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The Reason Why You And You Partner Are Always Fighting. by clitlicker: 8:13pm On Jan 23, 2018
CLITLICKER'S law of relationship stability states that women should marry upwards, men should marry downward.

Some marry sideways as well (when there is no clear superiority)

what do i mean by marrying upwards? it implies marrying someone that is more than you,
some people will want to argue that no human being is superior to another.
I will tell u this people are not the same we are better than some people, some people are also better than us.

real life scenerio: if Adesua Etomi marries my favourite yoruba rapper, Cdq. or terry g. or say tiwa savage marries t blizz, oh sorry that happened cheesy there will likely be a problem because it goes against the female instint of ideal, an ideal which stipulates that the man should be the provider, the mentor, the protector, the person to make her better. once those role are not being played by the man she fells it was a bad deal and she will likely react by complianing, teaching and tryining to change and upgrade the guy, the se.xual tension might not be lost, so sex becomes an obligation, then come insulting gestures and comments.


A lot of times when a man loses his job and the woman has things going for her, the guy will likely be ridiculed, even a good woman will misbehave because economic power in the hand of the female partner is a nuclear weapon.


Men by instinct also know that marrying down is the best option. that why u hear the ladies being advised not to buy cars when lookinh for suitors. If you are a lady driving a camry only a guy in a benz will feel comfortable to runz you. women get se.xually turned on by man with more cash, better dressing, power... those traits turn women on more than pretty boy- fine boy swagger. Its quite common for women to fantasize about their bosses, pastors, hod just because they are turned on by men they see when the look up.


My point is this your partner is likely to be submissive when you are MORE than her.


The following factores determine what make you more:


financies: make more cash

social circle: having doper friends and showing her dope lifestyle

being more versertile and informed:

being more attractive: if not natural, dress better, smell better and speak eloquently.


age: women wont want to date her aburo (younger brothers mate)













disclaimer: there is no theory that works for all individuals, there will always be women that will be submissive till death even if their valuea elevate beyond space while your destiny remains earth bound. cheesy

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