"All men are cheats"
"Men are like dogs"
"Men can cheat with a million women but they always know who they love"
"Men are innately polygamous"

Say these words to a crowd of women and numbers too many would nod in such agreement.

Society is slowly buying this lie

What Lie?
That "it's quite normal for men to cheat, its in their nature"

Before you hang me out
You should know I'm not in support of men. I am a man but I'm not fighting a man's cause here.
My point is...
It's not true that staying faithful is hard for a man. Men are just lazy
Too lazy to try and refrain from sex
Too lazy to try self control.
Too lazy to say No when it matters most.

You know just how there's a " Bro Code"
Do's and Donts that society has accepted for boys or men in terms of relating.
Yeah, there's a societal code that governs fidelity

This code says men should try and have more sex and women should try and be chaste.

Who is this dictatorial ass-hole called society who tells everyone what's right or wrong? Who gave him that much power?
Well, we are all society. All of us. Yes, you.

But How? There's a rather popular quote from Desmond Tutu that says
"If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen theside of the oppressor."

And my mother would always say in the court of law that silence is interpreted to mean that whatever you want to say is not favourable to your cause .

What do i mean?
I'm an elder brother to a sister and two brothers. I will preach the gospel of sleeping with other women doesn't make you more of a man.
I have friends that sometimes listen to me and a few people who consider me smart( that's me playing humble) , all of these people will know it too. The idea is to talk about it enough till it begins to stir change and to try as much as we can to prevent a world where boys are born with the idea that a huge body count is key to social acceptance.

Lastly, for women who believe all men must cheat. Look at me, I'm a man who believes other men should try and be better. So don't give up on men just yet. There's more like me.
Believe in the motion, movement or whatever fancy name we can give making a lot of noise about a passion.


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Am a man too but I believe its safer for women to believe "all men cheat". Why?

1. because it fortifies their soul. It eliminates that soul killing "surprise jolt" when it occurs . This enable them bear the devastating shock that causes suicide when their husbands cheat.

On the other hand it makes them deeply appreciate and respect their man if he stays faithful since they even expected him to cheat.

2. It helps them to guard against it. It enables them to avoid carelessness that can expose their man to cheating. Allowing their female friends and relatives or female househelp to stay over or cook and serve their man will be done with utmost care or totally avoided.

3. They turn to detectives that even check their husbands phone and computer to ward off cheating.

Though I don't encourage this, yet it has helped some women detect an "infidelity about to happen", as well stop it and even get their husbands apologize and humble themselves. Also get him to agree to get help.


Agreeably about 60% of cheating husbands will ultimately have their way no matter how prudent and diligent the wife is in preventing it but if the wife has her mind already prepared that it could happen, its easier for her to bear the shock than the wife that bestows absolute, total "blind" trust on the husband.

ALL MEN ARE NOT CHEATS, BUT A GREATER PERCENTAGE OF THEM ARE.