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Real Reasons Why A Man Can Not Be Friend With A Woman Without Sex? by TheMenCode: 12:32am On Jul 31, 2018
For a man to be 'friend' with a woman without sex
is asking to suppress his sexual desire and want him
to act like a 'girlfriend' to the woman. This notion
of wanting male to be friends with a female without sexual
desire came from an egalitarian equalism
(http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/03/30/how-equalism-like-feminism-is-keeping-women-in-epiphany-phase-of-her-life/)
mindset, if male and female are equal and same. Therefore,
they can be perfect friends without sex.

In reality, we have seem how impossible this can be because
men can't just be friend with a woman without sexual tension.
Men would prefer to be 'friends' with a coworker, relatives,
mother, and women they already had sex with...if he's the good ex.

Nothing a woman does without meaning.
Her choice to be 'friend' with a man must benefit her in some way,
it's either she's already sexually attracted to the man or she want
him for attention, validation and provisioning.

If she's sexually attracted, the man has a better chance of getting
sex in the friendship but if her friendship is for the man to offer her attention,
validation and provisioning only,
then the man becomes her surrogate boyfriend.

He's the man that takes care of her emotional responsibilities
and also understand and accepted that she will not reciprocate
him with sex. Basically, the guy takes care of her emotional needs
and the REAL boyfriend takes care of her sexual needs.

It's ordinarily impossible to want a man to suppress his
sexual desire for a woman and just be 'friends'.
The same way it's impossible to expect a woman to
forgoes her desire to marry up, to be with a high value
man that fulfills her emotional desires, provisioning and parental needs....read more=>
http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/07/30/inter-and-intragender-friendship/

Re: Real Reasons Why A Man Can Not Be Friend With A Woman Without Sex? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:13am On Jul 31, 2018

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