I know am not perfect but people say we are good yet i lost my baby after one painful miscarriage

I don't know if anyone has passed 2ru my predicament. i was having issues during my gestation period, i cried to God to keep me and my baby, prayed like neva b4, declared and believed that God should save us, i even called pastor, Rev father and some people to help me in prayers, finally i lost the baby
I thank God for keeping me but honestly my hrt is broken beyond repairs. I so much believe in God, i know no power is stronger than His (in case the death of that child is as a result of evil manipulations) i know He is able to save the life of the child but He allowed that to happen


Now, my question is Do God pay good with bad/evil because am so confused and bittered, not dat am trying to count our good deeds, i know its nofin but am just confused. Hubby can borrow money to help someone who is in need, he can use his last money to work in God's vineyard. 4 my own side, every Sunday i don't rest, people will be in my house immediately after Sunday service till 12 midnight, i will serve them both lunch and dinner, i don't do that because am not tired of preparing meals but i do them because of God (most of them their wives are in nija and getting food here on Sundays is somehow difficult) I welcome everybody with Golden heart, visit motherless home sometimes etc but the death of this baby is trying to make me feel that being good is somehow useless but one thing i know is that i will neva give up on God even at this painful situation


Pls someone should tell God to Console me, people coming here to tell me sorry makes me more sad, the other man was praying for us, he said "God why this family? they can sacrifice alot to make someone else happy" that statement alone made me cry so much but i don't want to question God.

Pls I need bible messages to hold on my faith
Thanks

I believe in promotion after standing tall during the storm.... succes is knocking on the door when tough time calls



No matter my lot, though has taught me to say, it is well!

God saved you from death and here you are asking questions. In all things, give thanks. I guess you forgot that part in the bible.

I am very sorry for your loss may the lord grant you greater joy in future I believe he will surely because the bible tells us seek ye first the kingdom and everything shall be added unto you as you and your good husband seek to do what is right until God he is not blind to your heart he can see and he knows what you do for him. sometimes when negative things happen to us we fail to realise the positivity is ushers in our lives. Let me at this point encourage you to hold your faith in God because the battle is not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers believe it or not there are powers working against us but God works for us and with us with our God we must overcome the enemy. it is carnal knowledge that when the going gets tough the tough get going that said it is time you double your effort in the things of God not the ones that man can see and not the deeds you give yourself credit for but the ones that only you and God that sees your heart and in secrrt can appreciate God is fixed and doesn't fail. we suffe because of a void in our connection with him search yourselves strive to be better, God will surely fulfil his part of the bargain.
Get closer to God, change your hospital and be more proactive with your health matters because doctors really do not help issues sometimes. You will carry your baby next year IJN

Did you try to find out the cause, stress might have contributed.

Don't stop being good.

My sister had to wait for over 5 years to successfully birth a child after a couple of miscarriages.

Now I am uncle to a niece who is healthy, beautiful, mentally sound.

hmmm, God alone can console you ma. He can bless your Job with twin or triplet or something that would take away your pains, when next you wanna. Count your blessings ma. Think deeply, look around and you would see from the free air your breath , the earth on which you walk and work, the free water that is our life and so forth that there is hope abundant lurking in the space all around you. You may not see but the ever merciful, Just, and most benevolent supreme intelligence speaks to you His child all the time. What if your prayers have been answered by this incident? What if the baby had survived and be a source of greater and embarrassing pain to you and his generation? what ifs, a lot of what if s. Just be calm and let nature and time heal you.

[quote author=calaway post=71686228] I am very sorry for your loss may the lord grant you greater joy in future I believe he will surely because the bible tells us seek ye first the kingdom and everything shall be added unto you as you and your good husband seek to do what is right until God he is not blind to your heart he can see and he knows what you do for him. sometimes when negative things happen to us we fail to realise the positivity is ushers in our lives. Let me at this point encourage you to hold your faith in God because the battle is not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers believe it or not there are powers working against us but God works for us and with us with our God we must overcome the enemy. it is carnal knowledge that when the going gets tough the tough get going that said it is time you double your effort in the things of God not the ones that man can see and not the deeds you give yourself credit for but the ones that only you and God that sees your heart and in secrrt can appreciate God is fixed and doesn't fail. we suffe because of a void in our connection with him search yourselves strive to be better, God will surely fulfil his part of the bargain.
Get closer to God, change your hospital and be more proactive with your health matters because doctors really do not help issues sometimes. You will carry your baby next year IJN[Amen and Amen
Thanks so much i appreciate]

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Did you try to find out the cause, stress might have contributed.

Don't stop being good.

My sister had to wait for over 5 years to successfully birth a child after a couple of miscarriages.

Now I am uncle to a niece who is healthy, beautiful, mentally sound.

Not stress dear, after the first miscarriage i stopped work immediately i find out i was pregnant moreover i have people that help in some domestic chores
I believe God that helped ur sister will also help me
Thanks so much

To be honest... Good people seemed to be the worst victims of the unfairness of life... And I seemed to think God doesn't care for most of us (it doesn't matter if you pray, believe or have faith). Some people are simply the true victims of this life... and they are meant to bear the pain, shame and humiliation.

There is absolutely no other answer... God is a partial God... God bless those He chooses and curses those He chooses..

Nonetheless, the lucky and the unlucky have to keep pushing until the very end... That's life

Babacele:
hmmm, God alone can console you ma. He can bless your Job with twin or triplet or something that would take away your pains, when next you wanna. Count your blessings ma. Think deeply, look around and you would see from the free air your breath , the earth on which you walk and work, the free water that is our life and so forth that there is hope abundant lurking in the space all around you. You may not see but the ever merciful, Just, and most benevolent supreme intelligence speaks to you His child all the time. What if your prayers have been answered by this incident? What if the baby had survived and be a source of greater and embarrassing pain to you and his generation? what ifs, a lot of what if s. Just be calm and let nature and time heal you.

Thanks so much dear
U like right
As human its quite painful but its well

Amanda333:


Thanks so much dear
U like right
As human its quite painful but its well

thank you ma. the Lord is your strength.

dingbang:
God saved you from death and here you are asking questions. In all things, give thanks. I guess you forgot that part in the bible.

Exactly dear, He saved me from death and i appreciate Him for that, u may not understand how i feel
Thanks

Lots of things can cause miscarriage.
Arm yourself with knowledge.

truefact:
To be honest... Good people seemed to be the worst victims of the unfairness of life... And I seemed to think God doesn't care for most of us (it doesn't matter if you pray, believe or have faith). Some people are simply the true victims of this life... and they are meant to bear the pain, shame and humiliation.

There is absolutely no other answer... God is a partial God... God bless those He chooses and curses those He chooses

My dear, honestly is quite painful, sometimes i will be asking God, what is my offense. Those women that took in and carry their babies, are they more righteous than me or evil ones don't use to see them, i keep asking why me? why me? but i still believe He has reason 4 everything and i believe His plans for us is of good not of evil and He will surely perfect His good will
Its well dear, don't lose hope He is not a partial God

If its a of case choice, God will surely include us in His mercy list, our names will be among those He will choose to bless in Jesus name. Amen.

Babacele:
thank you ma. the Lord is your strength.

Amen

he's ways are not the ways of man. he sees what we can't see. he knows and understands us more than we do ourselves. a neighbor has been having miscarriages for 5 years and just last week she birthed her first child. God will bless you with yours too. we were even telling her to prepare for second missionary journey she almost cursed us. just prepare for your testimony

Amanda333:


Exactly dear, He saved me from death and i appreciate Him for that, u may not understand how i feel
Thanks

no! I do. But you should start being positive! You lack faith!

dingbang:
no! I do. But you should start being positive! You lack faith!

Alright dear
i have heard you
Thanks

chiommy123:
he's ways are not the ways of man. he sees what we can't see. he knows and understands us more than we do ourselves. a neighbor has been having miscarriages for 5 years and just last week she birthed her first child. God will bless you with yours too. we were even telling her to prepare for second missionary journey she almost cursed us. just prepare for your testimony

Amen and Amen
Thank you

It is well. You would come forth victorious and strong. You will make it

Amanda333, take heart for your loss. God will surely give you double for thy loss.

But you have to stop trusting on your good works and start trusting in his grace and loving kindness towards you and your family through Christ Jesus our mediator. May God heal and restore you speedily in Jesus Glorious name. Amen!

Madam forget that thing.

Everybody will experience their own fair share of the good and the bad in their lifetime.

Both the bad people and the good people will experience both good and bad things.

It is how you get over it that matters. After all you are still alive, what about the people that died the first time they experience their first tragic moment.

Just brace up, another child will come. Don’t stop being the good person that you are.


Moments like these is when I consume the highest amount of weed to tell myself that life goes on no matter what.

Amanda333,
These scripture verses (along with many others) have been some of the most comforting for me...through some very painful times in my life in terms of losing a loved one.
I hope these may help you.


Psalm 34:18 KJV

18The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit


Psalm 73:26 KJV
26 My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.

Romans 8:28 KJV
28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose

Matthew 5:4 KJV
4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.

Sorry ma, i dont even know what to say.

In John 16:33, Jesus said in this world you will have tribulation, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.


Be like Job and do not curse God and die even though your despair makes you feel like doing so. Like Job, you will have total recovery and smile at this experience.

After David's child died despite the way he fasted and prayed. But he shook it off like a real man of God. And God brought another child, the great king Solomon.

The bad people you are looking at who seem to be at peace are going through problems that are different from yours.

You will overcome in Jesus name.

Laird:
It is well. You would come forth victorious and strong. You will make it

Amen

bloodofthelamb:
Amanda333, take heart for your loss. God will surely give you double for thy loss.

But you have to stop trusting on your good works and start trusting in his grace and loving kindness towards you and your family through Christ Jesus our mediator. May God heal and restore you speedily in Jesus Glorious name. Amen!

Amen and Amen
Thanks

abdulaz:
Madam forget that thing.

Everybody will experience their own fair share of the good and the bad in their lifetime.

Both the bad people and the good people will experience both good and bad things.

It is how you get over it that matters. After all you are still alive, what about the people that died the first time they experience their first tragic moment.

Just brace up, another child will come. Don’t stop being the good person that you are.


Moments like these is when I consume the highest amount of weed to tell myself that life goes on no matter what.

U are right dear but say no to weed
Thanks so much

Mobilia:
Amanda333,
These scripture verses (along with many others) have been some of the most comforting for me...through some very painful times in my life in terms of losing a loved one.
I hope these may help you.


Psalm 34:18 KJV

18The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit


Psalm 73:26 KJV
26 My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.

Romans 8:28 KJV
28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose

Matthew 5:4 KJV
4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.

Thanks dear
I appreciate

lightwhite:
Sorry ma, i dont even know what to say.

In John 16:33, Jesus said in this world you will have tribulation, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.


Be like Job and do not curse God and die even though your despair makes you feel like doing so. Like Job, you will have total recovery and smile at this experience.

After David's child died despite the way he fasted and prayed. But he shook it off like a real man of God. And God brought another child, the great king Solomon.

The bad people you are looking at who seem to be at peace are going through problems that are different from yours.

You will overcome in Jesus name.

Amen and Amen
Thanks so much

Amanda333:
I know am not perfect but people say we are good yet i lost my baby after one painful miscarriage

I don't know if anyone has passed 2ru my predicament. i was having issues during my gestation period, i cried to God to keep me and my baby, prayed like neva b4, declared and believed that God should save us, i even called pastor, Rev father and some people to help me in prayers, finally i lost the baby
I thank God for keeping me but honestly my hrt is broken beyond repairs. I so much believe in God, i know no power is stronger than His (in case the death of that child is as a result of evil manipulations) i know He is able to save the life of the child but He allowed that to happen


Now, my question is Do God pay good with bad/evil because am so confused and bittered, not dat am trying to count our good deeds, i know its nofin but am just confused. Hubby can borrow money to help someone who is in need, he can use his last money to work in God's vineyard. 4 my own side, every Sunday i don't rest, people will be in my house immediately after Sunday service till 12 midnight, i will serve them both lunch and dinner, i don't do that because am not tired of preparing meals but i do them because of God (most of them their wives are in nija and getting food here on Sundays is somehow difficult) I welcome everybody with Golden heart, visit motherless home sometimes etc but the death of this baby is trying to make me feel that being good is somehow useless but one thing i know is that i will neva give up on God even at this painful situation


Pls someone should tell God to Console me, people coming here to tell me sorry makes me more sad, the other man was praying for us, he said "God why this family? they can sacrifice alot to make someone else happy" that statement alone made me cry so much but i don't want to question God.

Pls I need bible messages to hold on my faith
Thanks

sorry for your loss dear, but i want to let you know that God's not dead,he's surely alive,all the tribulations we may be passing through in our lives as Christians or children of God is for a while,God has his purpose for each and every one of us, all we have to do is to continue believing in him and never relent in staying strong in faith.The ultimate goal in our life is to live a life of holiness even in the face of trial and persecution.God bless us all and give us the grace to make heaven at last, amen

kasynlives:
sorry for your loss dear, but i want to let you know that God's not dead,he's surely alive...... all the tribulations we may be passing through in our lives as Christians or children of God is for a while.......God has his purpose for each and every one of us, all we have to do is to continue believing in him and never relent in staying strong in faith......The ultimate goal in our life is to live a life of holiness even in the face of trial and persecution......God bless us all and give us the grace to make heaven at last.... amen

Amen and Amen
Thanks so much

Amanda333:
Now, my question is Do God pay good with bad/evil because am so confused and bittered, not dat am trying to count our good deeds, i know its nofin but am just confused. Hubby can borrow money to help someone who is in need, he can use his last money to work in God's vineyard. 4 my own side, every Sunday i don't rest, people will be in my house immediately after Sunday service till 12 midnight, i will serve them both lunch and dinner, i don't do that because am not tired of preparing meals but i do them because of God (most of them their wives are in nija and getting food here on Sundays is somehow difficult) I welcome everybody with Golden heart, visit motherless home sometimes etc but the death of this baby is trying to make me feel that being good is somehow useless but one thing i know is that i will neva give up on God even at this painful situation
■ Pls someone should tell God to Console me, people coming here to tell me sorry makes me more sad, the other man was praying for us, he said "God why this family? they can sacrifice alot to make someone else happy" that statement alone made me cry so much but i don't want to question God. Pls I need bible messages to hold on my faith. Thanks

Human beings, probably paying you complement, told you that you are good and so in your mind, you take that to mean you are good(holy and righteous) in the eyes of God? Are you for real? Do you think humans are the standard as far as good and evil when it concerns the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob?

I am afraid religion, an evil against God, has done some serious evil to your mind that you now confuse your religious delusions with that which pertains to God and His standard which is His Law and Truth.

2. The way I see it, you should probably stop thinking of God. I say this because based on God's standard, you are probably no less evil than all those whom you think should get it worse than you.