So today I was chatting with a friend who told me she thinks her mom is having an affair with someone at her job. She is pretty sure about it as she has been seeing them out on dates and even kissing at times. Her mom does nothing to cover up that she is having the relationship because she knows her daughter would not tell.

My question to her now, what if you dad should know? Her question was how would he? I was like, so you wouldnt tell your dad your mom is having an affair? Obviously she said no, then went on to add but if it was dad she'd tell mom.

I disagree. If mom's going to know about dad, I think the same should go the other way, dad should know too.

Agree?
Disagree?

Very convoluted but I agree.

Right! It would be hard but I guess thats what I would have to do.

Obviously! It should be 50-50

i guess your friend mum need a sexual satisfaction maybe his husband is rubbish on bed n that's why she's messing about with another man

@poster

if i had a crack at it, i wuldnt dream of getting hitched to your friend cos if she cant squeal wen moms playing hanky panky wit anoda dude straffin her ma's "p" den i guess she wuld do same to hubby and not say a word.

she shuld tell dad like dis:

' dadi o dadi, dadi wen u con go jolly somebody enta 4 mommy house, sidon 4 momi bed, peson push mumi, mumi push peson, peson push momi, small time momi con yakata 4 bed ooo'

decon stat to dey do kerewa, kerewa, kerewa o, kerewawa

gban gban gban, gban gban gban, na who con enta 4 momi's house ooooooo

^^ Trust me, Coralece will need a translation for that.

Poor dad. . .but why should your friend think there's nothing wrong in what her mum is doing;but seeing it a crime the other way? She'll definately do same to her own hubby too.

If the reverse is the case heaven will let loose.

Big-Man:

If the reverse is the case heaven will let loose.

Abi oooo!

I was wondering about the same thing before i stumbled on your reply.A mother/wife is cheating on her husband, her daughter knows about it and everything is "cool".No worries.If it was the father who was cheating on the mom, this thread would have been 300 pages long by now with all the NL chicks screaming blue murder,giving all sorts of advice and baying for blood but hey. . .no worries.It's just a guy/husband/father being cheated on and no biggie.

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The most annoying thing is the man in question might be a very loving and caring husband who is doing all he can to provide for his family, doing his best to keep his wife happy and all that. . .but the woman can't help herself.It happens a lot in homes where the man is a "Mr Nice Guy" or "Mr Secure and Trusting".These men go into marriage believing that their wives will remain the same and even when the wife starts showing the "signs", he can't see beyond his nose coz he's either blinded by love or he's struggling to keep the family from breaking up.More info on this typical behavior from women can be found on this website :

http://womensinfidelity.com/

As much as i find myself attached to a woman to the extent i get married, i will definitely not give my heart out 100%.

The situation really sucks.

This is so sad because this mother has basically told her daughter that marriage is not honorable. Your friend will most likely not have a problem cheating on her husband. She will excuse it away after all her mother did it

see as iice's patience dey run dry. aha

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I'd hate to be in this situation. . . .the chick should tell her mom's sister/brother/uncle/aunt/mother/father etc, they can go from there. No child wants to feel like they destroyed their family.

some nijja women are very foolish i know men cheat with young girls but how could you, iyale ile open your legs for other men to hammer you, another mans property! shame on that woman i'd never cheat on whoever takes me to the alter if i'm continously not happy in my home and our union is hopeless i'd rather pack my shy"t than cheat on him

shy has to be wise not to break her parient union but at the same time she should look straight to her Mum's eye and tell her wat she is doing is wrong and ask her wat kind of up bringing is she showing her infact that woman is a disgrace to motherwood, hissed

whiteroses:

some nijja women are very foolish i know men cheat with young girls but how could you, iyale ile open your legs for other men to hammer you, another mans property! shame on that woman i'd never cheat on whoever takes me to the alter if i'm continously not happy in my home and our union is hopeless i'd rather pack my shy"t than cheat on him

Uhmmm so its okay for men to cheat on their wives with young girls but its not okay for their wives, ''the iyale ile'' to open her legs for other men to hammer her cuz she's another man's property

R3tr0st^r:

Uhmmm so its okay for men to cheat on their wives with young girls but its not okay for their wives, ''the iyale ile'' to open her legs for other men to hammer her cuz she's another man's property

If you pay attention to 99% of whiteroses posts you will realize that she basically lives by the principle that men behave like animals and it should be excused but at the same time she honestly believes that she is not insulting them LOL. That's the best way I can describe her comments honestly