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My FRIEND Looses Confidence Cos He Believe He's UGLY by Miaanita(f): 9:36pm On Nov 30, 2017
Hello guys... Pls I have a friend that believes he's so Ugly and people(mostly girls) always look at him when he passes by and Laugh at him a lot....
He's talented but he can't showcase himself cos he believes he's unpresentable.......

This always weigh him so down...pls what's your advice for him....

I don't think he's really ugly though......

Pls kindly pm so that I cn send his picture privately to you......
Re: My FRIEND Looses Confidence Cos He Believe He's UGLY by phlamesG: 9:38pm On Nov 30, 2017
I'm guessing that friend is you

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Re: My FRIEND Looses Confidence Cos He Believe He's UGLY by generalbush(m): 9:39pm On Nov 30, 2017
His only alternative is to make money.

I am in his shoes too...

Na why I dey hustle upandan

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Re: My FRIEND Looses Confidence Cos He Believe He's UGLY by TRAPP(m): 9:50pm On Nov 30, 2017
Tell him to go and hustle.

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Re: My FRIEND Looses Confidence Cos He Believe He's UGLY by ufuosman(m): 9:59pm On Nov 30, 2017
If e fine pass osho baba and baba den e no ugly. Man ugly Na because cash no dey

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Re: My FRIEND Looses Confidence Cos He Believe He's UGLY by labanj1(m): 10:01pm On Nov 30, 2017
The first he needs to do is care less what anybody says about him. He should not do things to please anybody. Then improve on himself and finally get money. Lol

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Re: My FRIEND Looses Confidence Cos He Believe He's UGLY by internationalman(m): 10:16pm On Nov 30, 2017
love has a way of making a girl think his boyfriend is the most handsome guy on earth, not until she breaks up with him b4 he realises how ugly he is.

i hope u find that girl.

but only if u are not as ugly as this guy below

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Re: My FRIEND Looses Confidence Cos He Believe He's UGLY by internationalman(m): 10:17pm On Nov 30, 2017
ufuosman:
If e fine pass osho baba and baba den e no ugly. Man ugly Na because cash no dey
but u are not ugly nau
Re: My FRIEND Looses Confidence Cos He Believe He's UGLY by ipobarecriminals: 10:19pm On Nov 30, 2017
undecided Ghost friend. Activated. Listen up,everything God made is/was beautiful. U dnt need/can't remade urself.just smile always
Re: My FRIEND Looses Confidence Cos He Believe He's UGLY by Nobody: 10:26pm On Nov 30, 2017
NO
Don't send anyone his pictures, it is just adding insult to injury. He is still seeking validation.

Sadly, your friend is not alone. There are many people who suffer from inferiority complex issues because of one reason or the other. it can lead to depression and death if not properly dealt with.




1) First of all, your friend must stop caring about what other people say about him. Let him realize that people will always have a thing or two to say, regardless of how good or bad he looks.

2) Promote his talent among your friends and let him take credit for it; encourage him to ignore girls and focus more on his talent. You as a friend can help him market his talent more. You may or may not do it with his knowledge, but let him take the credit. it will help his self esteem.

3) let him get into conversation with more of your friends; start conversations and ensure you force him to contribute. it will get him out of his shell and improve his self esteem. Although he might not like this at first, but he will appreciate it later

4) Encourage him with quotes like this

" you can't change how you look, but you can always change how you feel"

"No amount of external validation can change the way you feel about your self"

let him recite it , whenever he feels intimidated and feels like he is inferior.

Hope I helped

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Re: My FRIEND Looses Confidence Cos He Believe He's UGLY by Nobody: 10:50pm On Nov 30, 2017
Miaanita! Your Friend Seriously Needs Encouragment... Juliet Ibrahim's boyfriend Is Ugly, Adams Oshiomole is Ugly But His Wife Is Beautiful... Look At Jay-Z and Beyonce... Look At Akpororo and His Wife...

Girls Are Crushin On Don Jazzy & Olamide because Of The Personality They Have Built...

Be Bold As A Lion and Confident As A Tiger. (these Animals Are Deadly beasts Yet We Love Them, why?) Go Figure...



Believe In Yourself And know How To Interact With Women. He Should Show His Talent, intelligent And Talented Men Appear Beautiful Before Women...

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