Cordelia took to her Facebook page to sound a note of warning to men who are in the habit of trolling women using their single status during an argument.

She wrote:
Some of you men are beginning to annoy me. A woman can't make an observation or state her own point of view without one of you saying things like, 'that is why she is not married...that is why they will remain old spinsters in their father's house...' Rubbish. Are you God?
If you can't have a proper discussion, without throwing such jabs, stay on your lane. How many of you are even taking care of the fortunate women you married? Many of these ladies are taking care of everything but come out to declare in public how you are the supplier.
Stay your lane o."



https://www.gistrealm.com/media-personality-slams-men-who-insult-unmarried-women/

Cc lalasticlala

Nice one!

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Nice one! Not to make the woman brag but to caution men.

gbam

Right there in her post, she also took a swipe at financially incapable men. So, she isn't so innocent after all. Everyone is trying to hit where it hurts. It is a general problem.


If you have the time, put suckers in place.
Otherwise, just walk away from their stupidity...like I did to one here today

ARRANT NONSENSE!!!! thats not a MEN issue but an AFRICAN issue.

if this lady doesnt like what these men are saying, then she should blame the Nigerian SOCIETY... blame the MEN and WOMEN who raised these ignorant men, AND she shouldnt forget to also blame the majority of African women who also believe that marriage is a DO OR DIE issue.

the fact that she wanna blame men for such issue, yet so many women think exactly the same way, is a joke!

You have told the whole world the reason you are not married


Lamentations of an old single feminist

She's one of the frustrated aged single ladies, we know their type.......Their online behaviors and characters are like a university 4 years course.


Level 100: When they gain admission into 30s, they'll be like..... Marriage is not for everyone, i like being alone to avoid being controlled by any man, I don't even need a man.


Level 200: They'll be become more aggressive and start abusing and trolling men upandan on social media, venting their frustration on men due the numerous breakups they'v gotten from men, lol. They'll hide under the shield of feminism to bash men, while deep inside them, they so much need men.

Level 300: After seeing their carryover(Not getting attention from men) as a result of insulting men, they'll now become humble, they won't insult men again, they'll start playing neutral in issues for them to get support and attention from men online.


Level 400: They'll graduate from playing neutral and start asslicking men, They'll support whatever a man say online, even when a man bash a woman, they still support him by shouting 'Wow, wow, wow' like an ambulance.

If you are an aged single woman reading this, I Donstan is personally telling you to change your ways and settle with a man, their are many hardworking and successful men looking for a wife, but no man will want to marry a one time men hater. Go and marry, deep inside you, you need a man, stop deceiving yourself

An evening newspaper sighted

UDUJ:
An evening newspaper sighted

Lol

if you are over 25 and not married youre a failure. say what you will. nothing will change.

donstan18:


Lol

The Don I greet thee

UDUJ:

The Don I greet thee

My respect brO

Look at the way she's attacking us as if its our fault she and her cohorts are not married or telling them the truth to their face is a crime. If e pain her reach make she go marry and stop making a big deal out something so small as not being married. Very lousy unmarriageable lots

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!! thats not a MEN issue but an AFRICAN issue.

if this lady doesnt like what these men are saying, then she should blame the Nigerian SOCIETY... blame the MEN and WOMEN who raised these ignorant men, AND she shouldnt forget to also blame the majority of African women who also believe that marriage is a DO OR DIE issue.

the fact that she wanna blame men for such issue, yet so many women think exactly the same way, is a joke!

You and Antibrutus are right

donstan18:
She's one of the frustrated aged single ladies, we know their type.......Their online behaviors and characters are like a university 4 years course.


Level 100: When they gain admission into 30s, they'll be like..... Marriage is not for everyone, i like being alone to avoid being controlled by any man, I don't even need a man.


Level 200: They'll be become more aggressive and start abusing and trolling men upandan on social media, venting their frustration on men due the numerous breakups they'v gotten from men, lol. They'll hide under the shield of feminism to bash men, while deep inside them, they so much need men.

Level 300: After seeing their carryover(Not getting attention from men) as a result of insulting men, they'll now become humble, they won't insult men again, they'll start playing neutral in issues for them to get support and attention from men online.


Level 400: They'll graduate from playing neutral and start asslicking men, They'll support whatever a man say online, even when a man bash a woman, they still support him by shouting 'Wow, wow, wow' like an ambulance.

If you are an aged single woman reading this, I Donstan is personally telling you to change your ways and settle with a man, their are many hardworking and successful men looking for a wife, but no man will want to marry a one time men hater. Go and marry, deep inside you, you need a man, stop deceiving yourself

So true

We know them already . The former men haters now turn men asslickers due to their use by date fast approaching We have a perfect example of such in this thread already. She knows herself

Someone is venting her frustration

Typical lonely old hag post,she's probably in her mid or late 30s,this is not even an issue,i think someone Is bored and miserably seeking for attention.

Really people should learn to mind their business...men and women.

A lady is unmarried at an age you feel is old. So what?

Who made anyone the judge or "standard setter"?

It is not always their fault but also not our business.

They probably cry over it daily, get worried and get pressured by family. So why rub it in?

I reckon the lady is saying absolute nonsense

Both men and women are pressured to settle down in the Africa society. It's just that most women feel the pressure more because of their nature.

In addition, women should please stop spreading these useless rumors about taking up the financial responsibilities in Nigerian marriages as an excuse to broke shame men in general.

It's sickening because majority of the married men in the Nigerian society are still responsible for the financial needs of the family by default.

greiboy:
I reckon the lady is saying absolute nonsense

Both men and women are pressured to settle down in the Africa society. It's just that most women feel the pressure more because of their nature.

In addition, women should please stop spreading these useless rumors about taking up the financial responsibilities in Nigerian marriages as an excuse to broke shame men in general.

It's sickening because majority of the married men in the Nigerian society are still responsible for the financial needs of the family by default.

Or women are actually pressured more?
And No, she didn't say nonsense. Maybe the tone was wrong, but the message is real...

Aunty after ranting, go and marry biko.

AntiBrutus:


Or women are actually pressured more?

it's not true o

Men are pressured as much as ladies in some families, However, a man will always feel he can settle down anytime as long as he has gotten money.

Thus the pressure won't get to men, but ladies will feel they need to settle early because of a number issues ranging from age to taking care of potential children early enough and finally the issue of menopause

greiboy:
it's not true o

Men are pressured as much as ladies in some families, However, a man will always feel he can settle down anytime as long as he has gotten money.

Thus the pressure won't get to men, but ladies will feel they need to settle early because of a number issues ranging from age to taking care of potential children early enough and finally the issue of menopause

We both know the first isn't true (@ as much as).
Before a man will start facing such pressure, you will know how old he is. Men are more broke-shamed, that I will agree to.

Toks is the only guy I see NLDERs telling to go and marry and he is very open about his age. If he were younger, it would have been go and make money. Compare it to the number of ladies being told same here

Watch the comments so far. While some will address the issue logically, a good number will still come tell her to go and marry---very typical. Everything is marry, marry! Yet we wonder why our girls reason the way they do. Some of them don't even go into the marriage for love anymore, just the status and poverty alleviation.

AntiBrutus:


We both know the first isn't true (@ as much).
Before a man will start facing such pressure, you will know how old he is. Men are more broke-shamed, that I will agree to.

Toks is the only guy I see NLDERs telling to go and marry and he is very open about his age. If he were younger, it would have been go and make money. Compare it to the number of ladies being told same here

Watch the comments so far. While some will address the issue logically, a good number will still come tell her to go and marry---very typical. Everything is marry, marry! Yet we wonder why our girls reason the way they do. Some of them don't even go into the marriage for love anymore, just the status and poverty alleviation.

You have some points. It's true that Bro Toks is the guy most nairalanders love to talk over his relationship status, but it's also true that Bros Toks loves giving relationship advice. Hence, he should be ready to expose himself to a fair amount of criticism from the audience.

However, I don't take such shamming as the genuine opinion of the society. I think it's just a measure of defense mechanism used by some members of the audience to change the topic of discussion that addresses them and paints them in a bad light, others might just be having fun trolling him.

Same thing can be said of men insulting women's marriage status in a faceless forum like this.

Nairalanders opinion isn't the unadulterated way to conduct a survey on important social issues.

greiboy:


You have some points. It's true that Bro Toks is the guy most nairalanders love to talk over his relationship status, but it's also true that Bros Toks loves giving relationship advice. Hence, he should be ready to expose himself to a fair amount of criticism from the audience.

However, I don't take such shamming as the genuine opinion of the society. I think it's just a measure of defense mechanism used by some audience to change the topic of discussion that addresses them and paints them in a bad light, others might just be having fun trolling him.

Same thing can be said of men insulting women's marriage status in a faceless forum like this.

Nairalanders opinion isn't the unadulterated way to conduct a survey on important social issues.

LOL. You know why I loled?
You just finish work. I couldn't find any loophole
So, I give up.

But, NLDERS are the same people out there. Abi na ghosts dey type? Na humans naw.

AntiBrutus:


LOL. You know why I loled?
You just finish work. I couldn't find any loophole
So, I give up.

But, NLDERS are the same people out there. Abi na ghosts dey type? Na humans naw.

There opinion will differ in reality

donstan18:
She's one of the frustrated aged single ladies, we know their type.......Their online behaviors and characters are like a university 4 years course.


Level 100: When they gain admission into 30s, they'll be like..... Marriage is not for everyone, i like being alone to avoid being controlled by any man, I don't even need a man.


Level 200: They'll be become more aggressive and start abusing and trolling men upandan on social media, venting their frustration on men due the numerous breakups they'v gotten from men, lol. They'll hide under the shield of feminism to bash men, while deep inside them, they so much need men.

Level 300: After seeing their carryover(Not getting attention from men) as a result of insulting men, they'll now become humble, they won't insult men again, they'll start playing neutral in issues for them to get support and attention from men online.


Level 400: They'll graduate from playing neutral and start asslicking men, They'll support whatever a man say online, even when a man bash a woman, they still support him by shouting 'Wow, wow, wow' like an ambulance.

If you are an aged single woman reading this, I Donstan is personally telling you to change your ways and settle with a man, their are many hardworking and successful men looking for a wife, but no man will want to marry a one time men hater. Go and marry, deep inside you, you need a man, stop deceiving yourself

You just describe the chronicles of that brutus chick..she just entered 300 level...