said its because I don't have a condom with me. I tried to talk her out of it but she strongly refused so I let her be.

This Sunday I bought the condom and after some drama she allow me to touch her. But she said she will cry. I was surprised. First I thought maybe she is a virgin but when I tried to penetrate her the outside was open but will never allow a dip thrust. She cried in pain.

I was shocked because I knew exactly what was going on. I tried again and it was obvious she was not faking it. I couldn't bring myself to sex her with so much pain in her. I started questioning her and she told me that she was raped sometime last year by a group of four guys but it was only one that penetrated her. My gut was telling me that she is watering the incident down because she doesn't want to either offend me or lose me. She was crying all this while, her tears was not moving me cos I don't easily get moved by a lady's tears. I question her some more but that was all she could tell.

Now she knew she had whatever infection that hence her refusal without condom.

I have come to love the girl. Though one of her reasons she refused to have sex with me was that she was afraid I will leave her after that.
I gave her my word before then to stay with her only if she wants to stay. I always try to keep my word.

I love this girl. I want to help her get rid of whatever that is but first I want ur advice.
Does she worth the stress?
Do you have any idea what could be wrong with her?
Should I just let her be?
She has met few guys before me who had sex with her even in that pain and never felt a thing. She never wanted to tell but I assured her that I know she had a life before we met.

What exactly should I do?

Elders come nd have ur say.

"I am semi virgin, I lost my virginity through rape, I've had one boyfriend all my life, I've had sex only once, I was deceived to have sex, I was drugged and raped, etc"

Those are lines of oloshos.

Maybe Lalasticlala or Fire fire or Mogidi or Mynd44 will have sontin to say, as for me I have nontin to say.

She told you everything, but you didn't believe her without a proof.

She gave you the chance to prove it: you did and found out that it is true...yet you still chose DISTRUST.

NO RELATIONSHIP WILL EVER WORK WHERE THERE IS NO TRUST.

ARE YOU ALSO A VIRGIN that you wanna judge others based on their virginity?

WHO VIRGINITY EPP, ABEG?

CaptainJeffry:
"I am semi virgin, I lost my virginity through rape, I've had one boyfriend all my life, I've had sex only once, I was deceived to have sex, I was drugged and raped, etc"

Those are lines of oloshos.

And those lines/lies

Back to back

Is a hit

yea get the guys number and ask him

forreelinc:
yea get the guys number and ask him

She agreed to show the guy that did that to her. I forget to say that she told me that she was beaten and robed. Its now like 2yrs ago before I met her. I can't start fighting a dude over what I don't know when or what exactly happened? I just want to know the way forward.

KardinalZik:
She told you everything, but you didn't believe her without a proof.

She gave you the chance to prove it: you did and found out that it is true...yet you still chose DISTRUST.

NO RELATIONSHIP WILL EVER WORK WHERE THERE IS NO TRUST.

ARE YOU ALSO A VIRGIN that you wanna judge others based on their virginity?

WHO VIRGINITY EPP, ABEG?

Nah.......me too I don't give a Bleep about virgin stuff. And I want to believe her considering the amount of crime that happens in this country but I am just afraid. I don't want to find out tomorrow that she is not really what she appears to be. I mean we just me, not even up to two weeks. I am only trying not to loose my brain because I love a woman. You should understand. U are a guy. I'm a good guy or I wouldn't be here seeking for suggestion.

What will u want me to do then?

sirdouglas:


She agreed to show the guy that did that to her. I forget to say that she told me that she was beaten and robed. Its now like 2yrs ago before I met her. I can't start fighting a dude over what I don't know when or what exactly happened? I just want to know the way forward.

ehn na to move on na after all you love her

The outside was open....


Looool....

help her if you really want to.

Its a set up bruh.. its their usual line

Be human bro,even if you love her or you don't, lets be human cos a lot of girls are going thru tough times and don't forget what she's going thru right now could have happened to anybody,now what if our sisters are going thru it and we are never aware?they are ladies too don't u get?just rebuild her confidence bro.

columbus007:
Be human bro,even if you love her or you don't, lets be human cos a lot of girls are going thru tough times and don't forget what she's going thru right now could have happened to anybody,now what if our sisters are going thru it and we are never aware?they are ladies too don't u get?just rebuild her confidence bro.

Yea. Thanks a lot.

IamSINZ:
Its a set up bruh.. its their usual line

so what do you suggest then?

sirdouglas:
so what do you suggest then?

Tell her you're not interested in her past, I'm sure you have a dirty past too.

help her to ve a painless deep thrust abi
use lubricant

sirdouglas:


Nah.......me too I don't give a Bleep about virgin stuff. And I want to believe her considering the amount of crime that happens in this country but I am just afraid. I don't want to find out tomorrow that she is not really what she appears to be. I mean we just me, not even up to two weeks. I am only trying not to loose my brain because I love a woman. You should understand. U are a guy. I'm a good guy or I wouldn't be here seeking for suggestion.

What will u want me to do then?

To seal your love for her, just believe and TRUST HER. In a relationship, nothing works like trust - not even love itself.

And in case you find out her dark side later, just consider that everyone has their dark sides.

IF YOU LOVE, LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY. And, should you decide to quit, quit irreversibly.

Either she was truly raped or its an infection or she doesn't want u to see her as cheap. whatever it is, just be careful

you love her and she dont want to loose you.give her a life and control your sexual urge.give her reasons why she needs to forget her past.take her to a hospital for medical checkup.maybe she has an infection thats why she persist you use circle on her

KardinalZik:


IF YOU LOVE, LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY. And, should you decide to quit, quit irreversibly.

that part got me. Thanks a lot. U don't how grateful I am. For all of you guys.

Since you love her, take her to see a doctor, after that, build a good relationship with her and be incharge

Love my black arse! At the end of it all, I'd be damned if you take her to your mama

sirdouglas:
that part got me. Thanks a lot. U don't how grateful I am. For all of you guys.

You're welcome

Ok

QueenSekxy:
help her if you really want to.

What do you mean by "help her"?
You're also a woman. Is your relationship a 'help'?
In a relationship, no partner is doing the other a favour. The two are just two sides of a coin.

CaptainJeffry:
"I am semi virgin, I lost my virginity through rape, I've had one boyfriend all my life, I've had sex only once, I was deceived to have sex, I was drugged and raped, etc"

Those are lines of oloshos.

like your sister right

KardinalZik:
She told you everything, but you didn't believe her without a proof.

She gave you the chance to prove it: you did and found out that it is true...yet you still chose DISTRUST.

NO RELATIONSHIP WILL EVER WORK WHERE THERE IS NO TRUST.


ARE YOU ALSO A VIRGIN that you wanna judge others based on their virginity?

WHO VIRGINITY EPP, ABEG?

men and trust issues
if u have had sex with her,I guess we for no hear am abi

My Ex has the same story about been raped but even worse ..she lives with me..each tym I tried to penetrate her she will weep in an agonizing manner DAT her eyes will turn red and her nose will be full of muko...so I stopped trying cuz I did not want to hear her cry all night ....after 4month her actions ,words and movement did not add up. .so I investigated her and found out she heard sex with 4 different guys including her Ex ....I pretended for another month while she lived with me to understand how deep her deciet went ......I confronted her best friend ....she denied at first for days but wen she realized I knew too much now ...she reluctantly confirmed all DAT I have seen ....she said she was aware of wat my girl was doing ...she was also aware DAT my girl pretended to be recovering from truama of rape ...she was also aware my girl was very good at crying and acting d victim..she was also aware my girl made sure I never penetrate her.. She was aware of every thing and cover for her all d tym .....she was also aware dat my girlfriend acted in DAT manner to look lyk a good girl so DAT I will consider marrying her since I was a promising young man who want to get married. Some girls are real trouble ...I started fucking her very hard even with all the tears ...she thought I would stop but I did not...the sex continued for a week and wen I was tried of listening to those lies ...I told her I had known d truth for a month now ...she was shocked ...she asked wat I wanted to do with her now ...I politely asked her to leave my house ...up til now she still calls to plead. Right now I can't help but think Dats part of her deciet

sirdouglas:
I have been out of relationship for a time now due to some personal reasons. Few weeks back I met this girl, she serves as a sales girl near my office. Each time I come around I akways play with her so one day I jokingly asked for her number and she gave me I promised to call which I never did( I don't know if its just me but must times I ask ladies for their number just for fun). Few days later she called requesting to know why I never called. As a guy I just gave her one or two excuses and ended the call. I asked her out the next Sunday and she accepted. We met and it was fun. I tried to touch her but she refused ( I was expecting that anyway, I mean we just met!!). We started going out more often and I normally pick her up while going to my house cos she is not living far from my place.

The thing is all this while, she never wanted me to touch her. When I insisted to know why she said its because I don't have a condom with me. I tried to talk her out of it but she strongly refused so I let her be.

This Sunday I bought the condom and after some drama she allow me to touch her. But she said she will cry. I was surprised. First I thought maybe she is a virgin but when I tried to penetrate her the outside was open but will never allow a dip thrust. She cried in pain.

I was shocked because I knew exactly what was going on. I tried again and it was obvious she was not faking it. I couldn't bring myself to sex her with so much pain in her. I started questioning her and she told me that she was raped sometime last year by a group of four guys but it was only one that penetrated her. My gut was telling me that she is watering the incident down because she doesn't want to either offend me or lose me. She was crying all this while, her tears was not moving me cos I don't easily get moved by a lady's tears. I question her some more but that was all she could tell.

Now she knew she had whatever infection that hence her refusal without condom.

I have come to love the girl. Though one of her reasons she refused to have sex with me was that she was afraid I will leave her after that.
I gave her my word before then to stay with her only if she wants to stay. I always try to keep my word.

I love this girl. I want to help her get rid of whatever that is but first I want ur advice.
Does she worth the stress?
Do you have any idea what could be wrong with her?
Should I just let her be?
She has met few guys before me who had sex with her even in that pain and never felt a thing. She never wanted to tell but I assured her that I know she had a life before we met.

What exactly should I do?

Shey na D same girl wey get twins for u currently

You mean she was FATOYINBO'D?