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Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by SirMichael1: 7:47am On Jan 19, 2018
Late last year, I had an inspiration to create a thread questioning the things men desire in a relationship aside sex and everyone gave their individual opinions.

With the rise of this sex doll that is making many haywire, there's just a derivable conclusion that the sole reason a man would go into a relationship is 'sex'. Remove sex from the relationship and utter them/relationship miserable. Now give them the basic thing they need (sex) and watch them say women have nothing to offer except sex. The same sex they went into the relationship for?? shocked

How rare is it seeing men come together to fight God's true companion for us? I mean, I have never seen a people so focused in putting their opposite sex out of their misery as incorporating a doll meant for kids into their daily lives?


I see ladies with 'panda dolls' and the likes which they use to sleep with and it disgusts me, how much more will my fellow man cuddle himself to sleep with a doll? An inanimate object?

C'mon! I played with dolls when I was like 1-2 years or something, I can't be going back now.... C'mon now, let's drop this stale news already.

If you don't see it now, the rise of sex dolls will take away the humanity in us. There's just so much to be worried over than this.

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by gabinogem(m): 8:06am On Jan 19, 2018
OK...ur opinion has been very well noted.
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by ubunja(m): 8:10am On Jan 19, 2018
its what men have always said.men have been open to everyone from the start: we want sex. ..not your intelligence, education or money.just sex. and women thought men were cheap..or joking...or being sexist.lolz

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by SirMichael1: 8:52am On Jan 19, 2018
ubunja:
its what men have always said.men have been open to everyone from the start: we want sex. ..not your intelligence, education or money.just sex. and women thought men were cheap..or joking...or being sexist.lolz

On the contrary, men have always said women have nothing to offer except sex and that they want someone who could reason with them, carry out intelligent conversation and not being ignorant about tides going on, wants someone who can impact in them, enlighten them and support them career-wise but is it any surprising that they'd chose an inanimate object over animate ones?

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by ubunja(m): 8:59am On Jan 19, 2018
SirMichael1:


On the contrary, men have always said women have nothing to offer except sex and that they want someone who could reason with them, carry out intelligent conversation and not being ignorant about tides going on, wants someone who can impact in them, enlighten them and support them career-wise but is it any surprising that they'd chose an inanimate object over animate ones?
which men said they want someone they can talk to?? you mean the men on TV and in magazines who HAVE to say that crap or risk being called sexist??lmaoo...
you need to learn to seperate what men are forced to say from what men really wanna say. example:the #MeToo is trending BUT sex dolls are coming out.what does that tell you? that men are being forced to sound in support of women but really dont give a fvck...lolz actions speak louder than words bro.

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by madone: 9:08am On Jan 19, 2018
If ladies don't want sex in a relationship no problem . Just find a guy u like help him get a sex dolly to do the sex part of the relationship why she add her intelligence to the relationship. The problem is even though everyone is screaming sex doll everywhere .some ladies are actually been sex doll in many relationships. No meaningful contribution always demanding for attention and money. If a guy gets a sex doll he ll be free from drama. What we hate is the drama you ladies bring into the relationship.

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by Rukkydelta(f): 9:09am On Jan 19, 2018
Exactly
Last year ending many threads were created about women only bringing sex to the table, where as what most men truly wants is sex and nothing more

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by richythePH(f): 9:18am On Jan 19, 2018
hahahaha


well said fam..................honestly Y'all should chill cos i see nathing to worry 'bout here........

last night a thread was created: "sex doll or human.....choose" and majority of men (including the ones who say they stand with sex dolls) chose humans


i personally chose and will comtinue to choose the real deal but somehow i
find myself enjoying trolling these ladies and i dont intend to stop soon tongue

#WeStillStandWithSexDoll tongue

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by donstan18: 9:19am On Jan 19, 2018
Rukkydelta:
Exactly
Last year ending many threads were created about women only bringing sex to the table, where as what most men truly wants is sex and nothing more


Keep shut!

If men only wants sex, why then are they choosy in picking a wife?
If men only want sex, why don't they focus on prostitute rather than getting a girlfriend or settling down.
If men only want sex, why then are they praying for a good wife, when there are ladies who can offer sex.

Stop justifying ladies, the bitter truth remains that 90% of women can only offer sex in a relationship, remove sex and you'll see them fumble and become useless to the man. when dildos came out, how many men were ranting, they didn't, why? because they know they worth more than that, but what's up with women's rant with sex dolls, they are simply upset because the major and only thing they offer to men, sex dolls can now do it.

To the OP, I think the question should be.

Why are most women unhappy and triggered with sex dolls, if they have other things to offer These rants of women are better prove to back up the claim that most women can only offer sex.

Men do not want sex, the want a WOMAN in a relationship, not a sex giver.

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by Nobody: 9:23am On Jan 19, 2018
The dolls were created by a geek to fulfill his desires and that of his likes to access all the qualities in women that they might have been deprived of because of the realities of life. This is why the dolls are extremely sexy.


it is a robot with the exterior of a doll. it can never replace human beings.

I am sure majority of men don't see ladies as ordinary sex objects.

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by Nobody: 9:29am On Jan 19, 2018
If It Starts Selling World Wide then Birth Rate Will Reduce, its All Part Of The Plan To Reduce Over Population, Homosexuality Will Heighten Especially For Girls With Self Esteem Problem... Very Soon It Will Die Down, Once Overly Excited People Discover Its Nothing Compared To God's type Of Woman...
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by SirMichael1: 9:49am On Jan 19, 2018
ubunja:

which men said they want someone they can talk to?? you mean the men on TV and in magazines who HAVE to say that crap or risk being called sexist??lmaoo...
you need to learn to seperate what men are forced to say from what men really wanna say. example:the #MeToo is trending BUT sex dolls are coming out.what does that tell you? that men are being forced to sound in support of women but really dont give a fvck...lolz actions speak louder than words bro.

Ubunja, you see, the problem I have with you is that you read too much and fail to understand the difference between the real and the ideal word. It's about natural selection, the quest to pass on to our next generation our genes and other seemingly important things.

I am a fan of getting immersed in knowledge, as a matter of fact, I had to tune these things you do down 'cause it was messing with reality. I bet you have a mentor that you want to live up to.

If men are all for sex, why are they still breakups even when he gets all the sex? I bet your answer will be as good as this.... "Men are polygamous in nature"


This world as you'd agree with me is a mans world, why would they be forced to suck up to a woman's opinion about them? Bet your answer would be "The society has deposited in us some incorrigible things like you must be a gentlemen and treat the ladies right, more like a Queen"

If it was all sex, they'll be no need for a fall out. Coupled with the fact that men don't know what they want, the truth also is that we're greedy. We want everything.... Power, wealth, love and others. Adolf got so power drunk that his greed made him attempt what would become his demise.

Learn to differentiate reality from the ideal
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by ubunja(m): 9:51am On Jan 19, 2018
SirMichael1:


Ubunja, you see, the problem I have with you is that you read too much and fail to understand the difference between the real and the ideal word. It's about natural selection, the quest to pass on to our next generation our genes and other seemingly important things.

I am a fan of getting immersed in knowledge, as a matter of fact, I had to tune these things you do down 'cause it was messing with reality. I bet you have a mentor that you want to live up to.

If men are all for sex, when are they still breakup even when he gets all the sex? I bet your answer will be as good as this.... "Men are polygamous in nature"


This world as you'd agree with me is a mans world, why would they be forced to suck up to a woman's opinion about them? Bet your answer would be "The society has deposited in us some incorrigible things like you must be a gentlemen and treat the ladies right, more like a Queen"

If it was all sex, they'll be no need for a fall out. Coupled with the fact that men don't know what they want, the truth also is that we're greedy. We want everything.... Power, wealth, love and others. Adolf got so power drunk that his greed made him attempt what would become his demise.

Learn to differentiate reality from the ideal
lol you say i dont see the real world but look around you bro: SEX DOLLS ARE TRENDING.
no amount of discussions and debates will change that.ha ha ha.
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by Rukkydelta(f): 10:14am On Jan 19, 2018
donstan18:


Keep shut!

If men only wants sex, why then are they choosy in picking a wife?
If men only want sex, why don't they focus on prostitute rather than getting a girlfriend or settling down.
If men only want sex, why then are they praying for a good wife, when there are ladies who can offer sex.

Stop justifying ladies, the bitter truth remains that 90% of women can only offer sex in a relationship, remove sex and you'll see them fumble and become useless to the man. when dildos came out, how many men were ranting, they didn't, why? because they know they worth more than that, but what's up with women's rant with sex dolls, they are simply upset because the major and only thing they offer to men, sex dolls can now do it.

To the OP, I think the question should be.

Why are most women unhappy and triggered with sex dolls, if they have other things to offer These rants of women are better prove to back up the claim that most women can only offer sex.

Men do not want sex, the want a WOMAN in a relationship, not a sex giver.


It could have been a good thing if your quote didn't come with the keep shut

I just said the unbais truth remove sex from a relationship and you will see most men won't have any reason dating likewise the same way most ladies don't want to date a broke

Sex and money is mainly the reason for relationship today
No gender is innocent

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by SirMichael1: 10:16am On Jan 19, 2018
ubunja:

lol you say i dont see the real world but look around you bro: SEX DOLLS ARE TRENDING.
no amount of discussions and debates will change that.ha ha ha.

Yeah, they'll be for some couple of time until it gets boring having to live with a doll alone for most part of the day
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by donstan18: 10:18am On Jan 19, 2018
Rukkydelta:

[s] It could have been a good thing if your quote didn't come with the keep shut
[/s]

I just said the unbais truth remove sex from a relationship and you will see most men won't have any reason dating likewise the same way most ladies don't want to date a broke


Sex and money is mainly the reason for relationship today
No gender is innocent


@Bolded.

Judging from your view, don't you think men have enough reason to rejoice over sex dolls.

So, why the fuss?
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by Jman06(m): 10:20am On Jan 19, 2018
Op, when men say that ladies offer only sex, it doesn't mean that sex is all they WANT, it simply means that that is what they GET from women. Some are now saying that since a sex doll can as well offer sex, what's the need for a woman And to that question, the answer is simply for men to change the class of women they roll with. Go for ladies who have other things to offer aside sex and demand for more than just sex from your women.

As for the ladies, add values to yourself so that when you are with a man he wouldn't even think of replacing you with a doll. This advice also goes vice versa. Ladies also need to jettison that long held belief that it is the duty of a man to provide all her needs. This belief is the reason why many ladies don't consider it necessary to add values to themselves but put all hopes on one "mr right" on whom to dump all their burdens.
Relationship should be a give and take affair. Come prepared with some values to add and also demand for the best from your partner.

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by ubunja(m): 10:25am On Jan 19, 2018
SirMichael1:


Yeah, they'll be for some couple of time until it gets boring having to live with a doll alone for most part of the day
and then why the hell are you angry in the first place lolz
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by SirMichael1: 10:26am On Jan 19, 2018
greiboy:

The dolls were created by a geek to fulfill his desires and that of his likes to access all the qualities in women that they might have been deprived of because of the realities of life. This is why the dolls are extremely sexy.


it is a robot with the exterior of a doll. it can never replace human beings.

I am not sure majority of men don't see ladies as ordinary sex objects.



Exactly! When you look at geeks and nerds, most of them have problems approaching a lady and do self-service off their loads away.

Now with the coming up of sex dolls, this would only make them stay behind their shells with their doll in their rooms, after all, all they want is sex from a lady. The urge to get laid is latent!

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by Rukkydelta(f): 10:28am On Jan 19, 2018
donstan18:


@Bolded.

Judging from your view, don't you think men have enough reason to rejoice over sex dolls.

So, why the fuss?
Don't get me wrong I don't have any problem with sex dolls whoever wishes to get one should do it's a free world
Just hate the idea of the male folks slamming ladies that all they can offer is just sex while it's what they want
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by SirMichael1: 10:30am On Jan 19, 2018
ubunja:

and then why the hell are you angry in the first place lolz

I wasn't, it was in reaction to your points which sucked. Most men think they know what they want but in reality, they're just as confused as a pack of rolling stones.
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by donstan18: 10:35am On Jan 19, 2018
Rukkydelta:

Don't get me wrong I don't have any problem with sex dolls whoever wishes to get one should do it's a free world
Just hate the idea of the male folks slamming ladies that all they can offer is just sex while it's what they want

What can most offer?, apart from sex.

Be sincere.
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by ubunja(m): 10:36am On Jan 19, 2018
SirMichael1:


I wasn't, it was in reaction to your points which sucked. Most men think they know what they want but in reality, they're just as confused as a pack of rolling stones.
lol you just a confused white knight taking a paracetamol for women's headache...get out of here..
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by Proudlyngwa(m): 10:38am On Jan 19, 2018
SirMichael1:


Yeah, they'll be for some couple of time until it gets boring having to live with a doll alone for most part of the day

That is where you get it wrong with artificial intelligence comes the game changer
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by Rukkydelta(f): 10:40am On Jan 19, 2018
donstan18:


What can most offer?, apart from sex.

Be sincere.
Lol
They offer what most men desire smiley
I just have something to say to you change the circle of ladies you get along with
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by SirMichael1: 10:42am On Jan 19, 2018
ubunja:

lol you just a confused white knight taking a paracetamol for women's headache...get out of here..

As usual, trying so hard to portray the bad boy's attribute.... All you are is just a skunk, a shadow of your former self, a mirage with no glaring hope for your future, a loose cannon waiting to be launched on unsuspecting victims, an insecure little brat.

You never fail to fall below expectations. Get your shït together man

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by SirMichael1: 10:44am On Jan 19, 2018
Rukkydelta:

Lol
They offer what most men desire smiley
I just have something to say to you change the circle of ladies you get along with

You've got to be specific here 'cause most men desire sex. Don't be vague please
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by SirMichael1: 10:49am On Jan 19, 2018
Proudlyngwa:

That is where you get it wrong with artificial intelligence comes the game changer

Oh my, where do all these fellows come from?? Just when I thought I was making head's-way... Phew! grin

I agree with you. I think we kinda digressed from the aim of this topic, moreover, if it isn't the real thing, it can never the real thing even if it feels like the real thing
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by Rukkydelta(f): 10:52am On Jan 19, 2018
SirMichael1:


You've got to be specific here 'cause most men desire sex. Don't be vague please
SirMicheal
Most girls offer sex and most men desire sex
Most men offer money and most girls desire money

Good morning

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by Proudlyngwa(m): 10:58am On Jan 19, 2018
SirMichael1:


Oh my, where do all these fellows come from?? Just when I thought I was making head's-way... Phew! grin

I agree with you. I think we kinda digressed from the aim of this topic, moreover, if it isn't the real thing, it can never the real thing even if it feels like the real thing

I will do a topic about the future of sexdolls and I will mention you and ubunja, then you will see why we should be really afraid for the future.
Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by ubunja(m): 10:58am On Jan 19, 2018
SirMichael1:


As usual, trying so hard to portray the bad boy's attribute.... All you are is just a skunk, a shadow of your former self, a mirage with no glaring hope for your future, a loose cannon waiting to be launched on unsuspecting victims, an insecure little brat.

You never fail to fall below expectations. Get your shït together man
dude belittle me all you want grin
but the women you so valiantly fighting for are being replaced by dolls cheesy who is having the last laugh?? lmfaooooooo!!!!
ha ha ha...im pissing my pants.

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Re: Now We Know What Men Desire In A Relationship by SirMichael1: 11:00am On Jan 19, 2018
Rukkydelta:

SirMicheal
Most girls offer sex and most men desire sex
Most men offer money and most girls desire money

Good morning

Morning ma. Actually, I think the question he posed was "what can 'most' lady offer in a relationship apart from sex?

Prove him wrong.

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