I was in a relationship with this girl whom I truly loved and had plans to go see her parents. She broke up with me, said her family expects her to get married to a rich guy.
One month later I met another girl, I grew fond of this girl from day 1, and we have been together for 9months but I was scared to admit I loved her
I also tried not to do too much so it doesn't end up like the previous relationship because of what i went through.
Last month an old girlfriend of mine and I started chatting, I invited her over. My girlfriend saw our chat and for 2weeks she has been angry with me even blocked my calls and WhatsApp.
I have apologised severally and I've tried to prove to her that I'm sorry but it appears my effort makes things even worse.
Pls guys what should I do. I really want this girl back because she is the best thing that has happened to me in recent times.

Is it wrong if i got engaged to two sisters and marry the one who passes my tests?


Author: Relationship Coach Victor Unegbu

Published: 23rd December, 2018 on fixitnow101.com (your relationship panadol)

Someone asked me this question in owerri during my counselling session with singles. I laughed at it and then began to offload my thoughts thus:



Permit me to quote from Walter Trobish book titled: I LOVED A GIRL,

“In a heart where there is room for several, there is no room for one alone”.

It is a very bad idea. Okay, let me ask you a question. What if it happens that two or more of them passed your test?

In choosing a life partner, you must put your faith in action. Pray and lean on God; get some green light from Him who knows everything; then make your first step. The issue of taking two or more girls to a laboratory will only arise if you are genuine Christian who can pray his way through. Please note that marriage is not a trial and error affair. Try to prove what and who is the perfect will of God for you.

lol.. pls WHICH GIRL do you want back... because your super story sounds like THREE GIRLS are in the same pot of STEW here

muteki:
I was in a relationship with this girl whom I truly loved and had plans to go see her parents. She broke up with me, said her family expects her to get married to a rich guy.
One month later I met another girl, I grew fond of this girl from day 1, and we have been together for 9months but I was scared to admit I loved her
I also tried not to do too much so it doesn't end up like the previous relationship because of what i went through.
Last month an old girlfriend of mine and I started chatting, I invited her over. My girlfriend saw our chat and for 2weeks she has been angry with me even blocked my calls and WhatsApp.
I have apologised severally and I've tried to prove to her that I'm sorry but it appears my effort makes things even worse.
Pls guys what should I do. I really want this girl back because she is the best thing that has happened to me in recent times.

MJBOLT:

move on

Not really easy. Thanks anyway

greatnaija01:
lol.. pls WHICH GIRL do you want back... because your super story sounds like THREE GIRLS are in the same pot of STEW here

The one I've been with for 9months. I feel really bad knowing I betrayed her.

Let it be a life lesson for you... And pls stop abusing the word LOVE,. If you indeed loved that girl, you wouldnt have done what you did. So as much as you dont want to be honest with us, be honest to Yourself!

Its too simple.... MIRROR EFFECT solves this... do not call or text her... NO MATTER HOW YOU FEEL... she will soon break and unblock you and stalk you to know who you replaced her with... by then, simply show her you NEVER replaced her and you just respected her choice and she will GET MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU FOR YOUR MATURITY and once she is in that state.... MAKE YOUR MOVE.

muteki:



The one I've been with for 9months. I feel really bad knowing I betrayed her.

You don't know her house? Because she blocked you and she's not picking your call you can't stand up and go get your woman from the spot she's sitting?

greatnaija01:
Its too simple.... MIRROR EFFECT solves this... do not call or text her... NO MATTER HOW YOU FEEL... she will soon break and unblock you and stalk you to know who you replaced her with... by then, simply show her you NEVER replaced her and you just respected her choice and she will GET MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU FOR YOUR MATURITY and once she is in that state.... MAKE YOUR MOVE.

Thank u very much. U have been helpful. I've learnt my lessons already, too bad I had to learn it this way.

greatnaija01:
Its too simple.... MIRROR EFFECT solves this... do not call or text her... NO MATTER HOW YOU FEEL... she will soon break and unblock you and stalk you to know who you replaced her with... by then, simply show her you NEVER replaced her and you just respected her choice and she will GET MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU FOR YOUR MATURITY and once she is in that state.... MAKE YOUR MOVE.

You know too much about us.

PM me and teach me what I do not know and in exchange I could teach you too much about male folk too. I would like to make you my friend

MariaLavina:


You know too much about us.

kiddoiLL:
You don't know her house? Because she blocked you and she's not picking your call you can't stand up and go get your woman from the spot she's sitting?

Done this already, even went to her village(Akwa Ibom) from PHC on Saturday for a burial and so I could talk to her.

greatnaija01:
PM me and teach me what I do not know and in exchange I could teach you too much about male folk too. I would like to make you my friend

Are you sure about this?

victorunegbu:
Is it wrong if i got engaged to two sisters and marry the one who passes my tests?


Author: Relationship Coach Victor Unegbu

Published: 23rd December, 2018 on fixitnow101.com (your relationship panadol)

Someone asked me this question in owerri during my counselling session with singles. I laughed at it and then began to offload my thoughts thus:



Permit me to quote from Walter Trobish book titled: I LOVED A GIRL,

“In a heart where there is room for several, there is no room for one alone”.

It is a very bad idea. Okay, let me ask you a question. What if it happens that two or more of them passed your test?

In choosing a life partner, you must put your faith in action. Pray and lean on God; get some green light from Him who knows everything; then make your first step. The issue of taking two or more girls to a laboratory will only arise if you are genuine Christian who can pray his way through. Please note that marriage is not a trial and error affair. Try to prove what and who is the perfect will of God for you.

Thank you

WELL, I am not bragging or making exclusive promises... and am not asking to get your phone number... just email would do to teach you whatever u wanna know.

By God's grace I know I can answer your questions and explain better

MariaLavina:
Are you sure about this?

greatnaija01:
WELL, I am not bragging or making exclusive promises... and am not asking to get your phone number... just email would do to teach you whatever u wanna know.

By God's grace I know I can answer your questions and explain better

Alright then.

I will send you a pm.

greatnaija01:
PM me and teach me what I do not know and in exchange I could teach you too much about male folk too.

Bros Mbok, me sef want follow for the teaching job.

I get like 15yrs experience.

let her be for now..
if she Love's you she's gonna come back..

FYI delete every chat you have with any chick from your phone some guy's self you know your gf will snop around your phone yet you still keep what's gonna implicate you

greatnaija01:
Its too simple.... MIRROR EFFECT solves this... do not call or text her... NO MATTER HOW YOU FEEL... she will soon break and unblock you and stalk you to know who you replaced her with... by then, simply show her you NEVER replaced her and you just respected her choice and she will GET MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU FOR YOUR MATURITY and once she is in that state.... MAKE YOUR MOVE.

I ll go with this..Nice one

When will people stop giving silly advices in the name of wanting to be relevant....

Take your time op to flog yourself cos it is only a teenager that plays the kind of game you played.....

Beg her and after forgiveness go and sin no more........

MJBOLT:

move on