7 THINGS MEN PREFER IN WOMEN MORE THAN GOOD LOOKS

While great relationships start with mutual attraction, in the long run, the relationship is destined to fail if the couple lacks compatibility. Curious to know what men truly look for when they want to enter a committed relationship? Here is a list of traits that are far more important than beauty.

1. Confidence

A good boyfriend strives to make his Significant Other feel special, but there is nothing sexier than a woman who understands her own worth. Men might like a girl with a pretty face and nice figure, but if she is in need of constant reassurances that they are attractive or cannot accept a compliment, it will eventually wear a guy down and he will move on to a woman who is happy with who she is.

2. A Sense of Humor

A woman might be drop-dead gorgeous, but she will never win a place in a man’s heart unless she has the ability to make him laugh. A great sense of humor is the perfect way to alleviate stress and allows the couple to bond. A witty joke or an occasional sneaky, light-hearted prank will score a woman big time points with her man.

3. A listening spirit


Most men appreciate women who are able to just listen – no “ I told you so” lines, no lectures, tips or comments regarding what you would do if you were in his place. You know… just sitting, listening (and I mean REALLY listening)… just showing that you care.

Oh, and that involves being patient as well, understanding that most men need to “process” their problems before they can talk about them and learn to say, “Okay, baby, whenever you want to talk about it – I’m here for you”.

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4. A Willingness to Accept His Flaws


One of the keys to a healthy relationship is understanding that your partner is not perfect.

This is why men want women who are not overly critical and who don’t seek to change them. If a woman can love him for his goofy fashion sense or his eccentric personality, they are on their way to relationship success.

5. Creativity

It goes without saying that a relationship is more rewarding if the couple involved have a free-spirit and creative mind. It always keeps things interesting and creates a sense of purpose. For example, women who surprise her man by writing him a story or painting him a picture stands a great chance of winning his heart forever.

6. A Drama-free Personality


Life is like a roller coaster. Some days will be good and others will be completely rotten. However, it is unnecessary for every little problem to explode into a major conflict. Women who have the right perspective and do not make mountains out of molehills will find it far easier to win their man over.

7. A Compromiser

Having disagreements is a perfectly normal part of a relationship. However, stubbornness and an “my way or the highway” only leads to misery. This is why men appreciate women who are able to negotiate and find a solution that satisfies both partners. This could be true for hobbies (i.e, the guy takes his girl to a football game in exchange for her taking him to a musical) but will especially come in handy when it comes to important matters such as raising children together

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True.

Women also look out for those characters in men, except if she's a lover of money.

cook.
open legs
respect me.

For me: Things I look out for is.

1.Selflessness - I hate that entitlement mentality.
2.Emotional Intelligence
3.Extremely passionate and spontaneous
4.Good sense of humour, someone that can make me laugh and also laugh when I tease her.
5. A bit reserved...I hate when women act sluttish...
6. Stylish..!!
7. Career driven, but Family centred - I would like to have a well raised kids.

mtcheew.

Fkforyou:
For me: Things I look out for is.

1.Selflessness - I hate that entitlement mentality.
2.Emotional Intelligence
3.Extremely passionate and spontaneous
4.Good sense of humour, someone that can make me laugh and also laugh when I tease her.
5. A bit reserved...I hate when women act sluttish...
6. Stylish..!!
7. Career driven, but Family centred - I would like to have a well raised kids.

Even if the woman possesses these aforementioned attributes and more ,she might still get heartbroken and butthurt.

waiting for the crew that will yinmu at the list. but still follow it and expect it.

ubunja:
cook.
open legs
respect me.

straight to the point, no wasting time. Nice

Safiaa:
straight to the point, no wasting time Nice

thats what most men basically want though.

ubunja:

thats what most men basically want though.

yeah on top that, you value looks more than anything.

Safiaa:
yeah on top that, you value looks more than anything.

true true. we're shallow as hell.

ubunja:

true true. we're shallow as hell.

yup

Fkforyou:
For me: Things I look out for is.

1.Selflessness - I hate that entitlement mentality.
2.Emotional Intelligence
3.Extremely passionate and spontaneous
4.Good sense of humour, someone that can make me laugh and also laugh when I tease her.
5. A bit reserved...I hate when women act sluttish...
6. Stylish..!!
7. Career driven, but Family centred - I would like to have a well raised kids.

I agree with you

Preshy561:
mtcheew.

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You Don Tire For This Kind Post

IamPlato:
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You Don Tire For This Kind Post

nobi small.

Preshy561:
nobi small.

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Lol.

Just Go And Sleep Before Another Person Annoys you

IamPlato:
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Lol.

Just Go And Sleep Before Another Person Annoys you

loolz.

ubunja:

[s]thats what most men basically want though[/s].

which men are you talking about?

I so much like the 3, 5 and 7 in a girl

Hanseel1:



which men are you talking about?

from your signature its clear what type of man you are. and you're excluded from the men i was talking about

ubunja:

from your signature its clear what type of man you are. and you're excluded from the men i was talking about

E go shock you last last

Don't allow your woman to work and contribute to the family... tell her to drop her career and stay at home to look after kids...

When she files for divorce anytime be ready to go back to square zero..

One of the reasons why court favors women is because of men like you... the judges will tell you since the woman dropped her ambitions and career because you told her to she has to be compensated so that she won't suffer when she leave the marriage....


Bros shine your eyes!

like I said earlier "E go shock you last last "

Hanseel1:


E go shock you last last

Don't allow your woman to work and contribute to the family... tell her to drop her career and stay at home to look after kids...

When she files for divorce anytime be ready to go back to square zero..

One of the reasons why court favors women is because of men like you... the judges will tell you since the woman dropped her ambitions and career because you told her to she has to be compensated so that she won't suffer when she leave the marriage....


Bros shine your eyes!

like I said earlier "E go shock you last last "

are you in america?

ubunja:

are you in america?

lmao.. see this man..

such things are already happening in Zimbabwe, Kenya, Tanzania, Uganda, South Africa and Some parts of west Africa...


E go shock you last last

Hanseel1:


lmao.. see this man..

such things are already happening in Zimbabwe, Kenya, Tanzania, Uganda, South Africa and Some parts of west Africa...


E go shock you last last

dont read american stories and live by them. you're not in america.

ubunja:

dont read american stories and live by them. you're not in america.

E go shock you last last.... just get married and do all these rants you've been ranting here you'll know whether I was reading American stories


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Hanseel1:



E go shock you last last.... just get married and do all these rants you've been ranting here you'll know whether I was reading American stories


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go out and see real life. dont live by feminist threads that are out of touch with reality. you busy comparinf africa to america when even nigeria rape is the easiest crime to get away with.
smh. male feminists will always be dellusional

ubunja:

go out and see real life. dont live by feminist threads that are out of touch with reality. you busy comparinf africa to america when even nigeria rape is the easiest crime to get away with.
smh. male feminists will always be dellusional

k

ubunja:

go out and see real life. dont live by feminist threads that are out of touch with reality. you busy comparinf africa to america when even nigeria rape is the easiest crime to get away with.
smh. male feminists will always be dellusional

If you don't want to suffer in the end you better don't make your wife quit her career to became a full time housewife because you'll be the one to regret it later.

#A word is enough for the wise

Hanseel1:


If you don't want to suffer in the end you better don't make your wife quit her career to became a full time housewife because you'll be the one to regret it later.

#A word is enough for the wise

take a walk male feminist

I'll prefer a 17 to 22yrs old virgin......else I'll pass! That's my criteria for Nigerian ladies

Safiaa:
straight to the point, no wasting time. Nice

I see you're crushing on Ubunja but you scared to say it

Hanseel1:



E go shock you last last.... just get married and do all these rants you've been ranting here you'll know whether I was reading American stories


cc ladyhippolyta, Shaybebaby, Xinsin, Kimbraa, Livingfree

This one don call him crew. So you're a male feminist??