[How do you deal with a guy that calls you names,but claims he loves u so much, each time I try avoiding him he comes back on his knees begging, am scared about the future, he says to me each time he is pissed that when ever he is angry he doesn't mind destroying things, have tried avoiding him but my battery suffers for it he will call till my phone is down, can't afford to change my sim just because of one person. how do I go about it.

You leave him and find another one that loves u before he will graduate from calling name to punching name.

That's a No No for me

Leave him , simple. One day , he will beat me and then come to beg me in my father's house...
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Block his number on your phone.He will try using other lines but you don't pick(you should be able to sense he's the one most times).
Sometimes you may need to switch off your phone.
He will get weary if you avoid him long enough.

Oga go beat the hell out of U ...after U start wearing that handcuff

Pleas for nairalanders sake,pack ur slippers abi shoe now and RUN.....we are tired of reading stories that touch the heart about how a nairalander was beaten to death by hubby,thanks much

He'll beat you to death and still bring flowers to your graveside asking for forgiveness..

Guess what will happen after.. he'll get another girl and continue with life while you sleep alone in you self contain 6 feets below.

I pray it doesn't get to that.. The rest is left to you.

pearlslimzy:
[How do you deal with a guy that calls you names,but claims he loves u so much, each time I try avoiding him he comes back on his knees begging, am scared about the future, he says to me each time he is pissed that when ever he is angry he doesn't mind destroying things, have tried avoiding him but my battery suffers for it he will call till my phone is down, can't afford to change my sim just because of one person. how do I go about it.

Between emotional abuse and physical abuse, I don't know which is a greater evil. Dude believes that whenever he begs, you'll always be there to take him back as usual so the emotional abuse will continue 'till you put an end to it.

Hmm

flokii:
He'll beat you to death and still bring flowers to your graveside asking for forgiveness..

Guess what will happen after.. he'll get another girl and continue with life while you sleep alone in you self contain 6 feets below.

I pray it doesn't get to that.. The rest is left to you.

Easy....the man can change....it'll be wrong to advice a girl in a relationship to dump her bf......you don't judge a story from a side....listen to both parties before you judge....i broke off from a 3yr relationship coz she was really judgemental I had my faults fine I'm a man buh the moment you let other parties in trust me it's headed for the rocks...Fix your relationship and take if off NL

Man or boy A man is supposed to know how to control his emotions, negative/ positive, and handle situations avoiding having regrets. Sorry o, your boo has to learn how to man up.

You have to be more opened if you're seeking a solution,i feel there's more to this story,have you ever checked yourself if you're at fault for his constant barrage of insult and physical abuse?have you both ever sat down together to trash out your differences and seek a resolution?have you brought in a third party into your problems or seek counseling? if you haven't done any of this,you better do now before it's too late.

I feel your partner has got anger issues,its a behavioral disorder that is sometimes difficult to do away with it,you both can still find a common ground tho,that's if you both really love each other and are committed to finding a solution,because I know the economic background of some women hinder them from speaking up against domestic abuse because of what they benefit from their partners I hope that's not your case.

Refer him to a professional therapist.
Then run for your life.

I'm not impressed
What are you still doing with that kinda man
It's not by force to be in a relationship or have a man oo
Men full everywhere
Leave him alone let him take his disease to his family members...how can he be tormenting you like that.....I can't deal gush!

LessNoise:


Easy....the man can change....it'll be wrong to advice a girl in a relationship to dump her bf......you don't judge a story from a side....listen to both parties before you judge....i broke off from a 3yr relationship coz she was really judgemental I had my faults fine I'm a man buh the moment you let other parties in trust me it's headed for the rocks...Fix your relationship and take if off NL

She just asked for advice. Would you even advice your sister to stay in such toxic relationship?

What is love without sacrifice. Dear op, you never loved him.

pearlslimzy:
[How do you deal with a guy that calls you names,but claims he loves u so much, each time I try avoiding him he comes back on his knees begging, am scared about the future, he says to me each time he is pissed that when ever he is angry he doesn't mind destroying things, have tried avoiding him but my battery suffers for it he will call till my phone is down, can't afford to change my sim just because of one person. how do I go about it.

Do not tolerate violence in a relationship under whatever guise!

pearlslimzy:
[How do you deal with a guy that calls you names,but claims he loves u so much, each time I try avoiding him he comes back on his knees begging, am scared about the future, he says to me each time he is pissed that when ever he is angry he doesn't mind destroying things, have tried avoiding him but my battery suffers for it he will call till my phone is down, can't afford to change my sim just because of one person. how do I go about it.

block him, any number he uses to call u, as soon as u hear his voice block that numb too!! Simple!!!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
She just asked for advice. Would you even advice your sister to stay in such toxic relationship?

Why include my sis into it how irritating can Nigerians be.....how is it relative? FYI I ain't got one

LessNoise:


Why include my sis into it how irritating can Nigerians be.....how is it relative? FYI I ain't got one

Thats really not the argument here. We in d same boat