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how far can love really endure by Nenum(m): 4:33am On Jun 17, 2010
Yes i know you love your spouse.

But lets just solve this puzzle together.
What of if all he/she has (looks, money, car, house,) leave him/her one day, how long can you stay, before it would be said that you have endured enough in order to move on (3,6,9 months, or a year)

A friend had this glorious relationship (Romeo and Juliet). he was any lady's ideal man.
One day he opted to travel by road (turning down the option to fly) and the unthinkable happened, his bus was robbed and the robbers left bullet holes not just in the body of the car but also in his left knee (his leg was amputated as a result of bad medical care).

He has spend almost every thing, he had, he could not get back to his job, sold his cars, left his apartment to move back in with his folks.

yes his Gf initially was very helpful all d way.
but you know with the new situation a lot creeped into the relationship (trust, self pity, constant referral to the past)

It was all 2 much (now she asked how much more can she take, yes she loves him but everything has gone upside down)
Re: how far can love really endure by iice(f): 4:37am On Jun 17, 2010
Nenum:

he was any lady's ideal man.

Story.


@Post. . .situations like that are life altering.
Re: how far can love really endure by Nenum(m): 4:45am On Jun 17, 2010
iice:

Story.


@Post. . .situations like that are life altering.

then, why do people claim they are in Relationships becuz of "love"

That means we all should just pray that we do not see what would help us re-define love.

(make the most of your relationship now that you can)
Re: how far can love really endure by Nobody: 4:49am On Jun 17, 2010
geez i hve never for once fallen in love. .but i really cant reckon if i believe in it eitherlipsrsealed
Re: how far can love really endure by Pweety4me(f): 4:49am On Jun 17, 2010
Rove lives inside abi?i mean d epitome of the heart tongue so the 1 enduring it is d 1 carrying it not d rove itself cause it's not human!.
Re: how far can love really endure by kashmo: 4:55am On Jun 17, 2010
Nenum:

then, why do people claim they are in Relationships becuz of "love"

That means we all should just pray that we do not see what would help us re-define love.

(make the most of your relationship now that you can)

I concur with you bro! The way i see it, we need to evaluate this loving you thingy. Many claimed to have a genuine Love in a relationship, but when the ship sinks & the ifs start creeping up, you see the bigger picture and how feeble most people get. No one knows how deep and genuine the Love we share for each other is.
Re: how far can love really endure by iice(f): 4:57am On Jun 17, 2010
Nenum:

then, why do people claim they are in Relationships becuz of "love"

That means we all should just pray that we do not see what would help us re-define love.

(make the most of your relationship now that you can)

love is not a something on its own, it's just a term.  We humans give it life. . .thus, our love is subject to our interpretation/manipulation/strength/weakness.  
Re: how far can love really endure by Nenum(m): 4:57am On Jun 17, 2010
luizworld:

geez i hve never for once fallen in love. .but i really cant reckon if i believe in it eitherlipsrsealed

lol

trust me dere is nothing called love.
i rather use the word present compatibility (these you know can change at any time)

Pweety4me:

Rove lives inside abi?i mean d epitome of the heart tongue so the 1 enduring it is d 1 carrying it not d rove itself cause it's not human!.

na you know wetin you dey quote oooo
Re: how far can love really endure by Pweety4me(f): 4:58am On Jun 17, 2010
Nenum:



na you know wetin you dey quote oooo
Meaning?
Re: how far can love really endure by Nenum(m): 4:59am On Jun 17, 2010
Pweety4me:

Meaning?

just help translate your quote.

cheers
Re: how far can love really endure by femmy2010(m): 5:00am On Jun 17, 2010
True love would stick to him no matter what.
Re: how far can love really endure by Nobody: 5:01am On Jun 17, 2010
@poster
not everyone can suddenly stand and accept hardship, especially if they only known the easy lifestyle all their lives. the gal is accustomed to carefree life where everything was perfect. its the ying yang of life and many can only take the good/positive part.
forget the lack money, just have him amputated and see ladies run for their lives.
Re: how far can love really endure by Pweety4me(f): 5:01am On Jun 17, 2010
Nenum:

just help translate your quote.

cheers
Hehe i thought ur Rove was strong?we'll only the deep hearted can understand. tongue grin cool
Re: how far can love really endure by Nenum(m): 5:06am On Jun 17, 2010
Pweety4me:

Hehe i thought your Rove was strong?we'll only the deep hearted can understand. tongue grin cool

tot u wanna help.

well rite now, i ain't deep hearted.

imagine I am asking pweety4me (still yet she dey use me form) for translation help, this must be serious.

what was the initial post sef. lol
Re: how far can love really endure by Pweety4me(f): 5:15am On Jun 17, 2010
^Ok wat i am saying is similiar 2 wat iice is. . .love is felt right?by a human being love does not work on it's own it can't!the person beholding(feeling) it is the 1 who is in-control handling or in your words endure.

[s]2 be honest i dunno a thing about love, i'm just using knowledge & common sense. [/s] lipsrsealed grin
Re: how far can love really endure by Nenum(m): 5:18am On Jun 17, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

@poster
not everyone can suddenly stand and accept hardship, especially if they only known the easy lifestyle all their lives. the gal is accustomed to carefree life where everything was perfect. its the ying yang of life and many can only take the good/positive part.
forget the lack money, just have him amputated and see ladies run for their lives.

well i happened to know them both,
i guess the lady in question has tried her best (my own witness opinion)
But lets face it, as i did tell her if it was my sister what would i tell her to do.

i also asked mi gf aldo jokingly that if it was me what would she do (she was practically crying and asked that i never asked, pray or thot in that manner) i wonder how my friend said his own prayer's.

but the bottom line is within emotions she stylisly did not answer me either (i know she loves me ooooooo) lol

but we never know how much our "love can endure" and dats my question

As my friend would say

"lets pray that we never find our self in a position to question how much our love can endure"
Re: how far can love really endure by Nenum(m): 5:23am On Jun 17, 2010
Pweety4me:

^Ok wat i am saying is similiar 2 wat iice is. . .love is felt right?by a human being love does not work on it's own it can't!the person beholding(feeling) it is the 1 who is in-control handling or in your words endure.

[s]2 be honest i dunno a thing about love, i'm just using knowledge & common sense. [/s] lipsrsealed grin

lol. tanks

now dats d pweety4me i wanna know.
hope i ain't pushing mi luck too far. ooops
Re: how far can love really endure by Pweety4me(f): 5:25am On Jun 17, 2010
Nope not @ all. smiley
Re: how far can love really endure by Nenum(m): 5:40am On Jun 17, 2010
Pweety4me:

Nope not @ all. smiley

hmmmmmm
Re: how far can love really endure by Carolece(f): 5:50am On Jun 17, 2010
If she's still with him, taking care of him and all, I belive she loves the man indeed. Taking physical care of a person who you love and once knew as an able bodied person, it can put so much strain on you. I think she is stressed and not really second guessing if she should leave him just because of his situtation that he is in now. She would be long gone if she was with him for what he has and for how he looks. I wish them (her) the best though.
Re: how far can love really endure by Pweety4me(f): 5:54am On Jun 17, 2010
Nenum:

hmmmmmm
Y do u keep 'hmmming'?
Re: how far can love really endure by Nenum(m): 5:57am On Jun 17, 2010
Carolece:

If she's still with him, taking care of him and all, I belive she loves the man indeed. Taking physical care of a person who you love and once knew as an able bodied person, it can put so much strain on you. I think she is stressed and not really second guessing if she should leave him just because of his situtation that he is in now. She would be long gone if she was with him for what he has and for how he looks. I wish them (her) the best though.

so you are saying if she leaves history would still be fair to her.

Pweety4me:

Y do u keep 'hmmming'?

Thot process, dats all
Re: how far can love really endure by Carolece(f): 6:01am On Jun 17, 2010
somewhat!

If she's crying out for help and aint getting or is forced over the edge (to leave) then I wouldnt say its her fault, as some people are not built to handle everything, I'd say, she tried and deserve some credit, as some people would just hop out without even thinking.
Re: how far can love really endure by Nobody: 6:16am On Jun 17, 2010
When u can't wrap your head around where life wants yu to go, just follow your heart and let it lead you there. Love will never fail you, even when blind! cool
Re: how far can love really endure by Pweety4me(f): 6:18am On Jun 17, 2010
luizworld:

When u can't wrap your head around where life wants yu to go, just follow your heart and let it lead you there. Love will never fail you, even when blind! cool
Be quiet u dunno a thing about 'love' & u have already mentioned dat stop all these rada rada quotes abeg. angry lipsrsealed
Re: how far can love really endure by Nenum(m): 6:19am On Jun 17, 2010
luizworld:

When u can't wrap your head around where life wants yu to go, just follow your heart and let it lead you there. Love will never fail you, even when blind! cool

please DO NOT add blind to the list.
how can a blind man see where love is?
Re: how far can love really endure by Pweety4me(f): 6:23am On Jun 17, 2010
^He feels it.
Re: how far can love really endure by Nobody: 7:56am On Jun 17, 2010
Pweety4me:

Be quiet u dunno a thing about 'love' & u have already mentioned dat stop all these rada rada quotes abeg. angry lipsrsealed
e dey pain you grin
Nenum:

please DO NOT add blind to the list.
how can a blind man see where love is?
my brother things dey happen. u just have to shine ur eyes well well cheesy
Re: how far can love really endure by Nobody: 8:15am On Jun 17, 2010
Thats why I believe the whole 'love' thing is a farce. You're taking it too far sef, it doesn't have to take an amputation or disablement to tear the farce to shreds. Other external influences and vicissitudes of life (hardships, pressure, etc) are sufficient to expose the sham for what it is.

And talking about everything being temporary, thats why I pity some girls that make a big deal of their so-called beauty. All it takes is a splash of acid hot oil on your beyoncé face by a hater and you'd be reduced to a horrific gargoyle - effectively ending your fine-girl career, and any hope of marriage to any of your many boyfriends.

Everything in life is conditional and temporary, including 'love' itself.
Re: how far can love really endure by Nenum(m): 10:57am On Jun 18, 2010
pro01:

Thats why I believe the whole 'love' thing is a farce. You're taking it too far sef, it doesn't have to take an amputation or disablement to tear the farce to shreds. Other external influences and vicissitudes of life (hardships, pressure, etc) are sufficient to expose the sham for what it is.

And talking about everything being temporary, thats why I pity some girls that make a big deal of their so-called beauty. All it takes is a splash of acid hot oil on your beyoncé face by a hater and you'd be reduced to a horrific gargoyle - effectively ending your fine-girl career, and any hope of marriage to any of your many boyfriends.

Everything in life is conditional and temporary, including 'love' itself.


My dear i would slightly disagree with the above quote.
lets start by saying yes it is temporary, of course everything in life is temporal but it is now left to various individuals, if they want to make it permanent.
you must work on love likewise marriage on till u die.

Dere is no "we have found love so lets just chill and enjoy the relationship".
It is continuous work to keep growing love from it's temporal state to the permanent one (which has never been totally attain by any man living)
Re: how far can love really endure by Nobody: 11:26am On Jun 18, 2010
true love is at infinity, that is for better for worst cool

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