Pweety4me:

Your girlfriend.

3ndy:

no, that's a wrong answer bcoz i would like my bf 2 tell what 2 do in these circumstances--
as 4 d exbf of your gf i feel resentment in your words meanin u wouldn't want her 2 go 2 d wedding-- but the answer u gave her means that u wouldn't like if she goes but u won't oppose 2 her-- and that when she comes back u will be mad at her.--- this is what i read in your answer-- so think abt it.
if u really were'nt borderd abt her going u would have just given a straight answer.

deemayjee:

[b]My girlfriend told me that her ex invited her for his wedding in May. I know this issue has be trashed out (being invited to an ex's wedding), but i want to know it from the significant other's view. When she told me that and asked me whether she should go or not, all i simply said was "if u feel it is right, u can go, but if u feel it is not right, don't go". i didn't mean to impose her onto anything as the decision is hers, but she told me my statement is really "pregnant" with meaning (what she meant by that was i was indirectly telling her to use her senses to decide whether to go or not, which i wasn't) and that she would not go, cos she doesn't want a situation whereby something like this will occur in the future and i would refer to this issue (my girl is the very jealous type and though she doesn't show it, i know she's not really happy when i talk to my ex, which is not often).

this is a guy she told me left her in her dire time of need, when she was in a critical life-threatening situation in the past, and who left her to tend her wounds alone. she had vowed not to date anyother man again in her life b4 i met her. it even took me so much of my time and patience b4 she even agreed for me to take her out on a date. afterwards the guy came running back to her, pleading for her to give him another chance, even calling and talking to her mum to plead with her daughter on his behalf. he later said that he was getting married to his present gf because he was getting older and that forever in his life, he will know he has lost a precious gem.


did i reply her right?[/b]

blackmann:

Sweetheart, knowing what u ladies are capable of doing, i feel he said the right thing. U Ladies are a complex set creatures and no answer seems to be the right answer, neither yes nor no.

blackmann:

why u come dey vex like this?

3ndy:

y wont i??
the way u describes us seems we're a unique species that comes from the outerspace and always negate happiness 2 men

blackmann:

U inferred the negate happiness part but i never implied that. what i meant is that u ladies are sometimes difficult to understand. No vex ok?
Oya give me a hug?
U are unique creatures by the way.

blackmann:

Well u are a lady so am really not suprised the way u replied.

**takes 3ndy in my arms and  on her cheeks,  on forehead**

blackmann:

haba now, because i dey return your 2 pecks? which kain dishi be this sef?

blackmann:

u see why i said no answer seems to be the right answer to u ladies? i try make amends, now u come dey talk say my mouth dey drool like dog own. which guy will peck a lady on the cheeks and drench her in saliva? what can a man do to please a lady sef?

3ndy:

i say u do bad thing amendin with a peack??
i no say u drench me with saliva i only say u baf me from head 2 toe,
well there are a lot of things a man could do 2 pls ladies and that implies being a man as for starters

blackmann:


U see what i mean now?
wetin u mean now na? wetin i do again??
and your definition of being a man is. . . . .what?

3ndy:

u don't need me 2 tell u hw 2 be a man i guess

blackmann:

No i have to ask cos [b]your definition of being a man may be totally different from yours.[/b]