YOU WERE LOYAL AND NEVER DEMANDING MONEY YET HE LEFT: HERE'S WHY!

Gone are the days when a loyal non-demanding girl means everything (days of our forefathers), great sex won't secure the bag either. Guys wanna be successful too these days.

The reason most men leave the woman they were dating while being broke/hustling and go to marry another lady after they start making good money or get a good job is sometimes due to the fact that the woman has been below par all these years or months they were together.

If you are not motivating then you're either demotivating or simply redundant, either ways that's being useless.

That a lady wasn't demanding for resources doesn't necessarily mean she's contributing to the overall growth of the man too. And a time will come when the resources of both the man and woman will become the sole responsibility of the man.

If as a woman you just sit there, you don't ask for money and you don't also motivate and push your man to achieve "HIS GOALS" you're as good as not being useful. It's better to be demanding and be a source of motivation and inspiration to him than to be a non demanding woman and yet he remains as he is or even regresses in his ambitions.

It's like having money sit in your bank account and the bank deducting charges without any interest over time compared to taking investment risks that could potentially blew your earnings or income thereby changing your fortune for the better.

Nobody will want to achieve their goals and dreams and lavish it on someone who never had one or contributed in any meaningful ways to their achievements. Also remember there are other women in the lives of these men who might be playing this important support role while you simply sit and think your no demanding and understanding status will land you a successful man. Yes! You might get lucky. But why wait on luck when you can help to fashion one.

Now, I know some people are going to say what about the men that their woman help to build them yet they left them. Well, that's a topic for another day. However, it might interest you to know that most of these so-called "after building him" women are actually the set of women talked about in this article, YES! (Oshe bricklayer )

Another thing you can do is building yourself or improving yourself to become a value on your own so that you don't become a dormant liability/asset, you're not deducting yet not contributing. That's as good as being useless. You can't really add any motivational or inspirational values to a person if you have no personal aspirations too.

This also applies to men in same measure. Don't just be the dicking one who relies in the goodness of bed performances to keep her else when she meets the ambitious one who also sparks her ambitions she's gonna have to leave too.

So, while you read this ponder upon it and ask yourself what kind of partner are you before you start crying that he left you.

So, think about this this lovely Monday morning as I wish you a beautiful week ahead.

#GoodMorning

Hmmmmm...true talk......it's not all about underneath the sheets

I don't quite agree.
A partner who wants to leave will leave irrespective of what you do for them.
The people they end dating, how did they contribute to their present status?
Because most times they end with people who were not there during their times of trials.

lovelybugs:
I don't quite agree.
A partner who wants to leave will leave irrespective of what you do for them.
The people they end dating, how did they contribute to their present status?
Because most times they end with people who were not there during their times of trials.

Yes you're right but I said once both of you are in love lack of motivation from one partner can ruin the whole thing, that's my point.

There must be love and will of staying committed in the first place.