Hello Nlanders,

I met a guy recently and he claimed he is in love with me.  He said he wants to marry me that i should please open up to him and be closer which i tried to do.  But the problem is he wants intimacy (Sex) which i declined because i just met him.  Please am i wrong to do so? Or all he wants from me is Sex. I am somehow confused.

give him what he wants

You should know better by now that if you just met someone and they are already saying they love you and want to marry you then they are only telling you what you want to hear so as to spread the legs. Anyway it may not be so but you will have to figure that one out yourself

Do what you want sweetheart ( its ur body remember )

how old r u and r u a virgin?
if yes kick d guy out, if no. well na u sabi.

all he wants from me is intimacy. I am somehow confused.
[quote][/quote] @Emmbi LISTEN TO THE VOICE OF WISDOM, DONT EVER GIVE IT TO HIM UNTIL BOTH OF YOU ARE LEGALY MARRIED, DONT DEFY YOUR BODY AND LATER LIVE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE IN REGRET, IF HE TRULY LOVES YOU AS HE CLAIMED HE WILL CONSIDER YOUR INTEREST AND WAIT TILL YOU BOTH ARE MARRIED,  GIVING HIM WHAT HE WANTS WILL DOES NOT GUARANTEE HIM BEING YOURS,

What do u mean by wantin u 4 se.X? Weather he loves u or not or wants 2 marry or not he will definitly want u 4 se.x.

Poster,

what you have done is completely right and correct! Please gurl, whatever you do, if you have doubts and you feel you are not ready, dont ever do it!

But if you are comfortable and you feel that u are fully ready and you trust the guy and all without having a slight doubt, and you feel that its the right moment, than you do it.

Never let yourself fall into se*x just because he wants it and you dont. Never let him threaten you to do what ypou dont want to do. if he forces you or threaten you for your V, that means he was never the guy for you to begin with.

if you do it full heartedly, you wil always cherish the day you got disvirgin and also you will never ever regret it.

Listen to someone whom have tasted the chilli.  If you need to talk to someone, holler. I will share with you my xperience if you want. 

@gabry, i have same problem, pls can u help me with ur gist, gbachano@yahoo.com, she refused to marry me cos i hvnt had se=x with her. is fustrating, i will luv u 2 share ur experience with me so dat i can learn.

Madukaele:

@gabry, i have same problem, pls can u help me with your gist, gbachano@yahoo.com, she refused to marry me cos i hvnt had se=x with her. is fustrating, i will luv u 2 share your experience with me so dat i can learn.

na waa wetin be this sef?

U are a guy naa. If you want to marry her but she wants you to screw her first, than feel free to screw her and than marry her and than live happily ever aqfter naa. Wetin U want me to say sef?


Im a female oo, not a male and Im offering the poster help cause I know how is she feeling. I was there at her spot and I knew what she is going through

^^ come on , i still need tips, pls help me with ur experince and stuff. come on pls. am confussed

Madukaele:

^^ come on , i still need tips, pls help me with your experince and stuff. come on pls. am confussed

u mean u are  virgin abi?

Gab,
I have same problem and I'm interested in Your gist.

Missy B:

Gab,
I have same problem and I'm interested in Your gist.

LMAO!!!! I know what you are thinkin! HAHAH!

@gabry , yes pls, am in need of help. urgent na God send u.post it in my box.

Please, Gab, don't send it to his inbox. Post it here, so I can read too.

Missy B:

Please, Gab, don't send it to his inbox. Post it here, so I can read too.

we need privacy.lol post ur mail also na

Privacy kè!!!
A healthy thrèesome isn't bad. Oya, the gist.

Missy B:

Privacy kè!!!
A healthy thrèesome isn't bad. Oya, the gist.

party .lol ,i b virgin oo. i beg no spoil me 

Madukaele:

triple sin .lol ,i b virgin oo. i beg no spoil me 

Virgin?
Come closer, I'D like to verify this claim.

190, miss b, me and poster dey intrested . lol dis one don pass 3some ooo, gabry were u dey? show face make we discuss dis stuff.

Missy B:

Virgin?
Come closer, I'D like to verify this claim.

me b virgin oo, were i go met u make u verify?

@ joe for antichrist , I know you are one of these holier -thou - peeps . Wetin you day find for romance sef ?
@ poster I fink its better you give the guy to cement the relationship except you are a virgin and I'm sure you ain't.

Ok, so you find someone you like and you want to act like a virgin. Ok men there is a lesson: To get the goodies do not let these women think you love them.

give it to him before someone else does

richard69:

@ joe for antichrist , I know you are one of these holier -thou - peeps . Wetin you day find for romance sef ?
@ poster I fink its better you give the guy to cement the relationship except you are a virgin and I'm sure you ain't.

Hey! come on now, let the guy be. Why the sudden attack? Besides he's only giving out his own opinion just as u did urs so what's ur problem wif that!?

@Poster. If i may ask, do u REALLY love the guy in question? What do u expect from him & from the relationship? How old r u? Before u make any decision, u need to search urself well for u to know what u want & needed most so that u won't make a mistake that will cost u urself. Otherwise if u're not really sure of ur self to come to this, then I'ill advice u not to proceed any further.
The choice is urs.

'Give the Dog a bone'

Na wa oh. Wat is dis life turng to? U meet a guy dis week, d followg week he is asking 4 closeness. Dat is pure RUBBISH 2 me. D guy is a DESPERADO u wants 2 eats his bone quik quik. Lots of Nonsenses happeng in relatnshp. @poster, dont do wat ur mind is against. U ar d umpire in dis case.THINK VeRY WELL, WEIGH ALL D OPTIONS N CONSEQUENCES B4 U GIVE IN. takia.

OMG! See how Ho**ny Nairalanders can be.

I am an open persin and I dont mind sharing my intimate experience with you but I dont like sharing it with people whom is going to yarn rubbish after that so nope. lets just keep it that way

^
cn you share some with me i dnt kiss nd tell